If you want answers about what women are looking at or what attracts them physically then I would be more than happy to share them with you.

I’ve done tons of research in the field and online surveys. I’ve studied the body language of others in every public place you can think of. I have also given myself many makeovers of my looks just to round it all out.  For those reasons, and many more I feel I’ve become not only highly knowledgeable in this area, but I have also used the information for myself with great success.

Let’s get this out first.

A man’s eyes and his smile are the going to be the first thing a single women notices on him.

I say ‘single‘ because I’ve found married women or women with long-term boyfriends first notice the butt, hands, or the way he walks . This can attributed to a woman who is committed will often just connect physically with a man she knows she will never sleep with.

Imagine this. You’re out having a good time and a woman decides to check you out. Maybe she’s just trying to get your attention so you’ll approach her or she is just a little curious about you.

How will she do this?

She will glance over to make eye contact then glaze down to see if you smile if you make strong eye contact. In case you didn’t know a woman depth’s perception normally differs from a man. She sees more up and down than us guys. We see left to right better.

She also wants to feel safe looking at you. This is another reason she goes for eyes. In the animal world locking eyes can be dangerous. It usually means fight or you’re looking to protect. In other words we don’t just do it for fun.  Obviously she does not want to fight but she can feel those same anxious fight or protect emotions. And when she’s in the right mood it feel just like excitement.

Here is a post I wrote about what women are looking for in their perfect man. It broadly gets into everything from personality to how you dress. Women – Who is Your Perfect Man?

But for now… On To The Physical World.

What stimulates her alone by your walk, the way you move, in other words…

What part of the man’s body does she feel the most sexual urges towards?

In the physical world of the woman the butt represents better sex. A man with a strong backside can be seen to engage in better sex because of thrusting. She likes rhythm. A constant rhythm without being pounded. A man with a very weak butt will often have to use his whole body which, let’s face it, can hurt her if he’s not careful.

There’s much more to it but let’s keep in mind that’s during sex and you’re not going to be getting very much of it if you don’t first turn her on.

This is where your hip area plays the greatest role of its life.

• Your walk.
• How you hold yourself.
• How you move.
• Your swagger.
• Your presence.
• Your posture.

All center around this area. These physical parts combined with your energy, which supports this area, and your confidence creates a special energy. This  is what naturally attract a woman. Even alone it could stimulate or excite her sexually before she even gets to know you. This is because it taps into a woman’s instinctive urges she’s acquired over years of evolution.

Sure some women say they love a good chest on a guy, or big strong arms, or whatever body part you adding but remember that is what women are saying. And I know when it comes to attracting women it’s better to notice her emotions or her feelings than it ever is to her words.

Watch this video by Rob Brinded (He’s an expert in body language and your body movement as in pertains to attracting the opposite sex.)

He explains in more detail how your hip area is your greatest asset when it comes to sexually attracting women. Sometimes the page takes a couple seconds to load so please be patient.

The Automatic Triggers Of Naturals Take You Out Of The Friend Zone And Into Lover Zone

(Please listen to it to the end because he will explain where women unconsciously look and what they feel are the most sexiest body parts on a man.)

I want you to know that although Rob is promoting his new program with the video, he does give tons of useful information on this topic. You’ll learn something from it you may not know if you’re coming to this post. I don’t mind telling you he knows a lot more about it than I do. Enough to make a living training athletes and turning small guys like me into a guy who when I walk into a room, women notice. I’m not going to lie about that.

(As a special thanks to all of Rob’s work and his overall cool personality which I’ve enjoyed writing, if you have a few minutes check out his  link. Code of The Natural. You can read more about getting the entire package, who he is, and if he can analyze you personally. I have a list of  all his products located here.)

If you’re looking to learn more about this topic I can tell a brilliant man wrote a book some time ago which still holds true to this day. I cover it more in a post I wrote. You can read about it here. Top Ten List of What Women Prefer From A Is He Is To Be Good Lover

When women look at you they make assumptions or connections consciously and I explain that in more detail in that post. It also gets into how they relate to her feelings and what they may represent to her subconscious mind. Check it out when you get a chance.

So, put bluntly…

She’s going to notice your eyes, face and smile consciously; but her subconscious mind is checking out your groin area, your hips, your butt, your walk, your posture, your movement, and (as Rob’s put it)  your package!

Learn the skills to get them handled, it’s easier than you think, and you’ll notice a shift in how woman see you almost immediately.

On a side note I’ve yet to see one poll, one survey, or been told by one woman your shoes make a difference. Don’t ruin those body parts with a pair of dirty sneakers or scuffed up loafers. Walking and moving sexually has to start with your feet and women also see your shoes as a sign of how you can take of the details in your life.

Unless…

Well that’s an entirely different subject. Let’s just say it’s a theory of mine which may not best shared with the men out there. I’ll give you a hint. It’s about one night stands.

Hope I answered your question today and I sure wish Staying Alive was playing in the background so I could swagger off into the sunset.

Peter White – My Nice Guy’s Approach To Attraction – DiaLteG™

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