Reveal How He Feels With Two Quick Text Messages

Guy Phone Looking Text Reveal Feelings

I bet you’re a “master text-er.” You can whip out your phone faster than any of your guy friends and you know how to use it.

If only your “love life” worked as efficiently as your text messages you wouldn’t have to be searching for an answer today.

You might have your phone under control but those men, you know the ones who elude you at every turn, like they’re actually trying to piss you off or play some silly dating game.

They have a serious problem with a seemingly simple task of just texting you back.

It annoys you so much you feel like ripping your hair out because you just don’t understand…WHY!

Give me a few minutes of your time today and I promise to get to the bottom of why a guy doesn’t text you back and…

You will also get two simple texts to send a guy which will reveal if he’s worth your time and if he’s interested in you.

Let’s get real about this problem.

Men are not the best with their phone skills when it comes to an attractive woman such as yourself. Keep that in mind and expect anything and everything from him with regards to texting.

It’s no secret that lots of men are terrible “texters.” In fact I’ve sold so many “texting guides for men” without even trying that there must be something going on with their terrible texting habits.

Okay, let’s play fair – women just like you buy them too… have a look at this sign up page and you’ll see what kind of business is created just from texting:  3 Magic Texts – Text the Romance Back.

Here is where I’m going to show you a practically guaranteed method to get him to text you back quicker with two easy texts.

(Go ahead and let me know how it worked for you below… the bad and the good.)

SEND THIS: I was just thinking about you. 🙂

If you get no response within five minutes…

SEND THIS: HA! And now you have the pleasure of thinking about me. 😉

DO NOT send another text until you hear back from him.

If he’s not into you you’re going to find out quickly.

How he responds says everything about how much he’s attracted to you and what type of guy he really is.

If he doesn’t respond and you’re completely positive (without a doubt) there’s not a good reason, then he is just not that interested in you.

I know it sucks but hey, two texts to see if a guy is into you is not really an investment which is going to break your emotional bank, is it?

I’ll explain why it works.

Men can not resist wondering if a potential girlfriend is thinking about them.

Woman Texting Guy Phone

He gets that “cocky” look in his eye when it’s happening and it drives him crazy when he has to guess. He now knows you’re thinking about him and when you “suggest” he’ll be thinking about you, he will have no choice but to do just that… think about you in a way which is close to how he FEELS about you.

Because when a man can not get an image of a woman out of their mind he finds himself desiring her more and more.

Here’s the cool part of about this simple text routine.

You’ll know quickly what TYPE of man you’re dealing with. He’ll either crumble or step up to the plate of your flirty text. In other words – he will either shut up or put up. And the really cool part is that you’re not forcing the issue at all. It doesn’t come off as needy or desperate which makes him want to reply to you even more.

You’re making a quick statement which doesn’t even require a response which is what you want because he’ll text back IF he’s into you and based on what he texts back – will reveal how much and in which way he is interested in you.

You’ve read how to get him to “Man-Up” with you I felt it only right to give you some common and not so common reasons on why a guy does not or can not text you back. Here’s a list quoted from my upcoming episode of the secret dirty truth about men. For a detailed explanation click on the link below.

1. He’s busy at work.
2. His phone service sucks.
3. He has a wife or girlfriend who is close by.
4. He’s on a date.
5. He’s having sex with another woman.. or man. :O
6. You send him too many “forwards.”
7. You don’t send him any real pictures of you.
8. He’s not interested or attracted to you.
9. He thinks texting you back too quickly goes against the “dating code.”
10. He’s driving somewhere.
11. His battery is dead or his phone is lost once again.
12. He is showering or doing something in the bathroom.
13. He is masturbating.

13 Real Reasons Why A Guy Will Not, Can Not, or Does Not Text You Back

Now that you know what to text him PLEASE before you send the routine – there are some very important warnings you must be aware of:

  • Don’t over use it on one guy or you’ll kill its effect. It’s a one and done kind of thing unless you change it.
  • Change it slightly to fit your personal situation. Constantly develop it and mix in some flirty humor.
  • Understand there are reasons beyond a man’s control which make it impossible to respond immediately. Be patient.
  • If you insist on texting him again before he responds, wait at least 24 hours and then text this, “I think that picture I sent you yesterday is going to get me in trouble. :p “. I’m telling you this one works amazingly well but it’s sexual overtone is not for everyone.
  • If you are not having fun with it you’re doing something wrong. Comment below what happened and I’ll see what I can do for you.
  • Sending a sexy picture of you will get a response but depending on his age he will show it to his friends so expect that to happen. Younger men in particular. Sending pictures do work but they are more effective in other ways.

You have the texting routine, some of the reasons why it works and how it does it’s magic; you also have a stamped-out list of why a guy will not or can not text you back…

Lastly…

HOW do you know how he feels or if he’s interested in you just by what or if he texts you back.

