There are many erogenous zones on a woman’s body and while it’s best if you know them all and how to give the most pleasure from caressing them the right way…
The most overlooked one is not a spot at all:
It’s a woman mind. The space between her ears.
(Here’s a list of 18 spots and how to touch them: Everything You Need to Know About Erogenous Zones – check it out and the resources below when you get a chance.)
And it’s the one most men are confused and clueless about, but it doesn’t have to be that way.
The spoken word, how, when, and where it’s done can have such a powerful effect on a woman – without it, and without knowing the right ones to say (and how to say them) practically guarantees that you will NEVER tap into this powerful tool of eroticism.
“Sex happens in the body but eroticism happens in the mind.”
Unlocking her sexual imagination is the most powerful component to physical intimacy.
It is what will make her think of you as the best she’s ever had.
Knowing how to turn her on with words is how you go from being so-so to her Sexual Superhero.
There are two core emotional triggers that women have:
- She wants to feel sexually irresistible.
- She wants to feel adored.
The first piece of your sexual technique is what you say and how you make her feel.
Pretty much every woman you meet carries some degree of anxiety about her sexuality and her looks.
Because in our culture, women are taught from a young age that their sexuality is shameful, only to be shared in very specific ways, not to be explored, and something they will be judged about.
And everywhere she looks, she is told her value is based on her physical appearance.
Yes, even the most sexually confident woman can have residual fear around how she shares her body and who she shares it with.
And how she looks sharing it.
That is why it’s so incredibly important for you to make her feel safe to unleash her inner sex Goddess.
You start to create that safe place for her to relax and connect through the language you engage her with.
Hot Button Phrases
The easiest place to start is with a few specific phrases. I find these are great to send as text messages but they work well face to face, too.
If you aren’t in the habit of saying these types of things, I think starting out rated PG is your best bet.
You can always take it more explicit later.
- You have me so turned on just thinking of you.
- Your body is so beautiful, I love exploring every inch.
- What are you doing to me? I can’t stop thinking about you.
- Damn, I am one lucky man.
- You turn me on like no other woman.
- I love how much pleasure you give me.
- You feel so amazing, you know that right?
- I find you completely irresistible.
- You have me crazy with desire for you.
And these are just a few examples.
If you are ready to totally tap into her sexual imagination, be the Sex God of her dreams, and make her addicted to you, check out this quick video:
Language is your way in to her mind and into her emotions.
Words stimulate the imagination and create a space to explore fantasies. Language is the ultimate sexuality hack.
Understanding the basic principle behind the language of lust means you don’t need to know what she likes or what she doesn’t like.
There are universal truths that are basically guaranteed to work on any woman if you do them right.
Here’s the deal…
Nothing makes a woman feel more sexy than knowing how turned on she is making you. Verbalizing your desire validates her and in turn, makes her desire you more.
And when you confidently tell her how she’s affecting you and give her permission to be sexually uninhibited, you elevate your sexual status to Rock Star in her eyes.
More Winning Phrases to Use
Women like to feel adored…and they also love knowing that just their very essence fills you to the brim with desire.
And sure, that sounds a little like sexual objectification. Yet when done the right way, won’t offend her. I promise.
Tell her things like…
- Good lord you are sexy. Do you have any idea how much you turn me on?
- My body is tingling all over thinking about what I’m going to do to you when I see you tonight.
- Thoughts of you have me so distracted today. I’m thinking of so many deliciously naughty things…
She also wants to know you are tuned in to her needs, likes, and preferences.
You show her that her experience matters by confidently asking questions to engage her imagination and share with you.
- What does it feel like when you are really humming with desire?
- What are some things that really turn you on?
- Have you ever been surprised by something that turned you on?
Lawrence shares a ton of Winning Phrases to use along with the dangerous Failing Phrases to avoid at all costs in his program.
Listen, there is a plethora of bad advice out there for guys like you.
Some of it downright slimy, manipulative, and unethical.
A smart guy knows there has to be a better way.
Check out this video Lawrence put together for men like you.
What Lawrence has to share with you will absolutely blow her mind and have her squirming with desire for you.
3 Psychological Reasons Women Won’t Fuck You!
If you find yourself frequently going home alone after shuffling through different “opens” or sleazy pickup tricks, then you need to learn the truth about why women AVOID their deepest, most wild sexual fantasies.
What you don’t know is that ALL women are MORE desperate for hot, sweaty, intense sex than you are.
They’re also impatiently waiting for ANY guy to finally “get” this.
There are three psychological reasons women “hide” their crazy sexual fantasies from you.
This video shows you how to easily obliterate all three psychological barriers and have her on her knees, ripping your pants off and shoving your cock in her mouth. . . even if she normally would find you repulsive:
This will show you what REALLY makes women horny as hell so you’ll never have to worry about “openers” or “approach” techniques again.
Just “get” this and any woman you approach will beg you to fuck her brains out over and over.
Understanding these three psychological barriers is the ONLY thing holding you back from an abundance of hot, steamy, mind blowing sex.
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