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Carlos Xuma

Carlos Xuma is the real thing and I will not be wasting your time trying to sell you something he can show you himself.

Carlos Xuma - Dating Dynamics

Truth be told if you want to figure out who he is watch the videos below, or read through his articles and you will instantly see for yourself and come to you own conclusions.

This is no secret. If any guy… big, small, tall, weak, funny, bland, even missing an arm, has choices with women but can not keep them, maybe he just wants casual sex with beautiful women, if he asks me the one person (besides me of course) I would push to the top of list of men I have personally learned the most from…

It would be my Dad.

No.

Seriously. The choice is too obvious for me even to put in words on this page. If you haven’t figured it out, I’m really sorry man.

Back in the years 2000-2001 I met a woman who ripped my world apart and tore a hole in my personality.

Luckily I was determined to fix it and build a new self. I was no longer interested in repairing the hole. I tried that before and let’s face it, patching a hole will never last as long. It’s shotty and lazy workmanship. It’s the easy way out.

It was a slow crawl because I was literally clueless and I had no one to turn to for real advice. But I’m not going to tell you turn to Carlos. I’m not going to tell you he has all the answers you’re looking for. I can relate to you and you can relate to me on certain levels of dating and attraction and we can connect through our words and conversation but truthfully, I don’t know who you are, where you’re going, and what your goals are.

I made it though and I’m modestly proud of it. My determination paid off. Sure I can never reach to top because the journey is ongoing. I’m not perfect and never will be. Sure I’m as perfect as I’m going to be today but tomorrow is another day.

I’m telling you this because after all I’ve been through, after all my failures and successes, after all I’ve learned about women, I was faced with an interesting problem last year…

I met a flaker.

My gut told me what to do and I was all ready to trust it. That is until I received a letter from Carlos about dealing with flaky women. You see I was all set to call her out on it. I was stead fast in manning up to her and acting in which I thought was the alpha male role, I was ready to tell her exactly how I felt about her actions.

How they were uncalled for. How they were rude. How they were disrespectful of my time and she had wasted enough of it.

But then I heard this in Carlos’s letter to me,

“If a woman knows she can get a reaction from you. You’re done. If she knows your life was dependent on her, you’re done. If she begins to feel how easily you bend it’s considered a weakness. An alpha male does not act on what she does or says, he lives his life to the fullest regardless of her.”

He did not put those words exactly to me but that is what I heard. No matter what his intentions were he showed me the real truth behind the situation.

An Alpha male is not some brutish guy who feels the need to display his bravado or defend his land or the people within it, as we often have an image of a caveman defending his woman as being the alpha male.

Not at all.

An Alpha male is masculine yes. But he also is a self-contained confident man who when encounters a flaky woman never allows her to affect him.

You see, that is why I push him to the top. However he did it. What ever his intentions were. After all the progress I have made in my life, he still had something to teach me. And it wasn’t anything he’s going to hold back until you feel you’re ready for it. In fact that letter was written years before my flaky encounter and it still held true.

That is who Carlos Xuma is to me and I have the backing of hundreds of pages of my knowledge and experience to back up who I am.

I personally would like to thank Carlos for all his help, advice, and just for being there in every aspect of my business and dating life.

Thanks man.

I truly do appreciate what you have given me.

(And of course for always finding a way to make me laugh while you’re teaching me.)

Peter White – My Nice Guy’s Approach To Attraction – DiaLteG™

 

….you simply need to AVOID saying the wrong things most of the time and you’ll get the girl just as often. You see, even knowing exactly the RIGHT thing to say (the right words) is usually not enough to create attraction. You need a confident attitude, the right body language, correct timing, and solid inner game. However, this IS NOT true in reverse. Saying the WRONG thing CAN and WILL ruin your approach with a woman and blow things up in your face. Most success with women is simply NOT screwing up the easy stuff.”

—- Carlos Xuma

Here are the many pages or posts I have for Carlos Xuma here at Attraction Transformation or at DiaLteG ™:

Written by Carlos himself:

 

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