Tip #7 of 7 Tips to Skyrocket Your Game is all about learning and executing.
You can not learn how to attract women without executing what you have learned. And there’s no point in executing a failing attraction game.
Nick decides to put this tip in a list format which can be a little confusing but luckily I am here to break it down a little for you.
But first, let’s take a look at that list in tip seven:
7. Learn and Execute
Being the guy who is popular with women and is always surrounded by girls is someone you can be.
Picking up and dating girls is a skill set you can learn.
A couple years ago after my girlfriend broke up with me, I was clueless how I was going to get another girlfriend.
There were very few resources for guys on how to attract women.
I went online, tried different things that I read, but nothing worked for me.
I decided I would take things into my own hands and figure it out on my own.
After a lot of hard work and trying all kinds of crazy things, I finally figured it all out.
Whenever I go out now, I’m so confident that I can meet almost any woman and pick her up.
I’ve run the gauntlet from dating adult actresses, models, bartenders, exotic dancers, and professional women.
That’s why I wrote “Magic Bullets” that has all my own secrets to attracting women and additional tips from other guys I’ve worked with who are also extremely GOOD with women.
It’s full with tips for meeting girls, techniques for going for the kiss without rejection, getting the phone number, ideas for the perfect date, and a lot more.
This is part three of ”Seven Tips for Skyrocketing Your Game“.
The original article quoted was written by Nick Savoy of Love Systems and was intended to promote and review his newly adapted and updated system,
I understand when this tip is taken out of context it may not be everything you hoped for.
But there’s a reason for that.
How do you tell someone to get off their butt and get the job done.
You don’t.
You motivate them. And the best motivator I’ve found always begins with respect.
I’ve watched countless bosses fail with almost every known tactic in the book to motivate their people. You see the execution was being done, but the learning was not.
They were executing what they were being told to do but they never learned the correct way to motivate.
Because the motivation which was being used on them was -
“Get the job done or you’ll lose your job.”
It’s typical in the lowest ranks of a most corporations.
But what I’ve found is if the people around you respect you, they will want to do their job better, for you.
(Incidentally, when a woman respects you she’s more likely to seek your approval.)
- Lead by confidence in yourself and inspire that confidence in others.
- Motivate by the respect which is created when you lead with confidence, are willing to learn new skills, and the quickness in which you execute those skills.
Nick wants your respect and that’s obvious here:
” Whenever I go out now, I’m so confident that I
can meet almost any woman and pick her up. I’ve
run the gauntlet from dating adult actresses,
models, bartenders, exotic dancers, and
professional women. “
Nick tells you in tip 7 how bad he was with women, how he also learned new skills and put them into practice. And how through trial and error finally began to work for him. This makes him very confident in what he teaches will work for you…that is if you, “Learn and execute.”
So if Tip 7 lacks the advice or punch you’re looking for the reason is clear above. He’s not just telling you to do something about your situation, he’s motivating you by gaining your respect.
One more thing because I’m getting a sneaky suspicion you want to walk away from this letter with how you can use tip 7 to increase your game with women.
After all that is what this series of letters was about.
I already gave you the clues above:
- When a woman respects you she’s more likely to seek your approval.
Now doesn’t it feel when you’re trying to attract a woman you’re almost trying to motivate them to like you.
- Lead by confidence in yourself and inspire that confidence in others.
We all know that last statement naturally attracts women.
- Motivate by the respect which is created when you lead with confidence, are willing to learn new skills, and the quickness in which you execute those skills.
The truth is, if a woman does not respect you, motivating her to feel attracted to you is pointless. It won’t work.
Since you can not force respect, (the old “do your job or lose your job” only goes so far,) the best practice to learn and execute is -
- Lead the interaction with confidence in yourself. Even if you fail. Even if a little spit winds up on her plate by accident. Little things bounce off of you.
- Inspire her confidence by not getting to bent or upset over the small things. Especially when it is embarrassing to you.
- A clever way to pull off a failed approach, or turn things around to gain even more respect is to show her you’re above letting a failure get you down. In fact you find it almost amusing.
YOU: “You must give me your number…”
HER: “Umm no I don’t and I won’t.”
YOU: “But without your number I could spiral into a deep depression. Do you want that on your conscious?”
HER: “That’s your problem not mine. You’re just not my type.”
YOU: “Oh…so you don’t date manic depressants whose life revolves around number farming?”
HER: “Haha! Yeah you caught me. I bet you think you’ve got me all figured out now.”
YOU: “Of course I do and I would appreciate it if you would be a little less predictable.”
HER: “I’ll remember that the next time some guy tries to pick me up who I’m not interested in.”
YOU: “Please do. Let me know how it works out for you.”
HER: “Oh yeah. You would like that. Next comes I guess we’ll have to exchange numbers…Haha! Now who’s being predictable??”
YOU: “Oh it’s still definitely you. But it’s okay. I have that affect on women. The smiles. The laughs behind the fake anger. I’ve seen it all a million times. Of course it would be much more believable if you squint your eyes a couple times. Play the part fully. That’s what they all do.”
HER: “Wow. You are full of yourself aren’t you? Haha! Does this actually work with other women?”
YOU: “It hasn’t worked until now. But I guess those OTHER women were just angry man haters.”
Notice the unwavering confidence.
No matter what she said I did not let it get to me. I was, in real time, learning and executing. I was in real time, gaining her respect without trying.
I was inspiring confidence in herself and at the same time making her laugh.
In a way I as motivating her to try and break me. The more frustrated she got the more into me she became.
But I wasn’t being rude or obnoxious, (Which will surely get your thrown out.)
This seemingly failed approach may not always work out that way. But the learning and executing part of it will, without a doubt, increase your game with women.
Peter White
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This was part seven of ”Seven Tips for Skyrocketing Your Game“.
The original article quoted was written by Nick Savoy of Love Systems and was intended to promote and review his newly adapted and updated system…
Review Every Tip on Increasing Your Game With Women
- Tip #1 of 7 Tips To Your Game – Measuring Skills Not Results
- Fashion – Grooming – Tip #2 of 7 – The Details Of Your Appearance
- Being Attractive is Not a Switch – Tip #3 of 7 – The Natural Approach
- Her Mind and Mood – Tip #4 of 7 – Your Game – T.R.M.
- After the Opening Line – Tip #5 of 7 – Your Game – T.R.M.
- Fun Dates – Tip #6 of 7 – Your Game with Women T.R.M.
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