Here’s a proven face about men: They can and will get turned on by what you say, how you say it, and of course when you say it. This includes phone sex, texting, or the more modern slang with our phones – sexting!
I’m telling you upfront, even IF I don’t find a woman that physically attracted at all, she can still TURN ME ON with a few words or phrases.
This technique or skill also goes well beyond casual affairs or sex, you can even re-spark a 20 year relationship that needs a little fireworks.
Here’s a great explanation of why it turns men on:
“Words that turn a man on trigger a specific response in him, both physically and emotionally.
What matters to most guys is that his sexual prowess is validated. He wants to know that you love what he’s doing and that his masculinity is arousing you.
There is an almost universal male archetype of the strong sex-god rock star who is able to magically seduce and satisfy women.
Yes, even your brainiac math whiz-type has a fantasy of being THAT guy. When you say these phrases, it’s like you’ve crawled right into his sexual imagination.”
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Let me tell you about myself. Guess I should’ve called this the secret dirt on Pete. (BTW No sharing my personal information please. 🙂 )
No lie. When it came to phone sex or sexting, I WAS a bit of a master. Who knows how I got that good at it. Maybe too much practice, maybe too many long distance hook ups, or maybe because far in the past I actually used or learned the ability to help women achieve an orgasm on the phone when they failed to do it themselves.
Suffice to say, it came easy to me because I followed one rule which could be a great tip for you:
Imagine EXACTLY what you want to happen and then describe it in vivid detail.
Okay so here’s the sad part you might not want to hear – lots of the women I dealt with were not really good at it. You can only imagine some of what I heard and how it came across to me. It wasn’t pleasant and made me want to avoid it again with her because the things said kept creeping back in my head.
I realized how many of the women were unfortunately so bad at it. They just didn’t know what to say, when to say it, or I guess in reality were too scared to say what was really on their mind.
I don’t mean to make them feel bad about it, that’s for sure. It’s completely understandable that’s it not easy.
You have to feel comfortable saying all the things you would never say in a normal conversation. You have to be open and in touch with your desires and his too. You must also be creative, imaginative, and you must be able to put exactly the feelings you want to get across in words. Not always the easiest thing to do for anyone at first.
BUT I believe it’s possible for any woman to learn this “secret male attraction” trigger and to use it effectively to really drive up the sex OR to expand your reach – sexually speaking.
Nevertheless the truth is… words and how you say the work on men
Your voice and the power behind your voice opens up or releases a very real major erroneous zone in men.
Say the wrong thing the wrong way and he’ll never forget it, and it won’t be good. It’s what called the “Ewwww factor”. Something which has happened to me before. Honestly a few times I had to stop myself from laughing but being a decent guy, didn’t go there. I just remember it getting stuck in my head long after it as said. (A great reason to make sure you’re doing it right.)
This is a skill every woman should try to learn.
If you want over 200+ ideas, phrases, and text messages to drive your man wild with desire for you, make sure to check out Language of Desire.
It contains Step by step instructions and tons of exact words to use to get exactly what you both want in and out of the bedroom.
Here’s a little sample from the producer:
“A few phrases you can say to him can give him that feeling of sex-god rock star he craves.
“You feel so incredible!”
Or you can fill in the blank with any kind of adjective there: amazing, big, good, fantastic, hard, huge, awesome. Add in the f-word for a more explicit effect. You get the idea.
When you are having intercourse, telling him just how great he feels to you is the ultimate compliment. This validates his prowess and physicality in real-time.
And you’ll learn in my program Language of Desire just how much importance most guys place on their penis.
It could be any command really: harder, right there, give it to me. Again, feel free to add in curse words and explicit language.
Giving him a command during sex to keep doing exactly what he’s doing to you is confident and hot.
It’s hot because it shows him just how much you are enjoying it.
Men say the number one thing they love during sex is an enthusiastic partner!”
Remember these are things you can also say or text to turn him on for later. To increase his sexual appetite for you. It’s some good old-fashion role-playing which can turn into something when the time is right.
Here’s another example and the reason it works so well. It’s not only important to know what to say and how to say it, but once you learn WHY IT WORKS you can really increase the effectiveness and start coming up with stuff on your own.
“I can’t get enough of you OR I’m so turned on by you.”
This phrase speaks to his ability to arouse you. That he turns you into a sex-hungry vixen who wants his body all the time.
Is that an exaggeration? Sure.
But think about how often we unwittingly turn our partners away because we are tired, or have a headache, or just aren’t in the mood.
This doesn’t mean you have to be ready to go at it 24/7.
However, when you feed his ego that he has the ability to drive you wild with desire you make him feel amazing, especially when you say this phrase outside of the bedroom.
The idea that his woman is distracted in the middle of the day by sexy thoughts of him? Rawr.
There you have it, now go get it.”
Men can and will always be turned aurally and through texting or sexting and it’s just another way to enjoy a wonderful exciting sex life.
If you want to learn how you can do it, lots of phrases, exact step by step instructions, a few great bonuses on dirty talk and sexting go for it.