Do you know of someone who has a pattern of always dating losers, bad boys, who always break their heart and leave them crying?
For those women, oftentimes they need help in identifying the signs of such unreliable men.
Let’s define a loser as a man who is totally into himself and has little empathy for a woman’s needs. He is a man who has a pattern of sweet talking women in an attempt to sweep them off their feet and into the nearest bed. He will wine you and dine you and tell you how beautiful you are and how lucky he is to have met you. These men are very good at what they do because they’ve had a lot of practice!
These men are wonderful in the beginning of a relationship; however, in time they most always become less attached and more distant to their partner. Some never call back, others break dates and some even “forget” their wallet and their date ends up paying for the meal.
Have you ever met or dated a man such as this? Perhaps he never said he loved you, and whenever you spoke about commitment, he would change the subject.
The truth is that no woman ever wakes up in the morning and says to herself,
“Today I need to find a man who will hurt me.”
Rather what most often happens is that many women (and men) tend to confuse intensity with reliability. They meet someone who makes them FEEL wonderful or excited and they assume that he is a good man. The problem isn’t that their feelings are wrong. What gets them into trouble is that their intense feelings often cause them to ignore bad or inconsistent behavior that they would clearly see if they were not so emotionally involved.
What if there was a way to effortlessly attract men that were both exciting as well as dependable? Not simply a technique, but a manual that showed how successful women captivate men in such a way that they never get mistreated.
What if information was available to transform you into the woman that men adore? Thankfully such information is available and it’s just one click away. “The Woman Men Adore…and Never Want to Leave,” shows every woman the secrets to attract and keep the man of her dreams.
Do You Feel You learned Why Women Date Losers, or Jerks, by Reading This Article?
(Tell me below)
My answer would be a definite no. So I’ve added a little more on my own. Thanks Bob for the Article but I want to give my readers a little more information before they decide to click on your links.
Not too long ago I put up a survey asking women exactly why they date losers. I asked them with the knowledge I already know exactly why women date jerks. Read through the different traits and you can begin to see a clearer picture of what drivers women to these men.
- Their bad boy attitude.
- They don’t care what others think of them.
- They tend to live adventurous exciting lifestyle. Safe or not.
- Her friends or family don’t approve of them.
- Their mysterious attitude is intriguing.
- The emotional roller coaster the bad boy gives them is addicting.
- She wants to change or tame him.
- They seem to offer the greatest protection.
- They don’t seem to like the woman, and she wants the attention or his love. (A challenge)
- It’s a father figure issue.
Without a doubt the underlying theme is:
Mysterious, attitude, indifference, unpredictability and excitement.
If you’re a man reading this and you’re struggling with women, or feel you’re losing them to jerks, you can ingrain those exacts traits into your nice personality and beat the bad boy at his own game. Trust me, this shit works, and it works like a charm. Women love it.
Read this post I wrote, Do You Wonder Why Women Seem to Be Attracted To Jerks for a little more on this subject.
If you’re tired of dealing with losing to men who exhibit this bad boy behavior and you just can not take it anymore, pick this up, The Bad Boy Formula, it can literally change your world with women. That is my link if you want to just let the author tell you about it, visit one of these links. Bay Boy Formula Video Page, or Bad Boy Formula.
If you’re a woman reading this I have not forgotten about you. Please find a way to take the survey below and voice your opinion on this subject. Guys love to read occasionally :D and not just car magazines.
After you take it, think about these bad boys you’re attracted to and why. What exactly draws you to him. As I told the guys above there are men who can display these exact traits,
Mysterious, attitude, indifference, unpredictability and excitement…
Without all the drama and bullshit and terribly ending relationships. It is possible to attract these high quality men.
The first thing you can do is start voicing your opinion here. Tell men what you are looking for. Let’s see how many men we can change. Remember the more guys I help, the better it is for you. Haha!
A proven road map to success in attracting these men is:
- Complete yourself. Live consciously and passionately.
- Learn about what attraction is really all about.
- Become more attractive. I’m not just talking physically either.
- Live that new attractive lifestyle.
- Put yourself where you are most likely to meet these men.
- Learn to carefully test and weed out potential losers.
- Allow them to enhance your dating or relationship life.
I know sounds simple on paper, doesn’t it. However I’ve found people learn things better with a structured guideline. That man above, Bob Grant thinks he has one for you. Go ahead and check it out.
Otherwise peek your head around and destroy the mystery of my site, Attraction Transformation. You just might walk away from some great tips.
You may also find you’re only getting stuck on one part of that map. This can shorten the time of your progress immeasurably. So Don’t get discouraged by the list. For some women you may only need a refresher course. For others it could just be learning how to live consciously. Each step taken naturally leads to the next step but don’t be afraid to jump around a little. This solidifies the learning process in your mind.
Give a little to yourself everyday, five minutes or twenty, just do it, and the change will eventually envelope your life.
Good luck to you and the men. Take a look at the survey below.
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