Welcome back to tip #6 of 7 Tips to Skyrocket your Game with Women. We’re coming closer to the end of the series. I hope you have all benefited from this series. I realize your game with women is important to you or else you wouldn’t be coming to my pages. I also know that when it comes to women there’s an important element too many guys fail to take away from this whole attraction/game deal.
And I’ll let Nick start us out on it.
6. Make It Fun!
I don’t know where people got the idea that dating and attracting beautiful women was supposed to be some painful process.
It can’t be, if you want to be successful. Some people complain that they don’t like bars and clubs (or a particular bar or club). This one’s pretty easy. Go places you like, where you like the music and the atmosphere.
If you don’t like bars and clubs, go out during the day to meet women. The same beautiful women that go out to clubs also go to malls, coffee shops, theaters, galleries, sporting events, and so on. Meet them there.
One of the reasons Love Systems Instructor Jeremy Soul enjoys meeting women in the day more than going out to meet women at night (though he’s an expert at both) is because he finds a wider variety of women in normal daytime situations – including lots of women who themselves don’t like bars and clubs.
Or, you might be putting too much pressure on yourself, jumping suddenly between un-social and social activities, or one of a million other “mood” killers.
But in general – if there’s one thought I can leave you with:
If it’s not fun, you’re doing something wrong.
This is part six of ”Seven Tips for Skyrocketing Your Game”. The original article quoted was written by Nick Savoy of LoveSystems and was intended to promote his newly adapted and updated system, Magic Bullets – Meet, Attract, and Date the women You Want. At the end of this series the article will be posted in whole.
I know when it comes to dating and trying to figure out your game with women it actually can be a lot of work at first.
I was talking to a friend last night about how guys can actually search the internet for tons of free advice on everything to from picking up women, to seducing them, to attracting them consistently, and improving your relationships. I told him that sometimes it occurs to me that there is a small possibility a man can find all the information he needs for free. Why should he bother buying any material at all? And then I wonder how much of a living can I make doing what I do.
But…
I forget sometimes while I spend over fifty hours, yes over fifty hours a week dedicating to researching, practicing, talking, writing, and developing myself with regards to all aspects of women; most men just don’t have the time. Most men will lose sight of the skills spending hours a week searching, then hours a week reading and trying to remember everything. And that doesn’t even include going out and practicing.
And by doing this it becomes work to them. It loses that little edge that got them here in the first place.
Having a great time with women. Having fun while you’re out enjoying yourself. Enjoying the ride along the way to better sex, and many girlfriend options. Isn’t that what it is really all about?
With all that in mind please feel free to save your time looking for all the freebies out there and invest in some great quality material to learn from. You’ll save yourselves hours of time. Time which is better spent having fun with your new skills.
Like Nick suggests in this tip. Have fun! When you have fun, she has fun. And women can not get enough of fun guys to hang out with.
Do things right from there and you’ll have more women to play with than you can handle.
I’m going to help you all out here and save you some valuable time, for free. Dates are about having fun and I know so many guys struggle figuring out what to do with women. So here is what you do.
Go out and drive around your area with a friend. And take some notes. Not mental notes but actual notes. This is why you should bring a friend. Take notice more than you usually would driving around. There’s always fun places you may have missed which make great date places to start or head to after.
- Around my area there’s a Park. Sun. Fun. Picnic. Frisbee. Open environment. Little distractions. You’re getting the picture here. Put extra items in your car to have readily available because you never know. Let’s say you’re driving to take her to a coffee shop during the day and you see this park. Stop and say hey, let’s have a catch. Then go out after.
- I have a major river around where I live. They offer fun cruises which women love. You’ll have to plan that in advance but if you’re going to take her to dinner, don’t tell her where and then surprise her.
- As I venture out further down every road I noticed this small antique shop. Me and my friend get out and scope out the store. It’s quaint. Tons of stuff to talk about it. Some of it’s quite odd and making fun of that shit makes for great conversation. I also noticed this small chair that would look cool in the corner of my bedroom. I know I have a potential date I still need to call. So I do. I tell her there’s this cool place she needs to check out and she should come with me. We’ll have fun. I tell her there’s this item I need to pick up. Before me and my friend leave the shop I find some information about the chair and say I’m undecided. This way I can share it with her.
I’m sure you’re getting a great idea now of what fun dates are all about.
Do you want more ideas?
Try dates that are inherently inexpensive:
* Museums, aquariums, zoos, galleries
* Local live music or theatre
* Comedy clubs
* Hiking or outdoors stuff
* Hanging out at the beach
* Window shopping
* The beach
* The track (I love taking daytime weekend dates to watch the horse races – minimum bet is usually $2 and it’s lots of fun)
* Dessert – far more sensual and romantic than dinner
Here are some other great ideas that are fun.
- Billiards
- Mini Gold
- Driving Range.
- Bazaars.
- Carnivals.
As I conclude tip six on skyrocketing your game with women I want to encourage you to feel free to leave some of your own fun ideas here. Let’s grow this page and not just read it, and forget about it. this is one area where you should not have to spend any money. This kind of information should be freely available to every man looking to have fun dates.
Save your money for the real skills of learning how to become that attractive “real man” any woman wants to be around. Having fun is a major part of attraction along with living passionate life. It’s really what women want. An adventure that is spontaneous. Something she can brag to her friends about.
And having fun on your date for yourself is a great way to have her do just that.
This was part six of ”Seven Tips for Skyrocketing Your Game”. The original article quoted was written by Nick Savoy of LoveSystems and was intended to promote his newly adapted and updated system, Magic Bullets – Meet, Attract, and Date the women You Want. At the end of this series the article will be posted in whole.
Please stop back for the last installment. As a real man I have plenty of thoughts. So Thanks again for stopping by guys. I wish you all the best of luck.
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