A man came to one of my two blogs with those exact words,

“I’m tired of women calling men losers.”

I just had to add my opinion. I hear it way too much from women and I too can grow tired of being a generalized loser by women because I’m a man.

This statement proves to me without a doubt the similarities between men and women. I often like to say how women and men both feel emotions. We both react to them or act on them in the same manner our social life, our upbringing, or based on our limited beliefs of the world.

The men exclaim,

“I just don’t understand women.”

The women shout,

“All men are losers.”

In either case I consider it to be a pessimistic narrow minded view of the world and I in no way will find myself ever again agreeing with either side.

The women who constantly claims men are all  losers are often surrounded by the losers she CHOOSES to be around. If I were to constantly date women half my age would it be fair for me to then claim only twenty years are good looking and fun to be around. I think not.

I understand my preferences lean towards dating younger women. A friend of mine is the opposite. He likes older women. Yet he  believes all younger women are immature and I’m a bit of a womanizer. I let him have his beliefs, Haha! Like I let anyone have a belief.

Seriously though I’m tired of being lumped into a generalized category of losers. I’m not angry about it. Honestly it doesn’t affect me much at all. It actually made me feel sad enough to write this. Sad enough because I know how many women that do this are failing us men in the same way so many men are failing women, by not taking the time to understand each other.

We’re really not much different at all and name calling is a cheap cop out for avoiding having to solve your own problems.

You want solutions, you bring the solutions to your world.

You want answers, you bring them into your world.

You want deceit, lying, and losers into your world, you bring them in just the same.

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Peter White – My Nice Guy’s Approach To Attraction – DiaLteG™

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