Flirting With Women

Let me ask you a question…

Have you ever been stuck in the friend mode with a woman you meet and like, despite all your best romantic efforts?

Do you know the reason for this occurrence?

More than likely you did know how to flirt with her properly.

Understand: Flirting is a very important part of the attraction process, and if you do it wrong (or worse yet, not at all!), the odds of blowing your chance with the girl go up significantly.

Why is flirting essential?

The answer is simple really; the process of flirting creates sexual tension.

And if you don’t have sexual tension in an interaction, there is no attraction. And if there’s no attraction, what does that make you?

That is correct – you’re a friend!

You can increase the attraction a woman finds in you by knowing how to flirt with her.

Flirting is a lot of fun and not so much a secret as some might consider, however when done incorrectly it will not work.

See, there’s an art to flirting with a woman. Flirting is all about communicating your sexual interest in the girl, without coming right out and SAYING it.

Mixed signals are what this is.

Your words communicate something different than your actions are communicating.

Here are some common mistakes most guys make when flirting with girls:

MISTAKE #1: Being Too Obvious

Many men are caught up in the excitement of being attracted to a woman, and then they say exactly what they feel. They do not realize that this type of information presentation forces the woman to decide how she may feel about him.

And if you haven’t laid the proper groundwork beforehand, chances are the girl is going to reject you.

MISTAKE #2: Not Being Obvious Enough!

There are men who communicate no interest at all, since they assume the woman knows how they feel. This catches a woman by surprise because she has not clue of his interest.

MISTAKE #3: Relying On Words Rather Than Actions

Flirting has a good deal to do with the words you use; however, non-verbal body language is a more powerful method. These are those little things such as, tilting your head, raising an eyebrow or casting a wicked little smile, since they give new meaning to otherwise innocent remarks.

MISTAKE #4: They Take Things Too Seriously

Flirting is fun and light when done properly. When men begin adding serious romantic gestures with flirting, the sexual tension begins to break down.

You are doing something wrong when you or the woman is not having fun while you flirt.

We could list more mistakes; however, this should provide you with a clear picture. Do you wonder what the right way to begin flirting is?

Use as much innuendo as you can while you are flirting, however the secret is in keeping it subtle.

Let us say you are at a bar, for example and the woman you are with orders a drink and then asks if you would like one as well, you can jokingly say to her, You aren’t trying to get me drunk and take advantage of me, are you, while adding a nod and a wink.

This lets her know you are interested without saying it outright. Flirting is implication and it is fun and lighthearted.

Another example may be, when a woman makes a sexy remark, you say to her, Stop trying to tempt me, you vixen, you know I never kiss a woman on the first date.

See how that works?

After you begin flirting more often, you will begin to be more apparent concerning your interests, without ever crossing that line.

You will notice how the attraction between you and the woman begins to build. Then one day you find that a harmless bit of flirting has turned into seduction.

The real fun begins at this point.

[intlink id="22" type="category"] Joseph Matthews[/intlink] aka “Thundercat”

Joseph Matthews has wrote some great material on approaching women. His attitude can really be infectious. The energy he puts out can really get charged up and completely teach you how to approach women, build your confidence, secure those limited from affecting your game, and turn you into a true chic magnet.

Yeah that’s right. I said chic magnet. Haha!