I want to share some of my thoughts with you about how many women you should have in your life.

This is not meant to be a cheating guide.

This is not meant to give men excuses for having booty calls or one night stands that only serve the purpose of getting laid, without regards to her feelings.

During my dating experiences I have often found myself getting too attached to one woman at a time. It was a very bad and needy habit I developed over years of being stuck in the friend’s zone.

So I began the tedious process of avoiding getting too hooked on one woman years ago but I still never felt 100% in control. It just didn’t seem natural to me for some reason.

That is until recently.

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It’s become quite apparent that when I first meet a woman and find myself beginning a courtship that is fun and exciting for the both of us, something inside me now directs me to open up more possibilities immediately.

This is not unusual. In fact any man I come in contact that seeks my assistance and I find out he gets emotionally attached to a woman early on I tell him this,

“The next time you meet a hot woman who seems to be into you, and you find her irresistible, I want you to immediately search for another woman just like her. Then do it again and again and again…”

I tell him this because the last thing he wants to do is clingy with her. I don’t want him to make the same mistakes again. This is where he puts so much emphasis on one woman he goes into scarcity mode. Over time this turns into needy actions which eventually pushes his newfound woman far far away.

You going to hear many dating gurus or experts talk about this scarcity mentality because it’s a major factor in attraction:

• Women don’t feel much for guys that they can easily have or manipulate through their looks at any given time.
• Women don’t find themselves attracted to men who can not seem to get other women.
• Women are very competitive and if no one is competing for you, good luck creating attraction

Here are my thoughts about my current position.

I’ve questioned myself about not following my own advice. I always do what I recommend to others, it’s the severity or the amount of energy I spend looking for other women that varies.

I have recently found myself involved with an extraordinary woman. She has many traits any guy would find more than enough to satisfy their physical and mental desires. She’s gorgeous. Fun. Smart. Works her ass off. Sensual. Nurturing. And she is really into me.

And now I’m proud to say that since I met I her immediately began meeting more women that I had been before we started getting to know each other.

Because…

• I can never allow myself to lose sight of what is really going on.
• I can’t allow myself to fall into the traps of my past.
• I can’t allow myself to get hooked on one woman at a time without spending enough time with her over an extended periods of time.

What this means guys is that you must find a way to insure that scarcity mentality never dictates your actions with women. You must find a way to get as many women in your life as you can handle socially. You don’t have to be a bastard about it. You don’t even have to mention these other women to any of them. And you also must make sure you are not using manipulative tactics or pinning one against another. That will only cause worse situations. Aside from broken-hearted women who hate you it will defeat the purpose of being a more attractive man.

This post doesn’t have the happy ending I would have liked but the ending does prove my point.

I recently just yesterday, in fact, found out that she has committed herself to another man. And yes I will be posting the whole sorted story soon. That I promise.

So I may have questioned myself for seeing other women or accelerating my dating while I began to grow closer to her but now I have proven to myself that following my advice was the best thing for me. it didn’t push her away. It helped me to recover within hours. I quickly moved on.

And now on to the next few women that deserve me.

And now when I get closer to the next one, I’ll know to quickly find some more women to date casually.

Trust me guys learning how to handle many casual dates at once is a skill every man should possess.

Trust me guys if you don’t think that hot girl you have your eyes on or you are seeing once every few weeks isn’t doing the same thing, you are sadly mistaken and living in a world that is not based on reality.

So how do you go about getting more women in your life?

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My personal recommendation is The Bad Boy Formula! This program alone can change your entire dating experience with women, that’s for sure.

More thoughts of a real man coming soon,

[intlink id="1380" type="category"]Peter White[/intlink]

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