The obvious first: If you don’t hear anything back AFTER the two texts, and a reasonable amount of time passes – it will generally mean he’s either not interested  (in that way) OR he’s with someone else romantically. Either way it’s a clear sign to not text him again.

If he plays into your flirty text then that’s a good sign he’s attracted to you. Interest is something else. The difference is attraction is what we feel towards women, interest is what we feel when we want to explore those feelings more with you.

If he responds back in a less flirty kind of weird boring way – this means one of two things: He doesn’t know how to flirt or text flirt (which is the less probably reason) OR he’s not attracted to you or interested in exploring the romantic side with you. Sure you can try again but it’s not advisable because there are many other opportunities with other men. Why waste your time, energy, and amazing texting skills on a guy who is either not into you or doesn’t even know how to text flirt with a woman he likes.

Us guys, okay well it’s a human thing but, when someone texts us something like what I’ve asked you to send, we can not help but to interpret what it means based on HOW we’re feeling about the person who is sending it.

Think about it. The message isn’t really sexual at all. Sure it’s a little flirty but sexual, I think not.

The interpretation then become more of a personal thing to the person receiving it.

Imagine if someone you’ve known for years as (just a friend) sends you it. Wouldn’t you think it was a little creepy? Wouldn’t it be way out of character? Downright weird and certainly random. It wouldn’t feel sexual at all because it’s interpreted by you as coming from someone who is… just a friend.

But when it comes to a relationship which is not known or clearly defined, meaning he could be into you or not, attracted to you or not, (the text message) is ambiguous in nature. It could be interpreted either way.

Which is why it works and how it WILL work for you.

The guy being sent the message interprets it based on how he feels about you or how he sees you – romantically, attracted, as a friend, a potential date, etc…

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170 comments… add one
  • Scarlet

    Hello! So,My crush used to have interest but because I texted and sent a lot of pics, he kind of lost interest in me. To re attract him, I stopped sending pics, texting, and having contact with him. When he text, I would either wait till the day after or just reply with one text. Yesterday he was asking me why I’ve been “inactive”, I replied by saying that I am active with people that are active with me and he said wtf, rude, and sorry and I said it’s okay. I haven’t heard from him since yesterday! So I was wondering if I should use you’re two text messages?? Any thought about my situation??

  • Alyssa

    Does this work for an ex that you’re kind of on speaking terms with trying to judge if they miss you or not? We just broke up a little over a month ago due to him getting stationed across the country and have only texted a couple times. I still love him and it’s killing me to know how he feels.

    • Hey Alyssa,

      I would not suggest you use these type of messages in your situation. First, you’ve been in a relationship which should mean to you he feels something for you. You’ve broken up because of the long distance but that doesn’t change how a guy might feel about you. This a casual type of messaging an since you’ve been in a relationship and communication is very important, I would directly ask him or again, just assume if a guy was committed to you, it means he’s feeling something.

      Pete

    • Bianca varelas

      If he is in the military please dont play games and mess with their minds. They have enough to worry about defending our country then to be distracted by immature females.

  • Ellie

    Guy I’m interested in and who’s supposedly interested in me. He sucks at texting, and is an “inactive” texter. I don’t see him go on his phone at all when we’re together which makes me happy because I hold his full attention. He’s flirty, fun and keeps telling me all “the right things”. But he’s short over text, and wouldn’t really answer my texts until a day later or two. I decided to try your trick and he just said “sure lol”.

    I really like him but now I just feel defeated.

    • Ellie,

      You can not always 100% tell how a guy feels through text messaging especially when the guy doesn’t revolve around his phone.

      I would look at his actions towards you in person as an indicator of interest. If a guy is consistently asking you out or going out with you AND is treating you differently than he would a close friend, (flirting, etc…) or doing things with you he wouldn’t do with a guy friend – then chances are – he’s interested in you.

      Pete

  • Fatena

    Hello Peter. Need you advise plz. In short is my situation. I am married with 3 kids 30 years old and as i have rediculosely beautiful fce and body i never had any problems with getting what i want. I met that anesthesist during my surgery and in a blink something happend. Medical etics of course wont let him flirt me so i found him on social media. He is is much older to me 45. Married with 4 kids. We spoked every time we could. Sometimes we cannot coz of our spouses. And then we met for a short date which ended with most hot kiss i ever explained. He told me he felt the same. I dont work. He works i operation theatre and always hecthch. But i feel i m always the one to initiate conversations. He replies fast. But he rately opend conversatio himself. Once he said its coz he is worried for me and when right time. Sometines im so sure he is so freaking much into me. Sometimes i fear he is distant. Although he is the one who constantly ask about futute of this relation and if its gona continue. And even that he can drastically change his life by another marriage. I only joke back telling him to not think much and enjoy a monent. We still didnt hve sex. But his replying routine sometines confusing me. Once he begging to call me. Sometimes he ignor s messages for hours and hours. Any advise or magical txt to know how much he is into me u can suggest ‘me?)

