If you haven’t met Scot McKay yet… let me to introduce you to him.
Scot is a man. Yep. No lie. And just like you and I was forced to grow up in a world where becoming a real mature masculine man is not something that is taught in schools. Sure they teach us rules. They make us memorize facts. They teach us how use our cognitive reasoning to figure out problems and even a little on how to survive financially in the modern world.
But unless your father is a mature ladies man who understand how to convey his message clearly to you or if you’re lucky enough to have a strong masculine man teach you what is really going on…
Becoming a man who understands the women in your life on your own might be as hard as teaching yourself quantum physics. In fact it might be harder because at least in science we have the ability to run controlled tests and experiments.
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X&Y Communications – Scot McKay’s Homepage
Scot McKay has proven himself time after time to be not only a smart business man but also has become a successful dating/relationship coach to literally thousands of men. I will say this quickly because if you’re looking for someone just to teach you routines, short term tactics, or give you advice which can only be used in dating, stop right now and find someone else. He’s not what you’re looking for.
However if you’re looking for an intelligent man’s approach who understands masculinity and understands the road taken to becoming a more attractive man is not all about having a great outer game. It’s an inward journey which often causes men to succeed in life. Which in turn increases your success in dating and your relationships.
But that’s not all. He understands women and can clearly convey his message to you. his programs are rock solid, finely tuned and well thought out. And oh, there also full of extras. Which I feel help round out your learning experience, and allow you to explore all your options.
He also has something going for him which most people don’t seem to realize, but it can make a big difference in your experiences with any dating and/or relationship products out there. And that is…
He knows the top coaches. He interviews top experts. Scot also get these same people to contribute to his pieces. He takes the experts specialties and shares their opinions with you. He knows what he is best at doing and doesn’t waste your time in areas the may not feel capable teaching you. Whenever you buy one of Scot’s top program it can be like getting a huge team of coaches to help you succeed.
He also does something only the top people in this business have the freedom to do. He gathers men’s opinions and finds out what they are really looking to learn. He is constantly improving his products to suit the need of what you guys are really looking for. And to top it all off he interviews women after women after women to insure what he’s teaching works.
Personally, whether you’re just looking to get more quality women in your life with his now classic Deserve What You Want, or if you’re looking to expand your knowledge on dating from the approach to the relationship in his full featured Man’s Approach, I think you can benefit from Scot’s knowledge and experience.
Please don’t take my word for it completely. When you have the time read through a few of his intelligent articles I have listed below. Think of them as an introduction into the mind of a top dating coach. When you feel you “click with him” or his style suits your needs, I urge you to look closely into buying one of his many products. You’ll not only support my pages and help me to succeed on my journey to becoming a master dating coach, but you’ll also be investing into some of the best material out there.
The rest is up to you. Remember you’re still going to have to do some work. Please do not just throw your money into hoping for incredible results without effort. It just does not work that way. I have listed pictures of the programs offered along the side. Click on one of them for more information or click here to go right to Scot’s X&Y Communications Homepage for more information.
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The Leapfrog Effect – Get a Terrific Woman in Your Life, Find Greater Success Everywhere

So actually, your life purpose doesn’t really happen independently from having a woman in your life, but in fact is AMPLIFIED by her presence. How’s that for a mind blower?
Secrets to Flirting For Men
If you’re shopping for clothes and ask a particularly hot woman who works there to recommend some stylish threads to “make you look good”, and she obliges, my guess is that you’ll interact with her along the way a bit differently than you would were some dude helping you.
Have You Ever Dated “Double-Standard” Chick?

ULTIMATELY, it means that YOU must LEAD. You must stand up, speak on behalf of mutual respect-by name-and announce that your intention is to respect women and enjoy the company of those who respect you in return.
What She Really Means When She Says, “I Want A Man To Protect Me”
Whatever mental picture we have, it’s safe to say that most of us guys assume that a woman is talking about being physically protected from harm by others when she talks like this…thanks, of course, to our manly presence as a deterrent. Sure. Women want a “bodyguard”, right?
When It Comes To Dating, Which “Experience” Are You?
As much as I want to change things, “stop trying to be someone you are not” is absolutely the most elegant possible utterance of an undeniable truth. A truth that many of us willingly and defiantly ignore.

Barely Legal – Older Guys Dating Teenagers?
Ultimately, I’d much rather find a woman closer to my own age who still gets carded. That way, you get the hot, sexy little vixen of your dreams…all with the added benefits of social commonality, emotional maturity (we hope) and the blessed assurance that this woman will most likely continue to age well.
How To Make Women Love You – Six Ways To Be Masculine
When pressed why, the first reason that came to her mind revolved around how she had been struggling with a heavy suitcase at the airport…while he watched empty-handed. Sure, women are more “independent” now than they’ve ever been. But here’s a major hint: That doesn’t mean they don’t appreciate you doing the “heavy lifting” for them.
Stop Being Manipulated By People
For starters, I’m pretty sure that most of us have figured out that a fair number of people with whom we share this planet don’t exactly live by TGR. For them, it’s more like “Do Unto Others Before They Do Unto You”. I’ve never encountered a specific name for this particular twist on the original, but it’s decidedly the “dark side” equivalent. And the way I see things, it’s about as worthless as anything else coming from a position of complete, utter disdain for personal character. So let’s call it “The Plastic Rule”. How about “The Styrofoam Rule”?
A Simple Exercise For Eliminating Fear Of Rejection By The Opposite Sex
So many of us artificially limit ourselves from believing that we can possibly deserve the kind of partner we want.

