I want to share with you one of the BIGGEST secrets to understanding men…
It’s the solution to perhaps the most frequent complaint I hear from women:
“David, I DON’T GET MEN! I just don’t understand them…”
If you’ve ever felt this way, you’re not alone. And it’s not as if women don’t TRY to understand us guys – they rack their brain, pester all their friends, analyze and analyze and analyze…
…and yet men’s behavior never seems “logical” to most women.
So why does it seem so hard to understand men?
THE TRUTH?
WE’RE NOT HARD TO UNDERSTAND… IF YOU KNOW HOW MEN THINK!
Having coached women for more than eleven years, I see women torturing themselves trying to “figure men out” … when the problem is that you assume men think like women.
Not true! But not to worry – I’m here to help…
While I have been coaching both men and women for more than eleven years, what I really enjoy about coaching each gender is that they are very different.
What I love most about coaching women is feeling like I am getting to share with them all of the secrets about men that men never tell them. I have always loved being able to give women a tour inside the mind of a man, so that they truly understand men and how they’re wired.
Here is a perfect example of how I get to do this. A woman reader of my blog asked me a question the other day that I felt I absolutely NEEDED to address not only with her, but with ALL of the women out there.
************READER QUESTION******************
“David, I really want to let men know I’m interested, but if I look at a man too long won’t he think I’m staring at him and that I’m coming on to him?
Maddy
San Diego”
***************MY ANSWER********************
“Maddy,
So What!!
David”
Men and women are wired very differently. It was the fact that she even wondered about this, though, that led me to see that
FOR WOMEN TO CHANGE THEIR DATING LIVES THEY NEED TO START THINKING LIKE A MAN.
Here are 5 reasons why all of you women out there NEED to start thinking like a man in your dating life:
“MEN ARE NOT WIRED LIKE WOMEN.”
We don’t think about every little, tiny thing. If our elbow itches, we itch it. If we have to blow our nose, we blow it. We don’t wonder why our elbow itches.
Men don’t make these things any more complicated than that.
“MEN DON’T SEARCH FOR THE “WHY” IN EVERYTHING.”
Men don’t need to find the deeper meaning (or assume there is any deeper meaning) in everything.
If a woman’s elbow itches, she wonders “Why does my elbow itch? Did I do something to make my elbow itch? Did I eat something that made my elbow itch?”
Women have to find out the “why” for everything they do and everything that happens to them.
“Why does this guy like me? What does this mean?”
Here’s the truth of the matter…
It doesn’t mean anything!! You have to think like a man!
TO MEET MEN, YOU NEED TO LEARN TO “SPEAK MAN.”
If you are attracted to a man, smile at him and stare at him. Speak man!
To “speak man” means that you need to be obvious. We need you to be obvious.
If you’re obvious, we’ll walk over like a puppy dog. We don’t want to sit there, thinking and wondering all night long what your casual two second glance means.
We WANT you to smile at us and talk to us.
“MEN AREN’T THINKING WHAT YOU THINK THEY ARE.”
Stop trying to anticipate a man’s reaction to you based upon how you as a woman thinks. Women so often assume that men are thinking certain ways about how women behave, and women so often are so WRONG!
If you look at us, we are not thinking that you’re easy. All we are thinking is that you are looking at us.
Really, that’s all!
We are, in fact, so glad that you’re being obvious enough for us to get it that we almost want to high-five you!
“TO MEET MEN, YOU NEED TO CHANGE YOUR ENERGY.”
To all you women, this secret is a biggee … so pay attention!
if you want to meet men you need to wake up! What I mean is that you not only need to start thinking like a man, but you also need to change how you interact with men based on this knowledge.
So, start staring and be obvious!! You’ll have more men coming over than you’ll ever want to date.
If you continue to be coy, you won’t get the boy. If you’re tired of staying home alone on Saturday nights, then you need to realize that nothing is going to change until you change your energy.
OK … I know this has been a TON of info, but I just need to tell you a few more things about why if you want to meet men, that you NEED you start thinking like a man.
Think about this for a second…
Why after reading dating book after dating book are so many women still confused about men?
Because most every dating book is written by women!
If you want to learn about men, you need to talk to a man – and learn exactly how men think and are wired.
One last question…and be honest with yourself here…
When is the last time you saw a man to whom you were attracted, and you took a risk by smiling at him and got him to come over with the powers of your femininity?
If it’s been longer than a week, then you’re not doing it right.
It’s time to stop listening to the outdated advice that has been given to women for so long, and start to think like a man when interacting with men! If a man doesn’t approach you and talk to you, it is because you either didn’t know how to bring the man over or you didn’t do anything to get him to approach you.
