Attraction Transformation

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Is the Woman You’re Dating Seeing Other Men Also?

It’s no secret that I strongly advocate dating several women at once. Life is way too short to be a “serial dater”. You’ve got to learn quickly what it is you really want in a great woman, and how to evaluate whether a particular woman fits the parameters or not. Scot McKay describes men without options act out of need. Denying to yourself she is seeing others limits your choices and your character.

What Do Dating And Sales Have In Common?

In order to become the man with options in his dating life, you’ve got to think like a millionaire salesperson. Here’s why. Scot McKay writes how success in sales and dating are more similar than most people understand.

Secrets to Flirting For Men

What do you think of when you hear the word “flirting”? Be honest. For years (make that decades) I used to equate the concept of flirting with making the kind of remarks and gestures toward women that would get you slapped for your efforts.

The Leading Man Relationship Management System

Lately there’s been lots of talk about “natural game”…as if all we need to do is emulate a guy who we see as a “natural”, and we’ll somehow become more attractive to women.
Now sure, having some guys who are great with women show you the ropes isn’t such a bad idea. But do we really need to copy someone else’s entire persona in order to successfully attract the kind of women we want?

How Can I Possibly Deserve The Partner Of My Dreams?

How does the “average” person ever stand a chance of attracting and keeping the most amazing person he or she has ever met?

Generally speaking I am blessed to receive emails on a daily basis from readers and listeners expressing dramatic life change. I love to hear from people who are refusing to settle and therefore deserving what they want more and more every day. I truly live for messages like those these days. It inspires me to know that Emily and I are making a difference.

When It Comes To Dating, Which “Experience” Are You?

Alright, first of all, I’ll come right out with it. You already know I consider “just be yourself” to be perhaps the most dangerous and certainly the most generic bit of attraction advice I’ve ever heard.

And with that bit of housekeeping behind us, I’m going to suggest that you instead avoid trying to be someone you are not.

At first glance, I’m sure that comes off as simply a semantic variation upon the same worn out “just be yourself” cliché. Kind of like the “mirror image” of it or something.

And were it such, it would be a throwaway. I agree.

A Simple Exercise For Eliminating Fear Of Rejection By The Opposite Sex

Based on what you understand to be your own flaws and weaknesses, you look around you and habitually consider those whom you find most attractive “out of your league”. Learn to consider things from the perspective of any among the six billion other people out there…and brace yourself for MASSIVE life change. Scot McKay of X & Y Communications shows you the secret.

How to Succeed With Women – BE Murphy’s Law

Most of us think of “Murphy’s Law” as something that happens to us. It’s especially easy to apply “Murphy’s Law” to our lives with women, isn’t it? Well, instead of running from the “law”, it’s time to go into “law enforcement” for a change…