A friend of mine recently talked to me about how he was having trouble starting conversations with women.

He also mentioned that even when he gets lucky enough to talk her he struggles keeping the conversation from going stale or bland. His conversations just don’t seem to attract women. He makes great friends but nothing more.
I have noticed this a common problem for men and not just average looking guys. It also happens with the good-looking ones. And these are the same guys that can sit around talking with their guy friends for hours about nothing. But when they add a gorgeous women to the mix suddenly their mouth goes dry and their mind goes completely blank.
They push too hard and they ultimately fail to attract her with just their words and personality.
Here are a few facts:
- You do not have to be a great looking guy to attract women if you learn how to talk to them correctly.
- You can be a great looking guy and repel women from wanting a relationship with you because you just do not understand what an attractive conversation is about.
- Getting more dates requires at least an above average ability in your conversational skills.
- Women test you and you can test them right back successfully, if you know how to talk to them.
- Approaching women is always easier when you know what to say and how to lead the conversation to create and amplify attraction.
- Learning the skills of conversation means having the confidence to talk to any girl, anytime, anyplace.
I realize the magnitude of material you can buy to teach you these skills and I understand how hard it can be to choose the right one for you.
And let’s face it. The last thing you want to do is get all excited because you believe your new ebook will show you exactly how to talk to women, only to get shot down quickly. You begin to even feel more depressed because each failure means one less woman to make a great first impression on.
Below I’ve listed a ‘what you get’ comparison between two similar products but honestly, I’m willing to bet you’re here because you want to know without a doubt these more important questions,
- Can Carlos Xuma’s How to Talk To Women work for you? Do these kind of programs really work for any guy? Are they just a bunch of hype where only a small percentage of men actually benefit from them?
Truth be told. They do only work for a small percentage of men but trust me, that has nothing to do with the program at all. If you do the work, follow the blueprints he gives you, do your research, practice, practice, practice…within a short period of time you’ll notice amazing results. I just can not emphasize enough to any man I teach how important these skills are. And they transcend just attracting women.
This is not rocket science we’re talking about her or some physics class you hated. This is real information about conveying an attractive personality with communication but there’s no plug you can implant in your mind to have it work for you. It will require effort. If you’re typically lazy and put off things all the time or you get in the habit of starting things you never finish then nope, don’t buy it because Carlos is not some magic Jeanie granting wishes.
He is telling you this…
“Listen man. I know what it takes for a guy to talk to a woman. I’ve studied it and perfected my skills. I’ve talked to thousands of men and even more women and this stuff really does work. It’s not going to take a degree’s worth of time and effort but the more you put into it, the more you’re going to get out of it. Just like any new skill you begin to learn.”
- Is it easy to implement in your life?
He doesn’t call it master blueprints for nothing. Carlos is certainly a passionate man about his life, his music, his business, and his coaching, but you’ll notice quickly how he understands men just as much as he understands women. He realizes structure works. He understands how steps work. He understands how men learn the best. And most importantly he understands this material means nothing if any guy just like you, can not implement his blueprints into your life.
And lastly…
Won’t women hate me if they found out I bought this and won’t other guys think I’m a player or a creep for buying this?
Will you piss a few women off? Yeah probably. Some women for their own reasons don’t want you to learn this stuff. Will some women not ever believe it works? Of course but how do those women feel the men they have been with, got them in the first place. If it wasn’t their fancy car, or charming smile alone, then it was their ability to wow her with his conversations. And the majority of women do get that.
As for other guys thinking you’re a creep…Haha! I’m not going to tell you ‘who cares what they think‘ I’m sure you’ve heard that a thousand times.
I’m going to tell you those men who spend energy putting you down are scared.
They are too scared to do what you’re about to do.
Some are even scared you’re going to steal their next girlfriend.
Some are even worried about how you all of a suddenly starting flirting with their mom and it made her smile too. (from a personal experience of my own)
My point is fear and insecurity are the biggest reasons one man puts down another man and that has nothing to do with your choice. It’s all about them and not you.
And if you’re willing to drop the whole idea of getting some real help from a guy who wants you to succeed to listen to some guy who thinks he has all the answers for you, what is that really telling the women you’re going to meet.
Above you got my opinions and they are based on my experiences in dating.
