Yes. It happens. There are good women. The are bad women. There are good guys. And there are bad guys. I’m not going to get into a discussion about determining the reason why people act badly. In fact it doesn’t even interest me at all.

What I  do want to get into is how she used me and what us guys can do to avoid being used by women, who just don’t seem to get it.

The things is you would think she would not have acted that way. Seemingly a nice person out to help the world. Seemingly a nice woman who thoughts of career, marriage, finding the right man, and settling down. She does come from a dysfunctional family and there’s a good chance she wants to create a stable environment to live in and to offer her future children. She also had just been “released” from a long relationship by her partner cheating on her several times.

So How did she use me?

Emotionally I was her crutch. Her moment of escape. Her temporary lay off while she primped and primed the real man she was hoping for. She inadvertently used our connection to stir up his emotions. Whether she knew it or not, it is exactly what happened.  And that is what makes her a bad woman in my eyes. The woman to avoid in the future.

It’s not like I didn’t see the signs. A series of events happened which triggered a red flag to pop up in the back of my mind. I didn’t choose to not ignore them them but I chose to tell myself,

“Haha! She’s lying. She digs this guy. She just making sure he is who he says he is. She’s testing him and if he passes she will remove herself from my life quickly. No matter what she says how much she’s into me. No matter how much support or physical enjoyment she gives me. I know, for a fact, she will end up with this guy.”

It’s not that I can see the future. I just know the signs. I’ve been around women enough to know there was a good chance I was being used. She threw herself at me quickly and I accepted. Bad move on my part, that I know. But what the hell it was fun anyways and honestly, I got over her in around 8 hours. I invested some time with her but I wasn’t ready to invest emotionally yet. So I stayed back in my head while giving her what she wanted:

• A little bit of attention.
• A little bit of support.
• A little of my sexual energy.
• And a ton of my wonderfully charming personality.

And how was I re-payed?

By her offering friendship to me and telling me I had to know it was going to happen. We lived a couple hours apart and she just wasn’t into a so called long distance relationship. She found someone closer and he was really “good” to her.

And what did I learn?

That my advice works. The advice I have been culminating from tons of experts in the dating and attraction field, does work. Sure this experience was a failed endeavor with a young attractive woman but I got over her quick and have learned to not let it set me back.

I also learned that even though she may have done a bad thing, it does not make her a bad person. She justt didn’t know how to deal with her own issues. But guess what? I knew how to deal with mine!

I also learned that through all my years of dating and the research I have done, and the skills I have acquired along the way, really have paid off.

Take note of this post guys. If there was any reason holding you back from getting those women in your life beyond just a friendship, this is proof to you it’s all possible. This is also proof to you that:

• You will encounter setbacks so deal with them as they come along. Dealing with setbacks can be tough and if you feel you are struggling with this heavily do yourself a huge favor and look at Real Confidence
• You will have your ups and downs. Learn from downs. Learn from the ups.
• Predicting a situation with a woman can yield amazing results and keep you getting hurt too deep. Her cut was only superficial because my confidence was high enough to not allow her to cut too deep.

And there is so much more I could write here but for now please do yourself a huge favor; if you came to the site looking for answers or a way out of your dating problems read a little for my your sake, for someone to guide you step by step and start living the life you deserve.

Scot McKay of X&Y Communications has just released a great new product you should seriously consider.

It’s being released today so you may want to snatch it up quickly and beat the rush.

It’s called, The Man’s Approach. It’s a complete system for meeting high quality women, start conversations, and for making plans to see them again. Take the time to read through the page. This product will cover more than just the basics of what I have already learned.

Again this is a new release just out on the market today and Scot McKay has already proven himself and his products to be highly recommended by any dating expert.

Good luck guys and remember being used can have it’s good points when you know how to deal with them. And after all, how many guys do you know that can say they were used by a young beautiful for more than just a friendship.

[intlink id="1380" type="category"]Peter White[/intlink]

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