Going way beyond “approach anxiety”…going way beyond “getting beat by a girl” and indeed way beyond anything you’ve ever heard from me until now, it can be safely assumed that much of the problem is directly attributable to how you see yourself vs. how you see others.
The Real Cure For Neediness, Clinginess And Manipulation
Perhaps most of all, we dread being “needy” or “clingy” and therefore perceived as someone who is an approval seeker. After all, those who SEEK approval are typically viewed by others as the most starved for it, and therefore those LEAST deserving of it naturally.
Approaching Women – Improve Your Phone and Text Game in One Easy Step
She immediately and noticeably brightened up, and eagerly scribbled her number on the back of a business card. She handed it to Dan with a smile, and said…”Yes! Call me!”
7 Ways to Tell If You Are Settling For the Wrong Person
During the course of the conversation, we began talking about how amazing it is that so many people are more willing to take the first option that comes along when it comes to dating and relationships than to do what it takes to become a man or a woman who can CHOOSE from MANY OPTIONS.
Approaching Women – Is Her Liking You Back “Too Good to Be True”?
“HIGH QUALITY” IS A RELATIVE TERM WHEN IT COMES TO WOMEN
…especially as it pertains to exactly those factors that paralyze you when it’s time to approach.
What on Earth could I possibly mean by that?
Understand How Women Think and Increase Your Dating Success
After all, SAYING that one is acting on a desire to get better with women and going through the motions in a way that FEELS LIKE getting better with women is often A LOT safer than ACTUALLY DOING SOMETHING.
The Dating Disappearing Act – Did She Think She Wasn’t Good Enough For You?
Or at the very least she texts you or leaves some lame voice mail saying in some “code language” that she can’t see you anymore.
Your first impression, if you’re a normal guy who drinks beer and bleeds red, is that YOU blew it somehow.
And that makes sense. After all, kill the attraction by being creepy or wimpy and, well, women sort of bail on you.
Pickup And Seduction – What’s The Difference?
There’s “The Seduction Community”, of course. But lately I’ve also seen “Pickup Community” coined in several places. What gives? It’s looks an awful lot like the terms are treated as virtually synonymous. Is that the case? And must EVERYTHING that equals “dating advice” for men necessarily be classified as one or the
other?
Are You Still Getting Rejected by Average Women? This Could Be the Problem
As you may know already, the guys who pick up the phone and call me aren’t often guys who are starting from absolute square one with women.
Some are, and that’s fine also. But they aren’t typical.
Do Only Good Looking Guys Get Women?
If you think about it logically, who are WE to figure out what WOMEN want? My educated guess is that most of us take OUR OWN criteria for evaluating women and PROJECT it onto the female population.
Put Your Limiting Beliefs Aside – How to Become Her Superman
Interestingly, having immersed myself in studying how to get better with women, it had only been maybe a week since I had gotten back online for the first time in quite a while.
A couple of months prior I had decided to take my profile down and really work on getting my game in order.
Now, with five days of “bed rest” ordered by the doctor, I would have time to email lots of women.
There was only one problem.
Limiting Beliefs in Reverse – See Dating and Attraction From a Woman’s Perspective and Succeed
Even though I was from a very middle-class family, a series of events had landed me at one of the most exclusive private schools for rich kids in the Baltimore metro area.
From the very first day, I knew I didn’t fit in there.
Being the “new kid”, I didn’t even have any friends anymore. I had to start from zero, which is a challenge for any seventh grader changing schools.
What Do Dating And Sales Have In Common?
In order to BECOME wildly successful, you must THINK and ACT as if wildly successful TODAY. And you have to have a FIRMLY-HELD belief that it’s so.
Among other things, this means you don’t worry about money. You don’t stress over finances. You pick up the check this time when you and your buddies hit happy hour, and someone else gets it next time-and no splitting $4 tickets at Taco Bell.
Below you will find all the programs offered by Scot McKay
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X&Y Communications – Scot McKay’s Homepage. Sign up and join ten thousand others who are happy to receive his newsletters. Great content. Great advice. No bull. One of my favorite newsletters not only because I like to listen to Scot but because his business ethics and morals are top of the field and un shake able.
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Deserve What You Want – This is the book that started it all for Scot McKay
I finally released a page where I give a small review and reveal what you’re going to find inside of Scot’s Real Confidence E-book.
Chick Whisperper -The Lost Episodes
Secrets to Success With Women For Shorter Men – Great material for any shorter man looking to finally succeed with women. Sign ups only but once you’re inside you can buy it. I went through this myself, after all I’m a only 5’5″. This program won’t teach you everything you need to know about attraction but it will teach you exactly what the title depicts… Your success with women despite your height.
Interview With Joseph Matthews
Interview With Marie Forleo – Short interview for a low cost addition to your library with the incredible Marie Forleo. She was first interview on David DeAngelo Interview series. She’s hot. She fun. She has a great attitude. I think you’ll enjoy listening to her. Again this is an addition to your library and not meant to fulfill all your attraction needs.
Expert Communication With Women
The Man’s Approach – Everything you will ever need in your dating and relationships. This covers not only the basics, but everything to becoming a more masculine man, fashion, friend’s zone, inner game… You know I’m going to stop there. Sign Up for the Man’s Approach and you’ll quickly see what a huge product this is. And every respectable teacher out there has contributed to it.
How To Control Your Wildly Successful Dating Life – Too busy because of all your dates, then this is for you. Not many men understand when they start learning and getting more dates a new problems arises, or a new stage of your evolution in the dating scene. Let Scot tell you some of the problems associated with having a wildly successful dating life.
Cook For Your Date – Yes sir. Women love a guy who can cook so you better get it right. Haha! Seriously this is another great addition to your library of attracting women.
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Attraction Makeover – Emily McKay wants to show you how to give yourself a makeover and look great quickly. She’ll show you many ways to bring out your best features.

