Some “secret” dirt on the famous… Peter White. No that’s not me in the picture but thought a guy half-hiding his face worked perfectly for this post. Anyways… you’re about to learn some real truths about men so you can understand them better than ever before.
A product came my way in which over twenty thousand men were asked a few questions honestly about women.There answers were very revealing.
Since I’ve been promoting it and lots of women have benefited and learned a lot of about men from their very candid answers – it was only appropriate that I would also answer the survey publicly.
Hope the answers help you out.
Have I ever lied to a woman?
Does my Mom count? 🙂
Yes. Of course.
Some more than others.
Mostly for me though I’d have to say I’ve been mostly brutally honest with women. As you might’ve guess, this has gotten me in a bit of trouble on occasion.
Was it usually because I didn’t feel like dealing with all the drama after?
This seems to be a mostly relationship question and based on my past few limited relationships, it was sometimes just easier to say a little white lie than to deal with all the drama.
Now that I’m married I can honestly say that I don’t like to my wife and have since learned better communication skills to minimize and and all drama.
Have I ever lied to a woman about what I want?
I’m usually brutally honest with women.
Back in my younger terrible with women days – they never really asked me what I wanted making this question a bit difficult to answer.
This question seems to imply that when a woman asks a guy if he’s looking for a relationship he’ll lie just to get laid.
But most of the time he IS looking for something more.
Unfortunately sex usually happens.
Have I ever lied to a woman when she asked what I was really thinking about?
If and this is a huge “if” – If I can figure out exactly how to say it so she’ll understand what I truly mean by it, then no.
But most of the time even when I think she’ll understand and accept what I’m saying – most women never get it.
I say “most of the time” because I have met women who did get what I was trying to say and honestly – these were the women who I gave instant respect, admiration, and have fantasized about having sex with.
If you can not think of any reason why you should try out Secret Surveys – Why Men Lie – what I just told you can give you it.
Was I thinking they’d make a great girlfriend for me?
I take things one step at a time.
I don’t treat my relationships with women like long-term bonds hoping for growth.
I take it day by day.
Hour by hour.
Would I enjoy a woman more if she could read my mind?
Probably only in a deep committed relationship.
I say “Probably” because I’m not entirely sure. I just have a “scared” feeling that if any woman could read my mind entirely before a relationship, I would never have sex again.
And enjoying great sex is highly important to my well-being and yes, sanity.
There’s this cute “amazing fun to play with” nineteen year old girl wearing skin tight black stretchy pants. I checked out her ass and grunted to myself because bending her over crossed my mind.
Of course when we started talking I was no longer undressing her in my mind. I just highly doubt she would be “grateful” having reading my mind first. She would have felt “objectified.”
The secret truth though about my male mind is… I was just enjoying the sensation her body could give me.
It in a very little way dictates how I see her as a person. When the conversation’s on – I aim to discover more about her and who she is.
Now if she looked directly in my eyes, smiled, and asked me if I had just fantasized about have sex with her, I would probably responded with a clever cocky and funny comeback. My admittance would have been filtered with a little humor so I wouldn’t look that easy.
Michael says that men lie to women because men are SCARED of women. Which I have shown you above to be relatively true.
He says we are scared of women’s EMOTIONS. That would cover the “lying” to not have to deal with all the “after-drama.”
He believes emotions are actually harder for guys to deal with and to recover from for guys than they are for women.
Very true for me.
I used to get hooked on one woman and a lot of those times it took me about a year to get over not being with her. To this day I literally remember every lost or “not gotten” so called love of my life.
Scary isn’t it?
He claims this man, Dr. John Gottman at the University of Washington women can both enter and recover from extreme emotional states a LOT faster and easier than guys can.
If you think about it, it makes sense.
We’ve all seen a woman burst into tears one moment only to be totally fine 5 minutes later.
But when it comes to emotions, guys are a lot more “fragile.” (Hey who is he calling fragile? Haha!)
Gottman says it’s because of evolution. Guys were evolved to be single taskers. To push everything out of their mind except the one thing they’re hunting.
And because of that we’re slower to get into an emotional state and MUCH slower to get back out of it once we get there.
He says it’s like swimming.
Getting “emotional” for women is a lot like jumping off a dock into a lake.
You get wet, sure. But the dock is right there and just a few seconds later you’re safe and dry…
But for guys, “getting emotional” is like getting dropped in the middle of the ocean…
Bobbing in the water.
Surrounded by sharks.
With land nowhere in site.
What does this have to do with LYING?
From a very young age, guys learn that if we tell you the truth you could FREAK OUT on us…
FLOOD us with scary emotions…
And push us out in the ocean where it’ll take them hours to recover.
Of course there’s other reasons that guys lie too …
And other mysteries of men that the “guys” in your life simply never tell you about…
If you want to truly understand men, you should drop whatever you’re doing and go watch this amazing new video Michael Fiore has just released…
It gives you “X Ray Vision” into the minds of men…
And tells you all about an astonishing (and affordable) new program Michael’s created to answer every question you’ve ever had about men and the way they think…
A program that tells you…
- What he really thinks of you (and why men are so BAD at showing a woman that he loves her.)
- Why he looks at other women, what it MEANS when he looks at another woman and what really goes through his head when he sees a hot girl walking down the street…
- Why men cheat… and how to drain your man’s desire to cheat on you just by saying a few simple words.
- The dirty truth about a man’s sexual mind…why your man WANTS to be objectified and how to give him sexual thrills that will have him addicted to you.
- And MUCH more…
All based off thousands of secret survey responses from real men…
You can watch the video intro by going here –> What Men Desperately Want You To Know (But Will Never Tell You)
Michael Fiore is an internationally-known “relationship advice guy” based in Seattle. Michael has been featured on “The Rachael Ray Show”, has been interviewed by Time Magazine, and has helped tens of thousands of men and women get the love of their life back one text at a time.
He has also collaborated with Claire Casey – Capture His Heart and has many projects going on.