It’s the big ticket items. Affection, great sex, harmony, fun, trust, and emotional safety. Over functioning means not taking care of what matters. You’ll have clean dishes and no garbage, and a Saturday night date at the restaurant and movie of your choice, but look, your man will be a puppet!
Men love to pursue you. Let him chase you. Create the right space so he can come to you. Men like to fee like they’re winning you over. Stop doing and start being. Allow him to progress naturally. He won’t think you’re not interested. If he’s attracted to you he will not stop because you’re not showering him with love.
As a Woman you have lots of feelings and emotions racing through your mind. You can experience them all in a flash. So how do you handle them. How do you sort it all out. Be compassionate, grateful, and embrace yourself. Go there by using compassion dialogue. Here’s how you do it. Loving yourself is easy to do this is how?
Your husband or boyfriend is friends with another women and it’s driving you crazy. You don’t want to jump to conclusions or mess up the relationship. Here’s how to handle this situation. Stop talking about her. Take focus off him and put it in yourself. To become aware of your true feelings, you have to feel them.
This happens you try to take the pressure off a man by steering clear of your real desire for a real relationship. You make him feel unsafe. Men can sense the vibe you’re putting out. Where fear is going. How it moves. How it affects you and how to use its energy for good. Take small steps in the right direction.