This section deals with logic, women and how men sometimes forget, women are not always logical.
(Tip #4 of Seven Tips for Skyrocketing Your Game“)
I don’t want to confuse you because yes, women can think logically. However women don’t always make logical decisions when it comes to who they date.
No matter how much they talk about their choices or what they want, they will choose based on their feelings of attraction.
The real key to figuring out women in the case of skyrocketing your game, as Nick suggests, is the title of the fourth quote.
4. Change Her Mood, Not Her Mind
Women are generally not logical, at least as most men understand the term. This goes double in their social lives, and even more so when it comes to men and dating.
If you expect her to think and act like you, you’re just going to be frustrated and disappointed (and miss out on the unique feminine aspects of her personality).
I can’t think of how many nights I went home alone in the early days, having failed to convince a woman who was attracted to me that her friends would get home fine / she’d be just fine the next day / a 45 minute drive home isn’t that bad, really / and so on.
It never worked. What does work is amping her sense of fun, adventure, attraction, etc. – making her emotionally want to come (ahem) instead of logically.
It’s the same principle as when guys ask “I love this routine and that routine, but how do I get from one to the other?”
It’s a logical question – and therefore doesn’t matter.
If the emotions are good, the logical side either doesn’t hit her radar screen or is rationalized away. If she’s enjoying the conversation, she doesn’t care why you switched topics.
This also explains how a woman can spend hours over dinner explaining to some guy that she really likes men who are nice, who take things slow, who bring her flowers, etc… and then slip her phone number to a man who makes her feel (not think) attraction.
This is part four of ”Seven Tips for Skyrocketing Your Game“.
The original article quoted was written by Nick Savoy of Love Systems and was intended to promote and review his newly adapted and updated system,
Nick intuitively points out changing her mind or mood is the only way you are ever going to have success with women.
As every attraction expert will teach you, her attraction is not logical and you can not convince her to like you.
If you are doing that stop doing it now. It doesn’t work.
I spent twenty years of my life trying to convince women to like me. I would like to say I got lucky once in a while and I was able to convince her but I can’t.
Because the women I managed to attract despite my lack of knowledge and understanding, we’re attracted to me regardless. I didn’t feel the need to convince a woman I was not attracted to, therefore her wanting of me was naturally amplified.
This is a huge reason why you hear so many men and women exclaim,
“How come I only seem to attract the ones I don’t want?”
Forget about her mind, so to speak, despite the fact she claims to want a guy that wants her for her, and not just her body. She wants both. Although I have met lots of women who will settle for a man despite any sexual attraction or any sex life. I’m sure you don’t want to be in a relationship like that and in reality neither does she.
She will eventually cheat, or lash out at you if her sexual needs are not met to a certain degree.
But these seven tips center around skyrocketing your game so let’s keep it on subject.
How can you use this tip along with the rest, to literally bring your game up to a new level?
The answer is now clearly in front of us and it starts with avoidance.
Avoid statements or questions of a logical nature:
- If I take her there she will like me more.
- If her friends like me, she will let me in.
- Why is she not attracted to me?
You see how each one is trying to deduce logically an answer of her attraction towards you, or is logically stating a connection between you doing something to get something back like her attraction.
This type of thinking only gets you in trouble.
Those questions or statements will often to lead to more logical reasoning and if rationalized completely will always lead you to the same deduction and in the wrong direction in attracting women.
They do nothing but waste your time and cause you to act more logically the next time you are with any woman.
I won’t ask you to stop thinking just stop thinking along those lines. Switch your mind to statements of feelings, mood changing, amplifying her attraction, and the energy created from them.
That is what Nick means when he says change her mood and not her mind.
But first to learn how to do this you must re-train your mind.
Let’s take the list above and change the logical thoughts to a more positive emotion.
**If I take her there she will like me more.**
I really had a great time playing pool last week at…I should bring her along.
**If her friends like me, she will let me in.**
Her friends were so cool I’m looking forward to seeing them again.
**Why is she not attracted to me?**
Haha! I think she hates me. How cute.
Those switches are not hard-coded. They represent a new way of thinking in your game with women. They represent the thinking of a man who attracts women because of who they are.
They don’t deal with the logical issues of trying to figure out why she is doing one thing and not another.
Your lifestyle, how you act, and how you lead your desires which effectively elevate her mood to feel more attracted to you.
So if you want to get your game up with women start changing her mood by first thinking like a masculine man who lives for himself first. Your thoughts should not be centered around figuring out how to change her mind, or why she is acting one way with you or not.
Your thoughts should create a strong barrier of confidence within you. And this, when blended properly among the other six tips, will literally skyrocket you game with women.
Changing her mood and not her mind may seem complicated at first. At least the “How” part of it. But if you stick to doing what I suggest above…
Change your logical reasoning to a positive or fun emotion about yourself.
Recognize when you find yourself trying to convince any women logically to feel something so you can eliminate it completely. Step back immediately.
And trust me, when you learn how to tap into the fun side of her emotions, not only will it all make sense, you won’t ever want to go back to your old way of thinking.
Peter White - A Nice Guy’s Approach to Attraction
This was part four of ”Seven Tips for Skyrocketing Your Game“.
The original article quoted was written by Nick Savoy of Love Systems and was intended to promote and review his newly adapted and updated system…
Review Every Tip on Increasing Your Game With Women
- Tip #1 of 7 Tips To Your Game – Measuring Skills Not Results
- Fashion – Grooming – Tip #2 of 7 – The Details Of Your Appearance
- Being Attractive is Not a Switch – Tip #3 – The Natural Approach
- After the Opening Line – Tip #5 of 7 – Your Game – T.R.M.
- Fun Dates – Tip #6 of 7 – Your Game with Women T.R.M.
- Learn – Execute – Tip #7 of 7 – Your Game with Women T.R.M.
Jeremy Soul of LoveSystems gives his insight and a Review of Why You must Buy Magic Bullets based on his own experience in becoming a member of the LoveSystems team:
Photo Credit of Logic Puzzle
Image: Rawich / FreeDigitalPhotos.net