Nick Savoy has allowed me to post several of his articles which contain tips for men on dating, creating attraction, approaching women, and seduction.
A few of them I just posted up and moved on. However this one really stood out for me because the advice contained within it I feel..
Is a must read for any man who wants to increase his game with women.
And yes. Nick is absolutely promoting his material with this article.
I honestly don’t even know if he wrote it himself or a ghost writer used his words. And frankly I don’t care because the advice is solid.
I do sense based on the interviews I heard from Nick and the overall theme of LoveSystems that the words below are definitely built on the theme of his material. Therefore promoting Magic Bullets honestly with the ultimate goal of guiding and teaching you comes first.
Most relationships, and attraction experts who excel, who make lots of money, who affectively change lots of lives, who form the highest percentage of repeat customers -
Are the ones that know this important fact in self-help and making money by doing it…
“You will never succeed consistently unless you are giving advice that works.”
The product and the advice must always come first. Look around at marketing and you’ll see what I mean. With an outstanding campaign there are clever individuals that can sell you a pile of shit if they want. Given the sheer numbers someone’s bound to buy. Yet that kind of cheap tactics don’t last in the dating world. They send out their lines with a baited hook into a sea of full of fish, and occasionally snag one.
Glance down quickly at the first tip and relate it back to consistently succeeding in this “game“.
If Nick follows his own advice, which I do believe he does, this reassured me that his “results” are to make a living at what he loves to do, and the “measuring skills” is how many men benefit from all his material.
I’m sure you are as excited as I am in reading tip one of the seven tips to improve your game let’s not wait any longer. The quotes are from the article.
Anything contained outside the quotes are my views and opinion based on my experiences in my own dating life.
1. Measure Skills, Not Results
Men usually like results. You made $60,000 last year. You fixed up your dream car. Your team won. Your investments went up 15% went up 5% only went down 25% are still, technically, worth something. You slept with this many women. Etc.
You can’t do this with women and dating.
Being results-focused will actually hurt your game.
If your goals are phone numbers, dates, one-night stands, or whatever, you risk coming across as needy. You will be approaching women obviously wanting something. Women can “smell” an agenda.
Your inner game (internal outlook on yourself and your abilities) and confidence will also suffer. If your goal is to take a hot girl home tonight but the hottest girl at the party has a photo shoot at dawn the next morning, what are you going to do?
Sure, you can make excuses and exceptions, but that’s a slippery slope and will eventually make all of your goals meaningless.
Focus on what YOU can control and what YOU need to be working on. For example:
- Scared to approach a girl? Approach 10 women today.
- Are you scared to approach women who are surrounded by men? Approach 3 mixed groups today.
- Not naturally physical or “touchy”? Touch (appropriately) every person you meet today within 30 seconds.
- Want to learn to do “cold reads” (observations you can make about a woman that doesn’t necessarily require that you know anything about her – these can be incredibly useful and fun, both allowing you to learn about a woman and giving her information about you.)? Do a cold read in at least 5 approaches.
- Trouble taking things sexual? Use at least 4 different sexualization techniques tonight.
And so on…
This was part one of ”Seven Tips for Skyrocketing Your Game“.
The original article quoted was written by Nick Savoy of Love Systems and was intended to promote and review his newly adapted and updated system,
Magic Bullets – Meet, Attract, and Date the women You Want
Nick proves here that his material is not based on quick fixes. That there is no easy way out.
Yes the results can be rewarding and yes we often do projects with a clear purpose in our minds but when that focus becomes get more attention than the skills needed to practice and learn, we actually end up getting nowhere. Like someone is dangling this image of hot girls in front of you and then asking you to reach for it while on a treadmill.
In fact this is what most quick fix artists do (in any field).
They put an image inside your head and distract you. And while you’re not looking they take your money out of your pocket. They make sure you just can’t seem to reach that target goal because they are the one controlling your focus.
Your focus is on the prize and now and then you get lucky.
This makes you believe what this artist is teaching you is right when in fact only two things happened and that person dangling the prize in front of you knew it would.
- You lack the social skills to attract women so you buy some quick advice for quick results. Now of course in order to use this advice you’re going to have to go out and meet some women. And this quick fix artist knows this. He or she also knows the probability of you hooking up increases dramatically when you begin to socialize more.
- So you get lucky. Your mind relates this new material or trick you have just learned to getting the girl. But in reality you probably just got lucky and because you don’t get lucky sitting at home doing nothing about your dating life, your chances literally skyrocket at first.
