Some pick up lines are unbecoming, boring and rude.
How many times have we heard cheesy pick up lines like:
“Did it hurt? When you fell from heaven, did it hurt?”
“Do you believe in love at first sight, or should I walk by again?”
“Did you wash your pants with windex? Because I can see myself in them.”
Let’s face it – if you use lines like these on a girl, she’s not going to give you the time of day.
Because pick of lines such as these, which are bad get too much attention, while encouraging others to consider that all pick up lines are worthless.
However, this is not correct.
A good pick up line will ACTUALLY help you pick up a woman.
Keep in mind that the purpose of using a pick up line is to begin a conversation.
It is as simple as that, merely to engage a woman in conversation.
You can work your magic to do what you need to get a date with her, a phone number and an emotional connection, once she begins talking to you.
If you cannot begin a conversation, you can do little else.
Because you shouldn’t just be talking to a girl. You should be ENGAGING the girl. Pulling her into a conversation with you is the only sure-fire way to further your agenda.
Do you know that good pick up lines do just that?
Do you know that when most men meet women they are at a loss for words to begin talking to a woman? They try to think of something off the top of their head, while often missing the opportunity of meeting a nice woman, before they can think of something to say.
This is why you should know a couple of good working pick up lines. Situations like these may hinder you from being original and you need something to help you get the ball rolling.
Never, consider that you can slide by with a line such as:
“I know you from somewhere, don’t I?”
This is lame pick up line and women know it, this is not a clever pick up line and makes you look bad.
Also, doing things like asking for directions, telling a girl she looks like a certain celebrity, and complimenting her on a piece of clothing are BAD ways to pick a girl up.
Why?
This is because these lines do not engage the woman into a conversation with you, once she answers your question, she may not show interest in conversing with you.
Avoid pick up lines that have yes and no answers. Good pick up lines get a woman to think about her reply, while inducing an emotional reaction, which encourages her to continue talking with you.
How do you engage a woman in conversation?
The easiest way is to ask her opinion about something. Every woman has strong opinions, and they aren’t afraid to share them! (Particuarly when they come to relationships!)
Good pick up lines work like this, for example. Say something to the woman, like this, Hi, I need you opinion on something, do you think it is normal for a woman to try to time a pregnancy so that her baby is born within a particular zodiac sign? I would really like to hear the opinion of a woman about this subject.
Once you engage her in the conversation you may follow up with a tale of some woman who wants to be sure she and her children are astrologically compatible, to make life a bit more enjoyable as life moves along.
These various types of subjects for conversation can be about:
- Children
- Marriage
- Astrology
- Pregnancy
- Relationships
The places you can go with this type of line are limitless. Here are some of my favorite follow-ups.
“Do you think there’s something to astrology?” (then lead into more discussion about destiny or fate.)
“What is your zodiac sign?” (This can lead to talking about your sign compatibility – as a general rule, no matter what your sign is – you are compatible!)
“Are you fond of children? You seem very nurturing.”
I could go on and on, but you get the idea.
A good pick up line design draws a woman into an interestingly deep conversation, while allowing you the opportunity of getting to know one another better and becoming familiar with one another.
This is how you begin conversations.
From that point, it should be rather easy to ask her for a telephone number and possibly set up a first date.
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