Let me mention a few names and you can tell me what they all have in common:
- Al Pacino
- Humphrey Bogart
- Napoleon
Okay, no surprise here… they’re all short guys. But you know what? They were all awesome with the ladies (and not just because of their celebrity status… they were all players before they became famous.)
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In fact, the reason they could attract girls was because of their strong inner attitude.
There are a couple things you can do in the short term. Wearing boots right now will subtly add 2 or 3 inches to your height.
Also, when you dress, wear vertical stripes and tight clothes. That will make you look SLENDER, which will make you appear taller.
Long term, one way short guys can be more dominant physically is to work out.
In fact that really should be first and foremost. If you’ve got muscles, it helps A LOT, not only with your physical appearance, but also with your confidence levels, strong inner attitude, and poise. So get in the gym.
When you’re muscular and you’re a short guy, you become like a pit bull. And by the way, I’d like you to experiment with that.. do not always be the nice guy who’s polite. For the next few months, try to let your “inner badass” come out a bit when you’re with girls.
Do the affirmation, “I’m becoming like the pitbull who can dominate the bigger dogs.”
Once you start feeling more and more confident in a few weeks, change your affirmation to,
“I AM like the pitbull who can dominate bigger dogs.”
I’ve noticed that a lot of short guys develop a VERY strong presence by having cultivated that inner badass.
Now, I’m not saying you should become a jerk… but just try to balance out that inner nice guy.
Next thing to do long term is to GIVE UP any approval-seeking.
Who cares what women think of you? Go through life doing what you want and being who you are. (That is so key by the way… those guys I list above were players exactly because they went through life doing what they wanted and being true to who they were.)
You see, short guys who are badasses really have a bit of an advantage. Because of their stature, they automatically are able to have more rapport with chicks (who tend to be short themselves) than the guys who are beanpoles. And when you add to that a bit of a “badboy” element, it makes chicks dripping wet with attraction.
The bottom line is this: only if YOU feel uncomfortable with your height will it affect you with the girls. If you feel completely comfortable with your height, then they will too.
By the way, when it comes to tall guys, what women find attractive about them isn’t their height. It’s their dominance. If you have a tight sense of inner confidence, and project a personality that sucks them in, height will be the furthest thing from their minds.
So to sum up, be true to yourself, take risks in life, cultivate your inner badass, and stop caring about anyone’s approval. And hit the gym ASAP. And do the fashion things I said.
Then you’ll attract girls without worrying about irrelevant things like height.
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John Alexander is the author of How to Become an Alpha Male, a girl-attracting success system that will have you easily drawing women toward you like a magnet.
John Alexander is a player. But he’s lazy. He does nothing and they all flock to him.
He doesn’t go out and approach a ton of women every night. He doesn’t memorize and practice scripts or routines.
And it’s not like he has any easy advantages. He doesn’t have a lot of money or a fancy car. He’s not a “pretty boy.” Or naturally charismatic.
And despite all of this, he doesn’t do much work to meet women.
Yet he finds himself in one “can’t-miss” situation after another…
…where hot young girls approach him… and then literally beg to take him home.
Now, get this… his success has nothing to do with him personally. The Alpha Male System he developed is killer.
Some guys call it the lazy man’s way to easy sex and romance.
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