The words natural and attraction seem to imply there is a non-natural way to attract as if we could manipulate another into liking us or feeling something for us.

Can we really trick people into feeling attraction. I know if I wanted to I could trick someone into wanting to have sex with me. Or play out a game to get a girlfriend, only to let her down by not being who she thought I was.

Is that then considered to be unnatural attraction?

I don’t think it is does.

Therefore natural attraction is being able to invoke, create, or amplify, not how another is feeling, but what their natural gut or instinct is telling them this,

“I find this man or woman attractive.”

Natural attraction in part is having the ability to live in the present.

It is having the ability to not let outside forces control you. But it also about having the ability to not let barriers get in the way of this primal energy we are born with.

For example… a man with a hunched over stagnate walk is not seen as being natural attractive. It goes against our primal need to procreate effectively. We don’t find it attractive because it represents someone who is not healthy physically.

Natural attraction goes beyond our looks. Generally speaking of course. We don’t have to be great looking to attract. We only need to create a primal reaction in a woman or a man.

(Although a man’s attraction can be triggered by looks alone.)

What if I were to tell you I know a man who has come up with a way in which you can trigger a woman’s attraction towards you.

Did you know over 90% of what you say or how women react to you sexually is in your body language?

Remember that hunched over man I mentioned above. How his body language is telling women’s instinct he is hurt physically.  Animals don’t normally want to mate with other animals that are in this state. If this were the case natural selection would have taken care of us long ago and I would not be writing to this to you.

This is where Rob Brinded comes in. He is an expert in the field of training athletes and he has proven to me…

A man with reasonable physical attributes will either turn on that attraction mechanism in a woman, or turn it off by his body language alone.

His body, how he walks, his facial expressions, his mannerisms conveys to a woman his ability to be a worthy mate. Rob’s Code Of The Natural is a proven, inexpensive method designed to teach us men how to turn on her attraction with our body language. It consists of exercises that are simple and easy to perform which instantly conveys to a woman you are a masculine man designed to propagate our species.

If you feel you just don’t seem to be able to trigger that natural attraction a woman experiences, pick up a copy of the Code Of The Natural and get that part of it handled. Read his intro and I know you’ll be excited from it. By the time you’re done you’ll know without a doubt it works, and it works quickly.

However….She still may not react to you positively.

We are humans and we’re going to have to learn how to communicate in that 5% to 10% above our body language.

We must be able to hold a conversation which builds on this natural attraction. This is the other part when it comes to attracting women. Our social value, our status, our ability to convey our message to the world confidently, and our ability to lead others, all come into play.  Women instinctively respond to men who has those traits, whether she physically decides to act on it or not.

You can also learn to have conversations that evoke those attraction triggers but you always must keep in mind she will always see you first.

Your body language when you walk into a room come first. (Under most circumstances.)

What is natural attraction?

It is our bodies first invoking another instinctive reaction to what we represent to them.

It is then our words or how we communicate which can either amplify or destroy how another acts on this energy they are feeling inside. (Generally speaking of course because both men and women will have sex based on attraction alone and not pursue any form of relationship after.)

We can naturally attract women with just our words or our conversations alone but I’ve found that is a skill we develop throughout our entire lives and we never stop developing.

So let’s face it. Once you get a handle on your body language and just maintain yourself physically the conversation flows naturally, and well over three-quarters of this attractive energy is already there. If you don’t at least have that down competently it’s going to make the rest of it that much more difficult.

Here is what I recommend to men who are tired of not feeling sexy and attractive, to men who don’t feel like women are even giving them a chance.

(You may also need a small makeover of your looks. Don’t disregard this process please.)

1. Learn what attraction is really all about.

In order of appearance in my life these are some of the people who taught me (relating to dating):

David DeAngelo – David Wygant – The Wing Girls – Carlos Xuma – Scot McKay

2. Get your body language up to a level in which women find themselves reacting sexually towards you.

I read a few body language books but I have found Rob Brinded’s Code Of The Natural helped me with my own the most.

Check out Rob’s intro page here, Rob Brinded or go right to the Code Of The Natural.

Carlos Xuma can give you a complete education of yours and her body language, how to read it, and what it means. If you’re one of those guys like me, that loves knowledge and can not get enough of it when you’re learning something Carlos will be perfect for you. As he was for me. Check out the links below and you’ll see for yourself soon enough.

3. Learn to communicate or back up this body language confidently with strong conversational skills.

• 20 Way’s to Meet Hotter Women – David Wygant want’s to teach you how to meet attractive women without pickup lines. This is where your strong conversational skills are highly important.
• How To Talk To Women – As far as I’m concerned Carlos Xuma is a Master at talking with women. If you going to learn attractive conversational skills from anyone, please make it Carlos. You can read a review I wrote on it by clicking here.

4. Learn to communicate attractive conversational skills without body language.

(except perhaps in pictures)

• Guy’s Guide To Texting – David Wygant will teach you how use this new form of communication, texting, to your advantage.
• Telecom Game– Attract And Seduce Using Phone, Text And Voice Mail. Scot McKay will tech you how attraction and seduction with women using your phone, texting skills and her voice mail.
• Phone Sex Revealed –  David Wygant will teach you how to attract and seduce women from the comfort of your own home. You can read more about my review of this here - 4 Reasons Why You Must Learn How To Give Great Phone Sex

What I mentioned above is just a step by step procedure on how I learned to attract lots of women into my life and I know you can too.

You may not need help in all those areas. Your focus may be different from mine but I feel each area, and a little more, must be covered in order to naturally attract any type of woman you desire.

One more important fact to always remember when you are going through those steps.

You must experience events yourself. You must get out and practice and not sit in your house gathering information all the time.

You must experience many failures and successes for yourself. Learn to integrate them into the learning process and always keep pushing forward with strength and flexibility.

Again…

Keep learning and keep doing what works. Always use your strength and your flexibility to learn new and exciting ideas. When you finally find yourself naturally attracting others don’t stop there. This a never-ending process and when you do experience success, please remember to enjoy every minute of it. Learn more by teaching others what you have learned.

What is the real Natural Attraction here?

It is something that is within you, that is why it is called “Natural” you just have to learn to bring it out so other’s can benefit from you.

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Thanks for listening and I wish you all the best of luck,

-Pete

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