I’m a very perceptive person. I’ve always been this way. (sometimes a little too much.)  Well ever since I began “investigating” attraction and working on my dating and relationship skills my mind has decided to tune more into social dynamics.

If you could only see what I do. Now I’m wrong sometimes. Oh yeah. It happens. I can get the situation absolutely jumbled up beyond recognition. But for me, it’s a fun game anyways and when I’m right or even close, I learn so much.

I think you might enjoy listening in to a most recent social scene I noticed. The names have been changed to protect the guilty. Contained within the framework of this tiny event is the tactics and cheap ass skill any man with some drive, can learn to get women very easily. I don’t recommend it and I wouldn’t use it myself, but,  (as I will note in a later post) contained within this cheap ass game are the real ingredients for naturally attracting men or women. When used properly and of strict high standards will attract many more than any cheap ass game can, and also the higher quality people out there.

How do you get women to notice you and want you.

The new guy shows up at work. The few certain gossip queens begin their stories.

“He’s a pig.”

“I heard he’s slept with every girl at his last job.”

Cool. Now you’ve got the rumors started and it puts you in the shoes of an Alpha-Player-Womanizer man. Let’s face it, whether it’s just curiosity or an actual attraction, woman are drawn to this type of man.

Next, and this is the hard part , have your girlfriend, (it helps if she is hot, and if you don’t have one, find one that will pretend) show up everyday at your job. Have her bring you lunch. Make sure she sticks around for a while.

Okay back to that social situation. This is what happened. And it’s funny to me because when this girl shows up, I can almost see her pissing on the walls and leaving her scent. It’s like she scoping out the competition and making sure no one is going to mess with her man.. She befriends the bosses and tries to charm the others, well mostly.

I have no idea who these two are. Again this situation I am reading could be entirely off the mark. But I don’t care.

Now it’s a good bet that this guy either did cheat on her before, and she’s so worried about him doing it again, she won’t give him the chance, or will confront him on any potential man stealer at his new job. Or…they met when he was sleeping with several other girls at his prior job, and she wrangled him in. Now she is concerned about losing him, because he has so many choices.

This guy, granted tall dark, and handsome, has one other thing going about him that socially transcends him above many of the others…

-He’s quiet.

-He’s respectful.

And during all this quietness he finds a way to ask some of the hotter girls around about HIS relationship. Yes. Works like a charm. Now most women do see right through this, at least they think they do. When in reality they are merely just  stating to others how much they dislike him I can guarantee you she would end up with him in a heartbeat if he shifted his attention towards her. I see it happen all the time. Especially with women that feel they couldn’t get a guy like him.

Here’s where we’ve gone so far.

• Guy gets new job.

• Rumors of sexuality are spread.

• Girlfriend shows up staking her claim. Protecting her investment.

• He’s quiet, nice, speaks kindly, doesn’t laugh too much, has that deep look in his face that life treats him so badly and he doesn’t know why. That “Po Po Me” that only works for the most handsome men with a dark personality and/or the intelligence to converse it well.

So that’s the whole situation in all it’s nastiest little details. Have at it as you will. Don’t forget I’m an optimistic person and I can find a way to use this seemingly cheap ass game tactic in a more effective way. It just takes a little shift in our perspective. Soon I will post what I mean.

Games are used everyday in our socially dynamic lifestyle. Whether or not you decide to play the fun flirty games, or the tactics described above, in this so called game of life, the balls now in your court. Haha!

Peter White

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