Yes, I won’t deny, the second a man firsts lays eyes on you he will instantly access whether he wants to sleep with you or not, actually, women will do this too, though this does not mean that he wants to sleep with you yet.
So the question is, what does a man really want?
What will keep him hooked to you and wanting more and more and more of you?
A man hungers for a woman that he feels really good around.
Yes, he wants to have fun with her, he wants to find her physically attractive, though most importantly he wants to be with a woman who’s responsive to him in a way that makes him feel like he’s your king and that he’s all you’ll ever need.
Over the years the more traditional roles of men and women have somewhat dissolved or become unclear – though no matter how progressive we think we are, the truth is, as a whole men are still conditioned to suppress their feelings and deeper emotions, therefore they crave the very things we think they don’t want or need.
Which means, deep down, men want to feel needed, validated and like they matter to you.
You may not know it, though a man’s heart sings when he feels like he makes a difference in your life and that he has a “positive” effect on you.
So how can you be responsive to a man?
Here are four points to get you started:
1. Take off the mask:
Women are really good at pretending that they’re not interested in a man they like, or they can play too hard to get, which has the “players” playing and the good men losing interest in her.
And it may not be that you’re pretending to him, you could actually be pretending or lying to yourself that you don’t like him or care.
How is that helpful?
Masks are confusing so take off the mask.
2. Encourage him with confidence:
Women need to get over the idea that if you encourage a man he will think you’re desperate and/or needy. You can still be encouraging without being a doormat.
A woman can let a man know that she’s interested without giving it all away.
Stop over thinking and strategizing, instead be more authentic and honest with how you feel. Know that if he is right for you he will reciprocate.
A relationship ready man loves this quality in a woman.
3. Be OKAY with something not working out:
Finding real love happens when we’re truly ready to love.
And the only way one can be in a truly healthy, loving and intimate relationship is when we love ourselves first.
When we love ourselves we’re not worried about being rejected or getting hurt, we’re resilient in the hands of love.
Also, you cannot be responsive and irresistible to a man where you’re fraught with fear about your lovability, attractiveness and worth.
Don’t let the unknown of love stop you from loving.
The more you love you the easier you will brush yourself off when something doesn’t work with a man, which will have you being ready to love again.
Accept that there is plenty of unknown when it comes dating, and then still date with an open loving heart. This will allow you to be responsive while you’re in the midst of the unknown.
4. Verbal and non-verbal responsiveness:
There is not one way to show responsiveness. You can be responsive in the way you talk, smile, touch another, or move your body.
You can show encouragement while chatting on the phone, via text message and emails, on dates or when sexually engaged too.
Responsiveness is valuable in all forms of interaction and connection.
It never ceases to amaze me how many people complicate love and finding love. Dating should never feel scary or like it’s hard work or emotionally taxing.
Sure, it’s not always easy, though it can be so much easier and even joyful, when approached from a state of wonder and faith.
No matter how pretty or plain you think you are, no matter your body shape, or your past, how much money you do or don’t have, everyone is deserving of love and can find the love they deeply want.
The truth is, most men actually want what you want!
We’re not that different from each other.
So if you want to love a man and be loved in the most intimate, heart opening and passionate of ways then you’ve got to view this video where you’ll learn the secrets to sensual love.
It reveals a sweet trick that will have a man seeing you as the most incredibly alluring woman there is, and have him dropping all of his defenses and opening his heart, mind, body and soul to you.
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- All articles written by Nadine Piat – Love, Attraction, Confidence, Self-Worth & Communication.
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