James Bauer is a dating and relationship expert who has coached couples to help them achieve a happier more productive marriage.
He also helps women attract men with the respect principle and the hero concept.
Below you’ll find lots of powerful articles and many free pdf online downloads so you can understand what James teaches and use his knowledge to better succeed in your marriage, in your relationship, understanding men, or to just simply better yourself and learn how to attract a better man into your life.
He CAN and will teach you HOW to connect with a man’s heart!
“The one thing stopping you from getting back with you ex is emotional walls. The problem isn’t making him love you again. He has decided to not give you another chance. The solution to that problem. Change the emotions he associates with you. Change what he feels when you message him with the movie trailer method.”
“Do you want your ex back & fix your lost relationship? Convincing him won’t work, trigger feelings instead. List of do’s and dont’s. Open the communication you lost. Build private communication. Use flirting. Be vulnerable. Throw rocks at your enemies. Make time your servant. Techniques to bring your connection back.”
“Getting your ex back begins with you adopting a new mentality. A new way of thinking which changes everything and can bring him closer. Your learn these new mindsets below. You’re not asking him to do you a favor. You have something valuable you want to give him. You don’t need to get back in his life. His life is just fine the way it is. The are no problems between you and him. Think Positive.”
“Emotions run the show. The greatest gift you can receive and give is love. You want him back but showing him you like him isn’t enough. It’s hard to let go when you share a special connection. Forget about convincing him to come back. You though of him when you read meant to be together. How must feel the same thing.”
“Attraction and love is a lot like getting thirsty. You don’t think about it, it just happens. To make a guy crazy you have to trigger his hero instinct but you can not do it by just saying it. There are certain things you can do which will trigger his love and attraction. Admiration. Let him be your hero.”
“Men want to be your hero. You’re doing all the work and only meeting takers. Men value what they have to work for so let him be your hero. How the hero instinct works to bring a guy closer. You have a lot to offer and you’re just giving it away to men who take and then disappear from your relationship.”
“Know your BATNA. Develop real super confidence around men and in your relationships with simple advice which works for all successful men and women. Embrace failure. Learn from them. Where self-confidence comes from. Starting with you. Attracting men instead of chasing them will make you more attractive.”
“Are you accidentally killing his passion for you? Men experience relationships differently. The attention he really wants is a level of respect. Men do experience relationships different than women. It’s something you would find interesting and helpful to improve your love life. Get his attention the right way.”
“Men cannot thrive in a deep passionate type of relationship unless they feel they have a woman’s admiration and respect. Why men will lose interest. Why when he chases you his primary desire is to impress you. The keys to a man’s happiness starts with you and attracting you as a real woman.”
“Is your marriage under attack? Is being too selfish bad for your relationship? Is there a better way to assure your couple’s happiness? Are affairs taken too lightly? What is the real solution to this not to innocent attack on your marriage and love? Based on marriage success and failures – the respect principle.”
“Men desire to be a hero, to be the lead character in his story,. A woman can use his needs and desires to trigger attraction and love. Let him communicate his story to you based on your needs and desires. He’ll start to see you differently and you’ll trigger his deepest attraction which is more likely to turn to love.”
“How did your girlfriend get so lucky to land a guy who is devoted and loves her? Was it appreciation? Maybe she knew how to unlock his hero instinct. No need to be jealous, you too can unlock your man’s devotion and love in the same way. You can make him feel undying love and devotion to you too by doing this.”
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“So, what is the beauty a man sees in a committed relationship? Well, it might sound a bit odd to you at first, but here it is:
A romantic relationship satisfies a man’s craving for companionship to the extent that it fits with his identity…the way he wants to see himself.
Understanding this one statement will give you tremendous power in your relationships with
men. So let me explain.
“Let’s assume you’re making progress with a guy. He’s shown the early signs of interest. And you can tell he genuinely enjoys spending time with you. But something is holding him back.
What is it? Why does he seem to be dragging his feet? He was very interested in the relationship from the start.
But now it’s as if he’s second-guessing his commitment. Like he’s not sure about the thing that’s building between the two of you.
“Chances are, you’ve dated a guy who seemed to fit this cliche. You’ve probably asked yourself why this happens. And you’ve probably wondered if it’s even possible to get a man to want commitment as much as you do.
In this report, I’m going to show you how to reverse a man’s resistance to commitment. And I’m going to show you how to do it by triggering a basic male instinct he simply can’t ignore.
“It probably isn’t a conscious thing, but a bunch of factors make him instinctively feel like the relationship is more a source of pain than pleasure. We’ll get into this more in a minute, but at the end of the day, “pain VS pleasure” is the ONE factor that determines whether he wants to be with you or not.
In other words, if he has a gut feeling that your relationship is a source of pain, then no amount of logic, convincing, or begging will change his mind. His mind is already made up–from the inside out.
We need to change that.”
“Every time Sabrina and Josh had a fight, it was always the same. She’d bring up an issue. Something that was bothering her. Something they needed to talk about.
But the instant she opened her mouth, it was like a wall would slam down between them.
Because Josh would immediately get defensive.
He would accuse her of criticizing him. He’d say she was blaming him for everything.
Complain that she was always saying he couldn’t do anything right. And maybe she should take a look in the mirror.
“Men unconsciously (and sometimes consciously) evaluate women based on characteristics that have to do with sex and the potential for healthy offspring. This is true even among men of an older generation dating women who are postmenopausal.
The simple fact is, men don’t feel that special kind of ‘in love’ feeling unless there is some level of
sexual attraction. This is true even for men who are not shallow and who are capable of having a deep romantic
relationship with a woman based on more than physical chemistry. Do not ignore the importance of connecting with a man on a physical level.
It’s where his attraction to you will start.
- The frequency of opportunities to meet new men.
- The number of men you interact with on a surface level.
- The number of men who see you and are impressed with you.
- The number of men who know you are available and looking.
- The number of recurring interactions with men that share one or more interests in common with you.
- The confidence you feel about yourself when actively learning about men who pass the first level of interest.
- The value you place on your time.
he main reason is quite simple.
The men you want to end up with already think of women like they are some sort of goddess. They think of women as fantastic sources of joy and beauty. They think of women as a scarce commodity of high-value.
When you fully embrace your own self-worth, you will naturally act and live in a way that attracts men who think of you as a goddess.