How to Be Cocky and Playful With Women, A Secret Weapon To Attract Her

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Written by Dean Cortez – Creator of the Tactical Attraction Manual – Words That Make Any Girl Crave You.

I want to share with you one of my favorite techniques to create “instant chemistry” with women and get them into your bed FAST… but first, I want you to imagine this scenario:

Let’s say you’re talking to a girl and the conversation is flowing. You’ve got some things in common with her, she’s easy to talk to, and everything seems to be going pretty well.

After ten or twenty minutes (or even an hour) of friendly conversation, she tells you she needs to get going…so you take out your phone and get her phone number.

You figure this girl LIKES you. Seeing her again shouldn’t be a problem, right?

But when you text her or call her the next day, you don’t get a response.

Or if you do get a response, she can’t remember who you are at first… and when you try to ask her out on a date, she tells you she’s extremely busy this week (and next week, and the week after that…as far as going on a date with you, she’s apparently booked up for the next 40 years)!

What’s up with this?

How come a girl can seem “into” you during that first conversation, but she treats like you like a telemarketer when call to see her again?

It comes down to one word.

You might have made her laugh… she may have found you interesting to talk to…. but you failed to make her feel any ATTRACTION.

And in order for a girl to feel that deep, undeniable, gut-level attraction, she needs to feel one thing:


The “Secret Weapon” To Attract Women.

The words “sexual tension” might sound to you like a bad thing. But it’s not.

What it really means is, she’s starting to feel attracted to you…but she’s not sure whether you feel the same way about her.

Sexual tension develops when she starts to WANT you… but she doesn’t know if she can HAVE you.

And women want what they can’t have!

They love a guy who is a challenge.

This is one of the big reasons why “bad boys,” who are cocky, playful, and obviously have a lot of sexual options, are able to attract women effortlessly.

They’re sexually attractive to women on a gut level — even if they’re the WORST kinds of guys for them to be in a relationship with!

This is why in order to attract women, you need to “shift gears” at some point during the conversation and start teasing her and framing yourself as a CHALLENGE.

You can’t let the conversation stay stuck in “neutral.”

Here’s the basic formula:

Talk to her for a little while and get to know her, so that she feels comfortable with you, and THEN you start teasing her and acting like you’re “not sure” about her.

You make her feel that she has to EARN a spot on “your team.” And this is where the level of sexual tension goes through the roof!

So now, here are some cocky, playful tactics to help you attract women…

Mention how you two could never date.

“You and I definitely have a lot of chemistry, but we could never be boyfriend and girlfriend. We’re way too much alike. We’d be breaking up all the time, and then having wild make-up sex and destroying all of my expensive furniture…it’s probably not a good idea.”

“It’s too bad I swore off dating girls like you…”

“You’re a nice girl, so you really shouldn’t be hanging out with a guy like me. I could get you in all kinds of trouble.”

“You’re such a sweet girl… you should probably be talking to a nice boy like the one over there (point to some dorky-looking dude). I’m more like the guy your mom warned you about.”

Accuse her of hitting on you.

If it’s time to get her a drink–or she offers to buy you one–say, “Okay, one drink, but promise you won’t try to take advantage of me.”


“It’s going to take more than a drink to get me into bed. I expect dinner and a movie at least.”

If she touches you, you can say

“Hey, hands off the merchandise. That’ll be twenty dollars.”

When she asks you a question, say:

“You are totally hitting on me right now. That’s a question I ask girls when I’m hitting on them. It’s cool, I just want you to know I expect you to buy me dinner and a movie before anything happens.”

Employ her/fire her.

When she mentions something that she’s good at, or an area where she has experience, tell her you’re “hiring” her to help you with it.

This frames you as the more powerful one in the conversation, and gives you a reason to “fire” her at any time (in a playful way).

“You seem like a smart girl who’s on the ball. I’m hiring you as my personal assistant.”

“So you know about all the nightclubs. I’m hiring you. From now on you’re my personal party planner whenever I have friends come to town.”

You get the idea. You can “hire” her to do anything.