I didn’t write those last few paragraphs to lash out or undermine those quick fix artists; it certainly was not my intention.
In fact the main purpose for using that old “dangling the carrot” cliché was to state this:
- The quick fix artist you should fear the most..
- The one that can steal your money or confidence the quickest…
- The one most men and women notice the least in their lives…
- The one that hides in the most cunning places and often using our own image to do so….
Is ourselves.
Think about it.
Who better to convince ourselves to take the easy way out than the one doing all the work. Who better to convince ourselves that women will just suddenly land in our laps by uttering a few words, than the person we know best. The person we do have control of.
They say the mind is a terrible thing to waste but our minds are built to function without waste. It is always searching for a clean efficient way of doing things. And sometimes due to the nature of enjoyment in any quick fix, those high levels of emotions we experience often only allow our minds to see that connection more clearly than the rest.
Our minds don’t fully comprehend future events it merely attempts to predict it best based on our knowledge. And our minds can only correlate past events.
What we need to do is train our minds to experience the present more fully.
Turn that present mind from seeing black and white to full color. From that tiny old television to a full size flat screen digital. When we can achieve this in our daily lives just a little more than we did the day before our focus stays where it belongs. It stays on controlling our selves. It allow us to take that quick fix artist known as ourselves from hiding in the shadows to standing right in front of us, unable to hide from its own image.
Throughout my failed dating experiences or lack there of any dating life one of my many quick fix items was sex. I know. Not too original but I feel most men can relate to this one the easiest. I wanted sex and I wanted it now. I would leave my house and reassure myself that tonight was the night.
I dangled that carrot of my orgasmic release and my drive to stay on that treadmill was sheer sexual frustration. And if you’re guy like me you understand fully how powerful sexual frustration can be.
What I have learned to do and I’ll be honest with you, I’m only three-quarters of the way there, my roots of frustration go deep, was not to channel that energy like I once believed, but was to use that frustration to focus more on the skills I needed to learn. And the skill I needed to learn related directly to sexual frustration was, how to be a tease. And how to do it confidently, respectfully, and with the sheer charm of a real man. My thoughts became,
“I can go longer without sex with her, than she can with me. I know it’s true. I went years without any physical contact. “
When I began to focus on the skills of first attracting women and then the skills of teasing guess what happened…
I began to feel less frustrated and more empowered.
When those poisoning thoughts of frustration began to disappear and I felt like a more confident man, the teasing skills became effortless. In fact I have learned to flirt in such a teasingly way at times, I can sense HER sexual frustration.
When I can live in that present mind I am able to sense others emotional state so much easier. By what I say, how I say it, and how she responds physically and orally, I have a great sense of the last time she even had sex.
And no it’s not one hundred percent dead on. Sometimes it’s not even close. But it has taught me to notice and tweak in real-time, her emotional state. I can allow myself to turn up her attraction towards me and lead in the direction I want the newly formed interaction to go.
And let me tell you guys, if you want to attract women of all sorts, learning to be confident about your emotional state, and then leading her emotional state in the direction you desire, is more than a huge turn on to them. Women are naturally drawn towards men that can do that.
In the end she will decide one way or another. I’m not into predicting her future.
I’m only interested in controlling my present, or my skills, the result take care of themselves.
I would like to personally thank Nick for his wonderful knowledge and be sure to check out Magic Bullets – Meet, Attract, and Date the women You Want.
Start focusing on your skills with attracting today and the results will come.
I’m looking forward to part two so keep your eyes out for it. This concludes my thoughts of a real man today and you know I have a ton of thoughts so I’ll see you all again, real soon.
Later,
Peter White - A Nice Guy’s Approach to Attraction
This was part one of ”Seven Tips for Skyrocketing Your Game“.
The original article quoted was written by Nick Savoy of Love Systems and was intended to promote and review his newly adapted and updated system,
Magic Bullets – Meet, Attract, and Date the women You Want
Review Every Tip on Increasing Your Game With Women:
- Fashion – Grooming – Tip #2 – The Details Of Your Appearance
- Being Attractive is Not a Switch – Tip #3
- Her Mind and Mood – Tip #4
- After the Opening Line – Tip #5
- Fun Dates – Tip #6 of 7
- Learn – Execute – Tip #7 of 7
Jeremy Soul of LoveSystems gives his insight and a review of why he believes you must buy Magic Bullets:
Photo Credit of Skillful Artist:
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