I start conversations with women all the time.

I flirt with women even when I’m not interested in her. If you were talking to me I wouldn’t assume just because I started a conversation with you, I am interested.

On the other side though I’ve known lots of men who avoid talking to women they are the most interested in…

Because they are too nervous or lack the confidence to start a conversation.

They also don’t want to screw things up.

Some will even fear you’re going to assume they are hitting on you. That’s typically the overly nice guy role.

Every time I get asked a question like this it pains me a little.  I feel people are overly concerned with looking for clues as to whether someone likes them back. If you find yourself asking this question all too often my advice is to stop looking for clues someone finds you attractive and spend that extra time making yourself more attractive.

I’m not talking about doing your hair differently or wearing different clothes. I’m talking about your overall attractiveness which comes from your self-esteem. Men and women with very high healthy self-esteem rarely concern themselves about subjects like this. It does not fit into their lives.

You can see from my examples above how difficult it can be to figure out what he is really thinking. So why bother.

Use your best instincts, your intuition, and your best tests to call him on it in a fun way.

Peter White

Thanks for stopping by and giving me the opportunity to teach you about attraction. Your comments and opinions are always appreciated.

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