Below I intend to make a direct comparison on the features, the bonuses, your benefits, and the quality between two products claiming to do the same thing.
- Conversation-King – Top Tactics for Talking to Women- Rachel Davis
- How To Talk To Women – What To Say To Women – Carlos Xuma
Conversation King Content:
- Over 50 Online Pages of Tactics.
(Notice the word, tactics.)
How To Talk To Women Content:
- Six Video Modules.
VIDEO MODULE 1: Foundation & Secret Keys
VIDEO MODULE 2: Conversation Flow
VIDEO MODULE 3: How To Never Run Out Of Things To Say
VIDEO MODULE 4: How To Be A Master Storyteller
VIDEO MODULE 5: How To Make Women Laugh
VIDEO MODULE 6: Conversational Tools
Conversation King Bonuses:
- Two bonuses -
- Free access to a website guygetsgirl.com
- Free access to a mini sex guide.
How To Talk To Women Bonuses:
- Seven Bonuses -
- VIDEO BONUS – MODULE 7: Phone Conversation Tricks & Tips
- VIDEO BONUS – MODULE 8: Email and Electronic Conversations With Women
- VIDEO BONUS – MODULE 9: How To Text Women
- AUDIO MP3 BONUS MODULE: Banter & Attraction Conversation Class
- VIDEO BONUS – MYSTERY MODULE: Movie “Pickup” Analysis
- BONUS – 135 PAGE REFERENCE MANUAL
- BONUS – MIND MAPS: Master Attraction Blueprints: How To Talk To Women
Conversation King Guarantee:
- 60 day money back guarantee if you do not triple your success with after learning and using the skills being taught.
I could not find the catch to this guarantee but judged by its words, you may have to prove you actually tried to use the information. To me that seems impossible. So you will either get your money back no questions asked, or you will have to fill out a form explaining how you used it and how it did not help you.
How To Talk To Women Guarantee:
- 365 day Satisfaction Guarantee.
I’ve been personally dealing with Carlos for some time now. He stands by his word. His catch to his guarantee is merely to understand how this program could not help you, to benefit him and others in the future. So you will have to send him an email telling him you were not satisfied.
Conversation King Content Price:
- The current price with an offer to another program for half the price is $47. The product also has a discrete billing unrelated to the name of the product. It is secure and safe. Immediate access happens when your method of payment is approved.
(This reflects only the selling price based on the current website as of the time this review was written.)
How To Talk To Women Price:
- The current price I am aware, disregarding that you may have purchased a previous Carlos program, is $97, or two easy payments of $48.50. Three stage process, INFORMATION, OPTIONS, INSTANT ACCESS, of billing which is secure and safe. An email will be sent for confirmation and download instructions.
(This reflects only the selling price based on the current website as of the time this review was written.)
Let me look a little deeper into both products.
Carlos’s product is twice the cost. A hundred dollars can be a huge chunk of change for some people. You can opt for Rachel’s product and save half the money but will you get only half of Carlos’s product?
Not even close!
You don’t get what you pay for in this case. You can clearly see that by my comparison of bonuses and the content above. How To Talk To Women is a complete course with videos and manuals and Carlos’s support the entire way.
Rachel’s Conversation-King is a book. You read it. You put the tactics into practice, and you’re basically on your own. And has she admits, they are just tactics.
Have I written this comparison to downplay Rachel’s product?
Yes I have, just a little. But if her products seems to fit your needs more, go ahead and give it a read. I wish you the best of luck. I will warn you though that tactics implies a method of winning. We’re not trying to win anything in this game. We’re trying to learn how to have conversations with women and we’re learning how to play the game, and have fun doing it.
Have I written this comparison for men looking to buy something today?
Yes I have.
I feel if you’re ready to purchase a product like this or are just researching it, you can stop right now.
You have the found the ultimate guide for learning how to talk to women.
I’m not going to get into all the details of what each product has in it to offer you. Each of their selling pages takes about five minutes to read for yourself so there is no point in doing it. I’ll let the authors peak to you in their own words.
- How To Talk To Women – Carlos Xuma
- Conversation-King – Rachel Davis
But what if you’re not ready and you feel you need more information?
You can sign up for Carlos’s Newsletter by taking this short quiz.
