When this question came across I couldn’t believe it because it seemed so obvious to me.
Send a cute picture of yourself. 😉
No you don’t have to be naked.
No they don’t have to be perfect but most (normal) guys love it, like it, get turned on by them and I’m not going to say it will guarantee a response BUT at least you will know quickly if he’s attracted to you.
Let’s be honest here.
Words on a phone are NOT the strongest skill set of most men.
In fact, there are actually programs or products out there, which I’ve sold, that teach men HOW to text women because they just don’t seem to get it.
They text too much blowing up your phone.
They text too little or don’t respond leaving you wondering what the heck is going on.
They text you random shit you couldn’t care less about.
And when it comes to sexting… Well let’s just say most guys are clueless on how to turn on a woman with just a few words.
Now I know some of you have done it, the whole sexting thing and I’m sure you “put up” with his strange words or cute way he doesn’t get it, BUT that’s because you liked him, right?
You wouldn’t dare tell him his sexting skills are absolutely shameful.
Okay, I hear you… pictures? Are you serious?
Yes I AM but if you insist on some quick texts to try out for yourself, let me see what I can come up with for you that is IF you promise to let me know how they worked or did not work for you.
“Don’t you have something better you should be “doing” right now.”
“You know what gets me excited… you’ll never guess you fool! :p”
“Ahem ahem, if you could only see what I’m looking at right now. ;)”
“Brrrr it’s cold here. Reminds me of when… haha! never mind. :p”
“Just dropped my phone, might have missed your text while bending over to pick it up.”
“Something tells me I won’t get much sleep tonight, thanks a lot.. jerk. ;)”
“This bed is sooo comfy but it’s much too warm in here. Guess you know what that means. ;)”
Use lots of winks and tongue to tease him and to make sure you’re getting the sexual point across, otherwise it could easily go over his head.
There IS a (texting) formula here.
When you’re excited, that normally gets guys excited too IF again the attraction is already there.
Use that to your advantage.
If you like it when a guy kisses and bites your neck seductively… mention how your hair is driving you crazy because it keeps rubbing up against your warm neck and you’re just going to put it up.
If you like when a guy rubs the inner part of your thigh… mention how good his hands would feel right this minute now on them.
The one thing which always works for lots of men is this: Hint how you’re secretly excited and blame it on him.
If all else fails, THEN you can send a picture. 🙂
I understand this might be a little beyond romance and all but I’m assuming you’re already there and you just want a little something to get him going and see where he takes.
In that case this type of texting works great because it communicates a lot.
Here’s a few more teasing texts for you I just came up with:
“Are you busy? Wink wink ;P”
“If touching yourself was a crime… Nope, not going there just yet punk! :p”
ow… what are you waiting for?
Go ahead and send one today and don’t forget to tell me if it worked or not.
Just remember this is mainly used to enhance attraction or to turn on a guy who is probably already attracted to you.
If you have a few you would like to add which have worked for you, feel free to share them on my Facebook page or share them below.
You can also send them on Twitter by adding @peterwhite #turnontexts , again my twitter is here
Here’s to your new texting skills from your guy friend,
“I’m pretty shy… texting allows me to say things I couldn’t say in person”
I love Text the Romance Back 2.0 I am recently divorced and having been texting with someone who happens to be going through a divorce right now. He lives 45 min from me. We have been texting since July and it’s great. He was the first boy that I ever “really kissed” . It’s really cool to be back in touch with him. Through texting I can be a bit more assertive and fun. I’m a pretty shy person and texing allows me to say things I couldnt normally say in person. I have seen him only twice in all the months but we have our 3rd date already planned. Now because of the texting I even feel more confident when I’m with him. I love keeping him interested with the awesome texts that I have learned from you. Thanks so much!!