“Freaking out over some guy will ultimately push him away if you act like that and you’ll unknowingly have him pull back or disappear. Trying too hard the further he will pull back. There’s a better way to bring him closer. If you attack him he will do everything to avoid that confrontation and pull back further.”
Written by Mark Scott
Do you know what happens when a woman goes through a difficult situation with a man She keeps freaking out…I call it the freak out syndrome.
This is how the cycle runs…
A woman finds herself in a difficult situation with a man…
She doesn’t understand why he’s doing what he’s doing…
She then tries to do what she assumes is the right thing but it doesn’t work…
She then feels stuck and eventually freaks out.
It’s no surprise why so many women are leading a life of silent desperation.
The point I am trying to make here is that when women drive themselves completely nuts by freaking out over and over again, it messes them up completely over time.
But it doesn’t stop here…
Under such a situation a woman unknowingly does things which push a man further away…
Here are the two most common routes women take…
- They first try to convince a man.
- And when the first option doesn’t work, they try to argue their way into his head.
I don’t know why but women have this inner belief that if they can just explain their situation to a man he will somehow get it…
It doesn’t really work that way.
You can never make him understand your situation when you try hard to drill your point into his head.
In fact! The harder you try, the further he will pull himself away.
And when convincing him doesn’t work, they take the second route, which is to argue or fight and finally when things get really bad, they use blame and guilt to get their point across.
Let me explain this with a good example…
Let’s say your man is starting to get distant and you fear that maybe he is planning to leave you.
You first try to understand why he is getting distant, but things aren’t making any sense, as a result you freak out.
Next, you try to talk to him about it, you say things like –
“Honey! I don’t know why you are avoiding me like this, what have I done? Are you planning to leave me? Have you found someone else? I need answers.”
And you still don’t get the answers you need and as a result your anxiety is starting to turn into anger. You feel that you deserve answers from him…
And in the process you say things like…
“I am sick and tired of not getting answers from you. You aren’t pulling your share of weight in the relationship, I feel like I am doing all the work. You only care about yourself.”
This is a major mistake which can literally shake the foundation of a relationship.
When you use this approach a man only feels attacked and his first reaction is to get even more distant to avoid confrontation.
It’s important to understand that you can’t hold a gun to his head & make him get it.
You are following an utterly hopeless strategy if you think you can.
There is a better way.
There are things you can do and say which will naturally make a man want to open up to you, give you all the love you need and be devoted to you for the rest of his life.
Mark has put together a presentation you should watch on how to read a man’s mind, here’s the link:
I’ve watched it myself and wrote down some of the highlights for you so you know exactly what you’re going to watch.
- How it’s no hard work for you.
- A hot button a man instinctively has.
- A “formula” on how to read a man’s mind.
- Become a Siren and magnetically pull men towards you.
- Make him “dance” to your tunes.
- Get him super interested in you even if you’re not the most beautiful or smartest women in the world.
- Getting what you want from a man without even trying.
- Triggered the emotional part of my mind.
- Very specific language to appeal to his protector instincts.
- Keep you safe and happy.
- Pleasing you becomes the right thing to do.