Meet Women Quiz – Carlos will show you exactly how to get hotter women by taking this quiz. It’s simple and only takes a few minutes. But don’t let that fool you. It’s worth your tim
Or check out these two pages I have developed for Carlos:
Full list of programs written by Carlos Xuma
But what if you’re just not sure you need to purchase a product like this?
But what if you think you can learn everything for free just by searching the internet and asking friends?
All are valid responses. When I started learning about attraction it took me sometime to put my money down so I understand what you are going through. I also understand we all have this urge to get everything we can for as little cost as possible. Who doesn’t want a great deal, right?
I’m going to save you some valuable time in researching again and by doing this I will help to alleviate any concerns or apprehensions you might have.
(Especially when it comes valuable advice from Rachel or Carlos.)
Below you will find all the posts here at Attraction Transformation by Carlos Xuma and Rachel Davis. Each and every one of them. Please compare their words and advice for yourself. I’ve also included a video from Carlos on How to Talk With women. After all you will be getting videos from him when you purchase his product.
I wish you all the best in achieving your goals. I sincerely hoped my page can send you in the right direction so feel free to let me know about it below. All valid opinions and comments, the good and the bad, will be accepted.
Peter White – My Nice Guy’s Approach To Attraction – DiaLteG™
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Below Are The Listings At Attraction Transformation related to Carlos and Rachel:
Rachel Davis:
- Grocery store pickup and seduction
- The Laundromat Pickup
- Fishing For Women With A Wingman
- How to Pick Up Girls: The Power of ‘Yes’
- The Art of Seduction by Conversation: Using ‘The Add-On Principle’ to Get the Girl
- Picking Up Women: How to Make Easy, Fun Conversation That Leads to Attraction & Sexual Chemistry
- Get in touch with your feminine side, so you can get inside hers
- Seduce The Ladies By Asking For A Hand
- Target The Shy Girls For Easy Pickings
- The Name and the Flow Bluff
- Pickup in the Park Using Your Dog
Carlos Xuma:
- The Secret Method For Making Pickup Lines Work For You
- Dating Tips For Men – Handling the “Tell Me About Your Last Relationship” Question
- Does the Media Know What Women Want? I Don’t THINK SO!
- So, I’ve Been Meeting a Lot of Women, But How Do I Get Them to Like Me?
- Dating Tips For Men: THERE ARE ONLY TWO DIFFERENT KINDS OF GUYS
- How to Ask a Woman on a Date
- Three Winning Attitudes That Impress Women
- Energy
- Personality and the Biggest Male Mistake with Women
- The Biggest Mistake Guys Make Reading Body Language
- Dating Tips For Men: How to Tell If a Woman is Interested in You
- What Kind of Gifts Do You Give Women?
- 4 Step Guide to Meeting Women – How to Use Facebook to Meet Women
- How to Approach Women – Part Five of Five: Introducing Yourself – Subjects to Discuss and Avoid
- How to Get a Girl to Like You – The 3 Laws of Attracting Women
- The Point System – Attitude and Posture Count!
- Being Single is Just as Good!
- How Do You Find the Dating Advice For Men That Works?
- How to Win Over Any Woman – The Essence of Alpha Attitude
- Learn the Secrets of Why Women Break Up With Men!
- Rant about bad boys
- Dating Tips For Men: Confidence In Spite of Liabilities – We All Have Them!
- How to Approach Women – Part Four of Five: Situations – Retail Stores and Gyms
- Tease Her to Please Her 2
- Tease-To-Please In ACTION!
- How to Get Over an Ex Girlfriend – Recovering From a Break-up
- How Do I Get Girls to Notice Me?
- When Do You Call a Woman?
- How to Meet Single Women – The 3 Best Ways to Meet Women
- How to Get a Girlfriend – The 4 Core “Seduction” Skills
- A Simple Guide to Understanding Women
- An Interview, transcribed, with Carlos Xuma by Peter White Part 1 (dialteg.com)
- A Transcribed Interview with Carlos Xuma by Peter White, Part 2 (dialteg.com)
How To Talk With Women Video
Okay so you’re ready right now to make the decision,
click on one or the other:
- How To Talk To Women – Carlos Xuma
- Conversation-King – Rachel Davis
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