Women want a man to be completely head-over-heels crazy about them, but often go about it the wrong way.
In fact, a lot of them might do things that push him away instead of pull him in.
The first mistake women make is thinking of men as evolved…
While we as a species are quite evolved, we still hang onto many of our primitive instincts.
Those instincts include courtship.
So you need to look at men at a basic level and consider what makes them tick.
Men are hunters. They love games and challenges. They love winning more than anything.
A man loves to swoop in and save the day. He wants to be a hero.
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There are actually TWO types of guys who won’t commit.
The first one will date you, romance you and show you a wonderful time. But once things get too serious, he’ll start to lose interest.
The more you want him to ‘settle down’, the more it feels that he’s pulling away. In the end, he’s not going to marry you.
The second guy will go through the whole dating and romancing part with you, and even get all the way to marrying you. But after that, he’ll have some sort of a mid-life crisis – and lose interest.
So, what is the beauty a man sees in a committed relationship? Well, it might sound a bit odd to you at first, but here it is:A romantic relationship satisfies a man’s craving for companionship to the extent that it fits with his identity…the way he wants to see himself.
Understanding this one statement will give you tremendous power in your relationships with
men. So let me explain.
Let’s assume you’re making progress with a guy. He’s shown the early signs of interest. And you can tell he genuinely enjoys spending time with you. But something is holding him back.
What is it? Why does he seem to be dragging his feet? He was very interested in the relationship from the start.
But now it’s as if he’s second-guessing his commitment. Like he’s not sure about the thing that’s building between the two of you.
Chances are, you’ve dated a guy who seemed to fit this cliche. You’ve probably asked yourself why this happens. And you’ve probably wondered if it’s even possible to get a man to want commitment as much as you do.
In this report, I’m going to show you how to reverse a man’s resistance to commitment. And I’m going to show you how to do it by triggering a basic male instinct he simply can’t ignore.
It probably isn’t a conscious thing, but a bunch of factors make him instinctively feel like the relationship is more a source of pain than pleasure. We’ll get into this more in a minute, but at the end of the day, “pain VS pleasure” is the ONE factor that determines whether he wants to be with you or not.
In other words, if he has a gut feeling that your relationship is a source of pain, then no amount of logic, convincing, or begging will change his mind. His mind is already made up–from the inside out.
We need to change that.”
Every time Sabrina and Josh had a fight, it was always the same. She’d bring up an issue. Something that was bothering her. Something they needed to talk about.
But the instant she opened her mouth, it was like a wall would slam down between them.
Because Josh would immediately get defensive.
He would accuse her of criticizing him. He’d say she was blaming him for everything.
Complain that she was always saying he couldn’t do anything right. And maybe she should take a look in the mirror.
Men unconsciously (and sometimes consciously) evaluate women based on characteristics that have to do with sex and the potential for healthy offspring. This is true even among men of an older generation dating women who are postmenopausal.
The simple fact is, men don’t feel that special kind of ‘in love’ feeling unless there is some level of sexual attraction. This is true even for men who are not shallow and who are capable of having a deep romantic relationship with a woman based on more than physical chemistry. Do not ignore the importance of connecting with a man on a physical level.
It’s where his attraction to you will start.
There are several variables we want to manipulate in your favor. Here they are.
- The frequency of opportunities to meet new men.
- The number of men you interact with on a surface level.
- The number of men who see you and are impressed with you.
- The number of men who know you are available and looking.
- The number of recurring interactions with men that share one or more interests in common with you.
- The confidence you feel about yourself when actively learning about men who pass the first level of interest.
- The value you place on your time.
Here’s the thing. Your dating life will go better when you think of yourself as a goddess with immeasurable value, desirability, beauty, and worth. The main reason is quite simple.
The men you want to end up with already think of women like they are some sort of goddess. They think of women as fantastic sources of joy and beauty. They think of women as a scarce commodity of high-value.
When you fully embrace your own self-worth, you will naturally act and live in a way that attracts men who think of you as a goddess.