  • Sara

    Hello! So,My crush used to have interest but because I texted and sent a lot of pics, he kind of lost interest in me I think. I mean we’ve had sex once and it was a week ago but then just the texting wasn’t as much as before. Of course he went back to work this week but still, he reads my texts just barely responds. He’s also 5 years younger than me and he got out of a really bad toxic relationship a year ago. He’s told me I was the only girl he’s had anything sexual with in months. I like him and want to have his attention, what should I do?
    Any thought about my situation??

  • Nathalie

    Hello,
    Just wanted to let you know I tested your theory and wrote the text you offered about letting the guy know I was thinking of him. He texted back within 5 mins and texted ‘”Can we meet up babe” ” Can we meet at the Paza”. I didn’t expect that at all hahaha. I guess I was hoping he’d text ‘ me too’ not actually lets meet lol. Maybe he’s more into me than I thought. Your method clearly works. WOW!!!

    • Peter White

      Hello,

      Thanks for sharing Nathalie. Happy it worked for you. All the best to you,

      Pete

  • Lauren

    Hello! I’m so glad I stumbled upon your website, I’m having issues lol I met a guy online & we have been talking for a little while now…unfortunately it didn’t take long at all for me to get attached & completely fall for him. At first it felt like we talked all day every day but now very little. He lives literally on the opposite side of the world from me so time is opposite as well which is one obstacle I understand. We talked on social media mostly at first but now use WhatsApp & I’m able to see when he is online… he will be online for a while & never message me. Usually after I’ve posted a status is when he will message me saying he thought I didn’t want to talk to Him anymore or asking why I haven’t messaged. Since I see him online a lot I don’t message him because I read somewhere that if if that occurs they’re usually only replying to be polite. So when he asked why I hadn’t talked to him all day i said it was because I figured he was working or sleeping & didn’t want to bother him. So then he says he loves me & I shouldn’t think that way that I can message him anytime also I feel like I’m more interested in knowing things about him than he is about me… I’m interested in the little details just as much as the bigger ones….I’m just so dang confused & pretty much loosing my mind over here trying to figure out what to do & how he actually feels.

  • Jenny

    The guy i like and i have just recently started texting again. We had a class together and talked a little then and texted a little. Sometimes he’ll send blushing emojis when we say goodnight or he’ll send a kissy face emoji. And he asked me when we first started talking again if i have or had ever had feelings for him then i told him and now we’ve just been texting a lot. I want to use these 2 text and find out how he feels but i’ve always been super afraid of rejection. What should i do?

    • Peter White

      He’s sending you kisses and blushing AND he’s asking you if you have feelings for him. What more do you need to know?

      You don’t need the texts, he already is attracted to you in some way.

  • Skye

    I did this and it worked now what lol!!! I’m curious

    • Peter White

      Very cool Skye, Glad it worked.

      Pete

  • Ashley

    So my situation is tricky. I was with my ex from 16-30, divorced and haven’t dated in those 3 years since. Met up with an old high school friend and had an amazing date, which ended in bed. We text back and forth, we have both said we want to meet up and hang out again, but he hasn’t committed to a specific date. He is SUPER busy with work right now, so I don’t know when to even suggest a “date” to see where this is going. Will this 2 step message be a good ice breaker to get an actual date, or open up a discussion of “where are we going with this?”

    • Peter White

      Ashley, first things first. I know you’ve been out of the dating “arena” for a while so I’ll keep that in mind.

      I don’t like dating rules but one good thing to follow is to NEVER sleep with a man early on IF you’re looking for something more. Read this and it will explain more: (It’s from my archived newsletters.)

      http://archive.aweber.com/whydoesaguy/5Rj3l/h/Before_You_Sleep_With_Him_Read.htm

      Second: No, it’s way too early to open a discussion about “where it’s going” and using this text message sequence would not be a good lead in for that to happen. (On the side notice how hard it is to know where things are going or what he wants AFTER you’ve already slept together. These are things you must learn BEFORE you get sexual.) So no, don’t use this for anything but what it is intended to do – engage his interest.

      Third: Men will tend to move at their own pace for better or for worse. Men will also let you know if they want a date or second date and IF they want it bad enough will MAKE the time for it to happen. This means, if he’s not calling, not texting, if you’re doing all the work, if he’s not making the right moves or time with you – then he just doesn’t want it badly enough AND will probably only contact you again when he’s sexually aroused.

      I realize it’s been a long time for you and you’re not all that experienced with dating so, no matter what happens, keep all this in mind, worse comes to worse, at least you went out and enjoy some probably well-needed sex. If that’s all it turns out to be – so be it.

      Now you have some powerful information to avoid this sort of thing in the future with a different guy.

      All the best,
      Pete

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