The One Thing You Need to Learn to Stop Getting Hurt By Men Forever

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“A short quiz leading to the one thing which will stop you from getting hurt by a man. No man is real until he is your boyfriend. Failure doesn’t have to bad. The last guy who committed on you and disappeared is not evil. He just made a mistake and committed too early. That should not stop you from meeting another guy.”

Written by Evan Marc Katz.

I’ve got a few questions for you about your love life that will show you a completely different way to approach your love life.



Q: How many times in your life have you been in love?

A: Two? Three? Four?

Q: How many of those relationships lasted?

A: If you’re single, the answer is zero.

Q: What percent of men is cute, successful, smart, kind, funny, compatible AND emotionally available for a long-term relationship?

A: According to most women, about .00001%.

Q: What percent of those amazing men also think YOU’RE cute, smart, kind, funny, compatible and emotionally available for a relationship?

A: Not enough, and rarely the right ones.

When you look at all of these things together, without any emotion, you’ll see exactly what I see:

The fact that ANY relationship gets off the ground is remarkable.

To the naked eye, FAILURE is the default setting in dating.

You heard me.


Now, to be clear: I’ve failed a LOT more than you have.

I’ve gone on over 300 dates and committed to probably fifteen “girlfriends” before getting married. Which is why I’m not too fazed by failure.

You shouldn’t be, either.

Given that 99% of men are definitely NOT your future husband, getting upset when this proves to be true is like getting upset that you didn’t win the Powerball.

Yeah, it’s unfortunate that you lost, but it’s also quite predictable.

Which is why I want you to write this down on a Post-It note right now:

“No man is real until he’s your boyfriend.”

A cute photo, a winning profile, flirty emails, an incredible first date, intense chemistry, mind-blowing sex….

NONE of these things mean he’s your boyfriend.

It’s not that you’re “wrong” to get excited about a promising man; it’s that, in 99% of instances, it’s premature and you set yourself up for heartbreak. Your takeaway is to not get too emotionally involved when it comes to a guy with “potential”.

Start getting excited when he’s taken his profile down, called you his girlfriend, met your family, and started making vacation plans for the summer.

The other bit of perspective I’d like to provide is that your last guy’s disappearance shouldn’t be all that disappointing.

Sure, you felt disappointment. It’s hard not to take things like that personally.

Except for two facts: –

  1. This wasn’t personal.
  2. You didn’t lose your future husband, so why be disappointed?

Although your guy may have initially pushed for immediate commitment, he ended up having second thoughts.

Reasonable second thoughts, I might add. It may not be popular to say, but if you were seeing a guy, and you drew the conclusion that you didn’t want to spend the next 40 years with him, you’d probably have to reconsider whether you were ready to commit.

Your last boyfriend’s flaking doesn’t mean he’s evil.

It means he leapt before he looked. He shot first and asked questions later. He overpromised and underdelivered.

In short, he screwed up and ended up hurting an innocent woman. No one is at fault. And if no one is at fault, there’s no value in beating yourself up about what she did “wrong”.

The answer is nothing.

There’s no value in getting pissed at your disappearing guy.

He’s like a man who was driving 90 mph on the freeway and missed his exit. He was so enthusiastic that he was oblivious to the fact that he wasn’t really ready to commit to you.

Finally, there’s no value in lamenting what “could have been”.

It’s over. Move along.

The right guy will come along soon enough – and he will certainly not disappear.

But the only way for this to happen is for you to let go of your negativity, to let go of your fear of getting hurt, to let go of your frustration at the men who don’t write to you online, and to embrace the unknown of the dating process.

Put another way: if you quit dating and men entirely, you don’t meet ANYBODY.

If you persevere, another cute guy might waltz in her door next week – and never want to leave.

Never, never, never quit,” said Winston Churchill, and he’s 100% right.

The only thing you can do when things go wrong in love is to keep going.

And if you need a push in the right direction, I would highly recommend checking out my eBook, Why He Disappeared: A Woman’s Guide to Understanding Men and Keeping the Right One Hooked Forever

In a matter of minutes, you’ll be able to let go of all of the pain in your past, learn how to choose a better boyfriend in the future, and understand what men are thinking for the rest of your life.


You Don’t Attract the Wrong Men. You ACCEPT The Wrong Men.

Take my online dating quiz: Do You Know Why It’s So Hard to Meet a Great Guy?

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What happens when you find yourself incredibly attracted to a man?

Well, there’s the feeling of chemistry and everything that comes along with it – the obsessive highs that come with wanting to be with him, the joy of feeling incredibly connected, and, what you may forget, the willful blindness that allows you to overlook his flaws.

That’s one of the most miraculous things about chemistry: it allows you to focus only on the good and ignore all the bad.

Which is why you can have incredible chemistry and end up in a TERRIBLE relationship, where he doesn’t call you, doesn’t sleep with you, doesn’t compliment you, doesn’t make you feel safe, and doesn’t commit to you.

But you stick around because of how strong your rare FEELINGS are. You’ve now discovered the real secret to why you’re in dead end relationships:

You don’t attract the wrong men, you accept the wrong men.

If you consistently find yourself in relationships with liars, cheaters, addicts, leeches, or commitment phobes, your job isn’t to get them to stop lying, cheating, drinking, mooching or flaking. Your job is to leave.

You’ll never stop attracting the wrong men, but starting now, you can stop ACCEPTING their bad behavior… and save yourself years of heartbreak and pain.

And if that concept alone can save you years of wasted time on the wrong men, imagine what you can learn from Evan in 133 pages of “Why He Disappeared“?

Evan is giving you a ton of high-quality bonuses to go with his fascinating take on the male mind.

Sometimes, if it sounds too good to be true, you should be skeptical.

This isn’t that time.

Don’t forget – the reason to learn Why He Disappeared is not because it’s an irresistible offer; it’s because there’s information in there that can help you find the relationship you deserve.

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