What If You Think He’s The Wrong Sign For You But Is The Perfect Sign?

Written by Carol Allen.

If you ever struggle with trying to decide if a man is the RIGHT man for you but aren’t sure, the astrology of ancient India, called Vedic astrology, may be the most powerful way to find out.

You can know with astonishing accuracy in mere minutes all the most critical ways you and a man impact each other – and the very destiny of your relationship.

Thousands of years ago, before there were the twelve signs of the zodiac we’ve all come to know, there were twenty-seven…

These twenty-seven signs, called “nakshatras,” or “lunar mansions” reflect the path of the Moon through the night sky.

Since the lunar month is between twenty- seven and twenty-eight days long, the Moon spends roughly one day in each of these smaller signs before moving on to the next.

This tradition of breaking the night sky up into twenty-seven signs began in ancient India, the home of the very first system of astrology – known as Vedic astrology.

You see, the Moon is the brightest and fastest moving heavenly body of them all.

And it was to the Moon that ancient peoples first looked for determining time, connecting the months and seasons to the stars above.

Which makes sense, because, although most of us think of the zodiac in terms of the motion of the Sun – when the Sun is traveling through the different signs of the zodiac, you can’t tell.

Because when the Sun is out, the stars and planets aren’t visible.

I don’t need to tell you, though, that when the Moon is out, the stars and planets are as well, twinkling and sparkling as they dance around the Moon in all of their glory. ( Depending, of course, on how much wine you’ve had with dinner – kidding! 🙂 ) Ahhh…

The Moon, on the other hand, acts almost as a pointer in the starry night sky, bringing attention to the different constellations as he travels through them…

The first zodiac therefore, was not solar, but lunar.

And it’s the very first thing written about in the entire history of astrology.

That’s right, in one of the oldest books on the planet, “The Rig Veda” of India ( which scholars date to have originated somewhere between 4,000 and 2,000 B.C.) several of the nakshatras are named.

An entire listing of them appears in later Vedas – the Yajur Veda, and the Atharva Veda. Amazingly, a system of lunar signs was also once used in the Middle East and China (though they both used twenty-eight signs), and the ancient Celts had a myth about the Moon king having twenty-eight starry wives. ( India has a similar myth, as well…)

Though these constellations were originally used to determine the best times to do certain activities – like religious ceremonies, farming and business practices, or marriage rites – they were later looked to in order to understand the personality and psychology of individuals, and to give insight into relationships.

And they’re still emphasized in Vedic astrology to this day.

In fact, in India when they say, “Hey baby, what’s your sign?“- they’re not asking for your Sun sign, they’re asking for your Moon nakshatra. ( And, forgive me – they probably don’t say, “Hey baby…” )

You see, it’s the Moon sign and constellation in your astrology chart that reflects your mind, emotions, and true inner self – far more than your Sun sign. Therefore, it’s these original twenty-seven constellations that best indicate how you and anyone you know are emotionally.

These nakshatras reveal far more subtlety, nuance, and detail than the twelve signs of the zodiac.

Each constellation has several ways to be understood, including:

  • Temperament (are you an angel or a demon? Which is HE?)
  • Animal symbol (is your guy a snuggly cat, loyal dog, or mean mongoose?)
  • Gender (can your guy be “man” enough for you? Or do you have to lead the way?)
  • Sensibility (are you conservative or a “wild child?”),
  • Basic energy (are you analytical? Overly emotional? Easily angered?)
  • Main motivation (are you driven by the need for achievement, meaning, or ruled by your desires?)

Because the nakshatras of Vedic astrology hold the TRUE KEY to your heart and soul, it’s these twenty-seven signs and how they go together in the charts of two people (or DON’T go together) that matter in the most important technique for romantic and emotional compatibility – used by the Hindus of India for thousands of years to arrange marriages!

This techniques is so accurate, it doesn’t just tell you if you and the romantic candidate in question can get along, it reveals the very DESTINY of your relationship as well.

It breaks a relationship (or potential one) into fifteen steps, assessing the many ways you can FEEL with a man.

  • Will he make you feel loved?
  • Can he understand and hear you?
  • Will you benefit each other?
  • Does he comfort you?
  • Will he GET you, and agree with you when it matters? – Will he be able to handle it when you’re upset?
  • Are you magnetically attracted to each other making it virtually impossible to stay away? (Brad and Angelina have this one…)
  • Will you have an equal balance of power?


  • Will you have constant outside interference? (money troubles, his ex, family problems…)
  • Will you have constant dramas that leave you anxious and insecure?
  • Will the relationship drain you – even to the point of making you sick?
  • Will your love last over time or fade away?
  • Will he disappear or shut down when you need him most?
  • Will you always feel like everything is always YOUR idea, and that he’s not really there for you?
  • Will you lose yourself, and feel voiceless with him?

No kidding – this technique tells you all of that and more – and just what to do about everything.

Amazingly – most people, not even professional astrologers, know about the nakshatras. And so they’re missing the key to it all…

Just think – what if that guy you think is the wrong sign for you – is actually the PERFECT sign for you?

And that guy you were just sure was so right – was actually so wrong?

Imagine how much it could help you to know!

Why don’t you find out?

You can learn all of this in mere minutes by ordering “The Right Man Report.

This compatibility overview, using the main technique of Vedic astrology, compares your Moon constellation with that of a man and gives you over 9 pages of personalized detail about exactly how to make the most of your relationship with him.

It can help you to know in mere minutes if that guy you’re wondering about would be worth your time or not… or that ex you can’t get out of your mind is someone you should give another chance… or how to make things better if you’re already with someone…

This profound ancient knowledge is timeless in it’s power to help you make the most of your love life.

And may God and his planets and stars (and signs!) shower you with love!

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Hi, I’m Carol Allen, relationship coach and Vedic astrologer and author of ‘Love Is In The Stars.’

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