You can make her your personal party DJ, fashion stylist, gym trainer, or website designer. The fun part is that when she says something corny or lame, you can “fire” her:

“Oh my God, I can’t believe you just said that. That’s it — you’re fired. Tell the girl over therein the red dress she can submit her resume.”

It’s all in good fun, but you’re sending the message that you’re the one in control and calling the shots.

As long as BEFORE the teasing you spent some time getting her to feel comfortable with you, and interested, these types of lines will create sexual tension and make her want to PROVE herself.

Use the “point system.”

“Okay, I’m going to ask you something but be careful how you answer, because this answer is worth ten points….”

This is when you can use one of the “Hypotheticals” in my training manual, M.A.C.K. Tactics.

These are clever, provocative “hypothetical questions” you can pose to her, that will really make her think and cause her to expose deeper aspects of her personality.

You can learn some Hypotheticals, along with dozens of other powerful attraction- building tactics, by watching this:

Click here to Watch – Simple Magic Words That Make Any Girl Crave You – Tactical Attraction

So back to what I was saying about Hypotheticals…

Whatever your question is, if she answers it “correctly” tell her she has earned ten points — and if she gets up to fifty points she wins a bonus (which can be a drink).

This now becomes a theme that runs through the conversation. Deduct points for lame or boring answers. Award points for good ones.

You’re building compliance and sending a message:

It’s HER job to impress you, not the other way around. You’re making her want to earn your approval.

When you start “framing” your conversations this way, you’ll find it much easier to attract women on a sexual level instead of being the “nice guy” or the “friend” she has no interest in sleeping with.

If you’re totally happy with whatever “successes” you might be having with women right now, then congrats to you.

On the other hand, if you are READY to move up to the NEXT LEVEL, then you should watch this quick video:

Click here to Watch – Simple Magic Words That Make Any Girl Crave You – Tactical Attraction

The Tactical Attraction Manual

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The Tactical Attraction System – The Strategic Guide to Dating Domination.

101 powerful “tricks” and techniques that can give you a major advantage during all your conversations with women.

Cocky/funny lines, routines, approaches, and escalation tactics.

Click Here to Watch – Simple Magic Words That Make Any Girl Crave You – Tactical Attraction

Conversation Commando – How to Be Fearless & Funny Whenever Your Talk To Women.

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A Step-by-step game plan to create flirty conversations with women. It will show you how to skip the small talk, grab her interest, and instantly connect with her on an emotional level.

Control the conversation and build sexual chemistry and a much deeper attraction with any woman of your choice.

Body Language Mastery – Secrets of Non-Verbal Sexual Communication.

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Body language is very important as it was covered heavily on this page but you can go much deeper too for maximum results with women.

Learn the best and most powerful signals you can give off, non-verbally, that will make women feel curious and attracted to you.

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The Friend Zone Annihilator – How To Make Her Want You In A Sexual Way.

A simple effective plan for staying out of the friends zone by getting any woman to feel sexual chemistry towards you.

If you’re already in one and want out – you’ll be shown how to change her feelings towards you and to stop seeing you as “just a friend”.

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Get the Look Women Love – Style & Grooming For Modern.

A lot was covered above on getting a look which works for you and attracts women too.

This add-on contains simple, proven tweaks not mentioned above that will make you much more attractive to women, without having to buy new clothes.

A simple sequence of steps to get the look women love and to stop being rejected by them too.


Internet Seduction – Conquer The Online Dating Game.

Online dating made easy with all sites including Instagram and Facebook.

Stand out from the crowd of horny guys who get nowhere and seduce lots of the hot, sexy women you see everyday on social media.

Step-by-step coaching from the top experts will show you how to set up your profile, get attention from women, and make them reach out to you.

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Crawl Inside Her Mind – Read Her Thoughts & Decode Her Signals.

Learn mind-reading techniques to get inside her head, decode her thoughts, and feelings too.

Makes it extremely easy to build a connection with a woman quickly and effortlessly.

Click here to Watch – Simple Magic Words That Make Any Girl Crave You

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