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This is tip 2 of Nick Savoy’s “7 tips to Skyrocket your Game Now“.
I am posting a seven part series and in each one I take one tip from an article by Nick Savoy and I put my own spin on it based on my experience. I also show you how following advice like this, I’ve experienced major success with women.
Let’s get right to this one and if you want to read Tip 1 just look it up, or click Tip #1 of 7 Tips To Skyrocket Your Game NOW – T.R.M.
In the article, Nick tells it like it is.
Fashion and Grooming do matter, and they matter a lot when it comes to attracting your idea of beautiful women.
The most influential tip that was given to me about how I dressed was to make sure I tended to the details, because women are tuned into these better than us men typically are.
What this means is consciously or subconsciously women will often judge your attractiveness by the details she notices about you.
Some are instantaneously and some are not. This is all above how attractive you are. In other words you don’t need a pretty face to attract women when you constantly attend to the details of your appearance and your life. And on the other side you can repel women with a cute face and nice body by not tending to these details.
Here is tip 2 and Nick claims this can skyrocket you game with women by following his advice:
2. Fashion and Grooming Matter – A Lot
There are way too many people out there pretending that “looks don’t matter.”
Of course they do.
But, they matter in a different sort of way to most women than to men, and not just because they’re not quite as important. It’s also because women judge looks not only on a visual level, but also for what your looks say about your personality.
And that’s mostly about fashion and grooming (mostly hair).
This is a GREAT thing about being a guy, you can go from ugly to attractive with the right changes to clothes and hair.
By “attractive” I don’t mean you can get into fashion magazines. I mean “your appearance is enough to interest beautiful women.”
Those are very different things. That’s why I don’t recommend you go shopping with women. Yes, they can make you look fashionable. But, they won’t dress you to cut through the clutter and announce to other women: “I am a man with something to offer.”
I remember the first time I heard a girl call Love Systems Instructor Cajun “hot.” I nearly spat out my drink. He’s a weedy little guy. But, he was dressed in a way that conveyed a powerful identity that he was congruent with. And having sick game doesn’t hurt either.
I’m no great shakes either. No woman (except my mom, God bless her) ever said I was handsome until I changed my style.
Use your clothes and grooming to tell women what kind of person you are – relate fashion choices to your identity. Take care of your appearance (especially the details, like shoes), be in touch with yourself, dress appropriately but with a sense of purpose, or fun, etc. All of that is much more important to her (and to your “looks”) than what you look like with your shirt off.
I’ve personally trained a couple thousand men over the past 5 years (including at the annual Super-Conference). I can only remember two men who had something physical about them that would seriously get in the way of attracting beautiful women.
The odds are that, whatever your physical imperfections, there are tons of guys with less going for them than you have who are doing just fine.
This can be fixed in a day. So do it.
This is part two of ”Seven Tips for Skyrocketing Your Game“. The original article quoted was written by Nick Savoy of LoveSystems and was intended to promote and review his newly adapted and updated system, Magic Bullets – Meet, Attract, and Date the women You Want
Over ten years ago I met a woman who, for one reason or another, pushed me in the right direction with women.
She gave me a quick makeover and then shoved me to her stripper friends.
They said I was cute.
Big deal right?
Well I thought it was a big deal because it seemed like the makeover was what I needed to finally have more choices with women. You see I wanted the best of the best but I dressed like an eighties hippie.
I naturally felt dressing better was going to change the world for me.
It did make a difference but not the huge difference I was looking for. I wasn’t repelling women by my unkept hair, sloppy dress, and dirty sneakers instantly, but once my voice and attitude came into play, I was done for.
There was no way I was reaching the high standards I was setting for myself without an attractive personality.
This was because I could not blame it on my looks anymore.
This tip is so powerful it is actually dangerous and downright scary for some men. I realize it’s just tip 2 and following all seven can certainly increase your success with women, but it is scary for men when they realize it wasn’t their looks that was stopping them from success with women.
It can also be very dangerous for a man to realize his potential with women is not being held back by how good-looking he is.
But why do all these details matter so much?
- Women want a man who takes charge and leads, and does it confidently enough to know each step of the way, and triumphs over his defeats. And I don’t know men who can’t “tailor” their grooming abilities but lead others, particular women into being attracted to them.
- How are you as a man going to tend to the details of your relationship, casual sex or not decisions, family or temporary girlfriend, if you can not portray with your dress that you can take care of yourself.
- Taking care of yourself also shows women you care enough about yourself to go the extra mile. And yes, most beautiful women won’t settle for less. They don’t want to be even seen with in a guy who doesn’t care about himself. (That is unless her self-esteem is firmly held in the gutter.)
- She knows most men who show more direct interest in her than he would in himself are the most neediest, often creepiest guys. They are the ones begging for her time and attention. They are the “clingers“.
These details you tend to show her you are a man who can make decisions.
They don’t even have to be the right ones. If you’re a funny guy with an outlandish personality and you decide wearing white pants and lime green shoes is for you, then you better back up the whole outfit cleanly.
Keep yourself well manicured. Clean your shoes meticulously. Cinch the belt perfectly. Make sure your personality is flawlessly congruent with the clothes you are wearing..
I may have not told you before but I have one brother who I grew up with. He got laid constantly with hot girls. I didn’t. He was a prick to me and to women and yet they were still drawn to him. As I look back now and hang with him and watch him around his kids and wife, I notice all those details I was missing that he did have which attracted women despite his flawed view of the world. (He was a small time criminal.)
Sure he didn’t dress like a fashion model. He didn’t wear a suit and tie. He didn’t shine his boots in the morning. But he did take care of those details which woman, when found to be congruent with his fierce attitude, found highly attractive.
They were willing to even put up with all his bullshit and sometimes rude attitude.
- He dressed to who he was.
- He brushed his teeth constantly.
- He trimmed his nails flawlessly.
- Kept his hair trimmed to a long length.
- etc…
Granted we’re not talking about game here but a woman’s attraction has so much to do with your ability to be a great father. Those traits she seeks are built into her through years development as a female.
Women must have sensed those traits in my brother. I see it now how all these details that went into himself, went into her, and are now being used to care for his family. He’s an excellent father who met a nurturing fun woman and they have raised many kids who are now outstanding people themselves.
Nick is telling you to do just do it and if you really want to succeed with women don’t overlook this very important dating tip.
It can make a huge difference. It’s a part of a bigger puzzle of attracting women but a puzzle just a blurry picture depicting something that resembles what it was meant to be, when you leave out essential pieces.
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This was part two of ”Seven Tips for Skyrocketing Your Game“. The original article quoted was written by Nick Savoy of Love Systems and was intended to promote and review his newly adapted and updated system, Magic Bullets – Meet, Attract, and Date the women You Want
Stick around for part three guys, “Being Attractive to Women Isn’t Something You Switch On and Off“. In the meantime please feel free to review or buy your copy of:
Magic Bullets – Meet, Attract, and Date the women You Want.
Review Every Tip on Increasing Your Game With Women
- Tip #1 of 7 Tips To Your Game – Measuring Skills Not Results
- Being Attractive is Not a Switch – Tip #3 of 7 – Your Game – T.R.M.
- Her Mind and Mood – Tip #4 of 7 – Your Game – T.R.M.
- After the Opening Line – Tip #5 of 7 – Your Game – T.R.M.
- Fun Dates – Tip #6 of 7 – Your Game with Women T.R.M.
- Learn – Execute – Tip #7 of 7 – Your Game with Women T.R.M.
Jeremy Soul of LoveSystems gives his insight and a Review of Why You must Buy Magic Bullets based on his own experience in becoming a member of the LoveSystems team:
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