Start taking responsibility for your own dating life, and you’ll start improving it immediately!
The Art of Attracting Men
Author Credit:
David Wygant has become one of the media’s most sought-after personalities. His energy and insight into dating, sex and relationships — no matter whether it’s on the Internet, over the radio airwaves, on television, in the country’s biggest magazines and newspapers, or in person — are contagious and inspiring. David offers a wide variety of products for women looking to meet amazing men, find love, improve their sex life, enhance their relationship, or just develop real inner confidence.
Click Here to read my opinion on David Wygant and whether or not I believe his advice is perfect for you.
My Opinion:
(Peter White)
I constantly debate with a friend of mine about the games men and women play.. I tell him there are fun learning games and there are bad games. I tell him I teach the fun games. And he shakes his head and demands,
“I don’t care. They’re all just games anyways. Why can’t we just walk up to a woman, better yet, why can’t a woman just walk up to a man and tell him she likes me? This constant game playing and not revealing your feelings is bullshit.”
I don’t agree with him entirely but I feel a huge point David is trying to make here is obvious in my friend’s request to the world.
You’re going to meet more men than you can handle. And these are Men you may never give yourself a chance to meet because they side with my friend. They want the obvious. It’s something they can relate to. They don’t want to spend their time and energy trying to figure out what she is thinking. They’re only looking for an obvious sign you are interested and they will take the male role from there.
Don’t give out the obvious to that man, and he’ll never notice.
I’ve trained myself to notice all the details and clues women give.
I’ve trained myself to think like a woman and get deep inside her emotional state to understand her fully.
I’ve learned the skills needed to attract any woman I feel something towards.
But guess what?
Most men will never learn what I know and each will have their own reasons, good or bad. Most will never learn because of the exact reasons he lists about thinking like a man.
I can not force it upon them.
I can not make them want to learn.
You can send them to my sites and hope, or you can take the next step in your life and just start thinking like a man.
There’s always going to be more to learn and there are always new ways to attract better men. But in either case when you start experiencing more men who are interested in you because of your obvious signs and your thinking like him, you’ll find it easier and more rewarding to start putting in practice your new skills of attraction.
Thanks Dave for the post. My friend is looking forward to seeing a woman who learned to start thinking like a man.
Peter White – My Nice Guy’s Approach To Attraction – DiaLteG™
*More of David Wygant’s Advice to Review for Women
I’m allowed to share with you a few unique pages to offer a glimpse into the man you’ll be learning from soon. Browse through them and click on the one you can relate to the most.
Stop Judging Your Dating Life
This is what you’ll want to read if you’re one of those women that like to “over think” or analyze everything. You’ll understand how to quiet your mind and how that can help you attract better relationships into your life.
Is It Time To Delete His Number?
Are you tired of having guys not text or call you back after you tried and tried to keep in touch?
Stop worrying and read this lesson because you’ll know exactly what to do and understand men much better by the time you’re done reading it. David offers more great advice to help quiet your mind into over thinking everything.
The #1 Reason Men Won’t Approach You
Too many men passing you by without even saying “hello”?
You’re not alone. Lots of women have this problem too. David watched closely got down to the real truth why guys are not approaching you.
You will not be left without knowing exactly what to do to get more men approach you. You’ll learn about excuses and mistakes to avoid. Read it and the next time you get a chance to have a man start talking to you, remember his advice and you’re almost guaranteed to see an immediate difference.
5 Ways To Become Instantly More Attractive Through Lifestyle
You don’t have to change everything about you to become more attractive to men.
Your lifestyle can easily do that for you with some helpful advice from David. You can learn them right here, right now and start enjoying a more attractive lifestyle tomorrow. Embrace every moment starting with the words you’re about to read and you’re already on your way.
Who Calls First Online?
The “rules” of dating are hard to understand and even more confusing to follow.
David understands this and will show you exactly what to do about the so-called rules of dating online. When you’re flirting with a guy and you have exchanged numbers, read this advice before you do anything and you’ll be much better off.
How To Overcome Dating Shyness Today
Shyness can literally put the brakes on having any remarkable dating life.
You don’t have to be shy anymore. You don’t have to drive yourself crazy just trying to “hi” to guys anymore. In this post you’ll learn exactly how to eliminate much of your dating shyness. It’s time to stop talking yourself out of meeting men and start taking action on this great advice.
Change Your Dating Life By Taking ATTRACTION ACTION
Stop worrying and start taking action in your dating life.
David and I both know you want amazing relationships. Who doesn’t. Except when you’re constantly thinking about the rules, whether he likes, what you must do next with him, you’re far from taking action in your dating life. You’re going to learn what Attraction Action and how it can lead to finally have control over your dating life.
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