Welcome back to tip #6 of 7 Tips to Skyrocket your Game with Women.
We’re coming closer to the end of the series. I hope you have all benefited from this series. I realize your game with women is important to you or else you wouldn’t be coming to my pages.
I also know that when it comes to women there’s an important element too many guys fail to take away from this whole attraction/game deal.
And I’ll let Nick start us out on that.
6. Make It Fun!
I don’t know where people got the idea that dating and attracting beautiful women was supposed to be some painful process.
It can’t be, if you want to be successful. Some people complain that they don’t like bars and clubs (or a particular bar or club). This one’s pretty easy. Go places you like, where you like the music and the atmosphere.
If you don’t like bars and clubs, go out during the day to meet women. The same beautiful women that go out to clubs also go to malls, coffee shops, theaters, galleries, sporting events, and so on. Meet them there.
One of the reasons Love Systems Instructor Jeremy Soul enjoys meeting women in the day more than going out to meet women at night (though he’s an expert at both) is because he finds a wider variety of women in normal daytime situations – including lots of women who themselves don’t like bars and clubs.
Or, you might be putting too much pressure on yourself, jumping suddenly between un-social and social activities, or one of a million other “mood” killers.
But in general – if there’s one thought I can leave you with:
If it’s not fun, you’re doing something wrong.
This was part six of ”Seven Tips for Skyrocketing Your Game“.
The original article quoted was written by Nick Savoy of Love Systems and was intended to promote and review his newly adapted and updated system…
I know from first hand experience, dating and working on your game can be a ton of work.
I was talking to a friend last night about how guys can actually search the internet for tons of free advice on everything to from picking up women, to seducing them, to attracting them consistently, and improving their relationships. I told him there is a small possibility a man can find all the information he needs for free.
So why should he bother buying any material at all?
I forget sometimes while I spend over fifty hours, yes over fifty hours a week dedicating to researching, practicing, talking, writing, and developing myself with regards to all aspects of women….
Most men just don’t have the time.
What happens is they spend hours a week searching, then hours a week reading and trying to remember everything. And that doesn’t even include going out and practicing.
It then becomes work to them. And it’s easy to lose sight of the goal in mind.
- Having a great time with women.
- Having fun while you’re out enjoying yourself.
- Enjoying the ride along the way to better sex, and more girlfriend options.
After all, isn’t that what it is really all about?
Nick suggests in this tip… Have fun! Because when you have fun, she has fun. And women can not get enough of you to hang out with. They’re also less likely to dump their problems on you constantly.
Where is the line that separates “the having fun” from it becoming “work?”
And once you cross it do you give up entirely because it’s wearing you out?
What about when you find a girlfriend and are so worn out you end up reverting back to your old habits which inevitably leads you to losing your new girl?
Do you blame her now or blame the advice you were given?
Quick Tip Here and a big reason this tip is very important to never forget:
When it stops becoming fun you’re probably working too hard. Stop and go back to the basics. Don’t let it stop being fun because you’re doomed to follow the path I listed above. Leading up to losing a new girlfriend quickly.
I’m going to help you all out here and save you some valuable time, for free.
I know so many guys struggle figuring out what to do with women but I have a plan for you to stop it from becoming even more work.
Drive around your area with a friend and take some notes.
Not mental notes but actual notes. This is why you should bring a friend. Begin to notice more than you usually would driving around. There’s always fun places you may have missed which make great date places to start or head to after.
I’ll give you an example from my area.
Around my area there’s a Park. (Sun. Fun. Picnic. Frisbee. Open environment. Very little distractions. )
Now put extra items in your car to have readily available because you never know based on what you saw. Don’t go overboard and fill your trunk up with useless shit.
Just fun things to make your dates transition easier.
Less thinking and more fun.
Let’s say you’re driving to take her to a coffee shop during the day, drive by the park. Stop and say hey, let’s have a catch or something alone those lines.
I live by a huge river with a really cool waterfall. They offer fun and cheap cruises which by the way, women love boat trips. You’ll have to plan that in advance but if you’re going to take her to dinner, don’t tell her where and then surprise her. Or take her after.
The waterfall has been noted to be quiet place to stop which is public and in everyone’s sight. Obviously you should refrain from taking first or second dates to secluded dark places at night.
Further down the road I noticed a small antique shop. Me and my friend get out and scope out the store. It’s quaint. Tons of stuff to talk about it. Some of it’s quite odd and making fun of that shit makes great conversation on dates.
I also noticed this small chair that would look cool in the corner of my bedroom.
I know I have a potential date I still need to call. So I do. I tell her there’s this cool place she needs to check out and she should come with me. We’ll have fun. I tell her there’s this item I need to pick up. Before me and my friend leave the shop I find some information about the chair and say I’m undecided.
This way I can share the buy with her.
The concept is to continually seek out local areas while you’re driving around.
Don’t over think it. The idea is to consider any and all places – to be a fun place to take a woman. That’s all.
I’m sure you’re getting a great idea now of what fun dates are all about.
Here are some more great ideas from Magic Bullets:
Try dates that are inherently inexpensive:
- Museums, aquariums, zoos, galleries
- Local live music or theatre
- Comedy clubs
- Hiking or outdoors stuff
- Hanging out at the beach
- Window shopping
- The beach
- The track (I love taking daytime weekend dates to watch the horse races – minimum bet is usually $2 and it’s lots of fun)
- Dessert – far more sensual and romantic than dinner
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Here are some other great ideas that are fun from me.
- Billiards
- Mini Golf
- Driving Range.
- Bazaars.
- Carnivals.
Read this page I wrote 32 Places to Take a Date - I also include a short explanation and tip with each one. Bookmark this page.Leave a tip you feel I missed. We would all appreciate it.
I’m sure there are some duplicates but this post I wrote to help you get more dates. 20 Cheap Places to Meet Women But you can also use may to take a date.
As I conclude tip six on skyrocketing your game with women I want to encourage you to feel free to leave some of your own fun ideas here.
This is one area where you should not have to spend any money.
This kind of information should be freely available to every man looking to have fun dates. It’s that important and you do not need any kind of skills to use what you already have around you.
Save your money for the real skills.
Having fun is a major part of attraction along with living a passionate life. Life should adventure that is spontaneous.
(And something she can brag to her friends about.)
Yes, having fun on your date for yourself is a great way to have her do just that.
Peter White
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This was part five of ”Seven Tips for Skyrocketing Your Game“.
The original article quoted was written by Nick Savoy of Love Systems and was intended to promote and review his newly adapted and updated system…
Review Every Tip on Increasing Your Game With Women
- Tip #1 of 7 Tips To Your Game – Measuring Skills Not Results
- Fashion – Grooming – Tip #2 of 7 – The Details Of Your Appearance
- Being Attractive is Not a Switch – Tip #3 – The Natural Approach
- Her Mind and Mood – Tip #4 of 7 – Women Do Not Feel Attracted to Logic
- After the Opening Line – Tip #5 of 7 – Your Game – T.R.M.
- Learn – Execute – Tip #7 of 7 – Your Game with Women T.R.M.
Jeremy Soul of LoveSystems gives his insight and a Review of Why You must Buy Magic Bullets based on his own experience in becoming a member of the LoveSystems team:
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