I bet you’re a “master text-er.” You can whip out your phone faster than any of your guy friends and you know how to use it.
If only your “love life” worked as efficiently as your text messages you wouldn’t have to be searching for an answer today.
You might have your phone under control but those men, you know the ones who elude you at every turn, like they’re actually trying to piss you off or play some silly dating game.
They have a serious problem with a seemingly simple task of just texting you back.
It annoys you so much you feel like ripping your hair out because you just don’t understand…WHY!
Give me a few minutes of your time today and I promise to get to the bottom of why a guy doesn’t text you back and…
You will also get two simple texts to send a guy which will reveal if he’s worth your time and if he’s interested in you.
Let’s get real about this problem.
Men are not the best with their phone skills when it comes to an attractive woman such as yourself. Keep that in mind and expect anything and everything from him with regards to texting.
It’s no secret that lots of men are terrible “texters.” In fact I’ve sold so many “texting guides for men” without even trying that there must be something going on with their terrible texting habits.
Okay, let’s play fair – women just like you buy them too but that’s neither here nor there.
Here is where I’m going to show you a practically guaranteed method to get him to text you back quicker with two easy texts.
(Go ahead and let me know how it worked for you below… the bad and the good.)
SEND THIS: I was just thinking about you. 🙂
If you get no response within five minutes…
SEND THIS: HA! And now you have the pleasure of thinking about me. 😉
DO NOT send another text until you hear back from him.
If he’s not into you you’re going to find out quickly.
How he responds says everything about how much he’s attracted to you and what type of guy he really is.
If he doesn’t respond and you’re completely positive (without a doubt) there’s not a good reason, then he is just not that interested in you.
I know it sucks but hey, two texts to see if a guy is into you is not really an investment which is going to break your emotional bank, is it?
I’ll explain why it works.
Men can not resist wondering if a potential girlfriend is thinking about them.
He’ll get that “cocky” look in his eye when it’s happening and it drives him crazy when he has to guess. He now knows you’re thinking about him and when you “suggest” he’ll be thinking about you, he will have no choice but to do just that…
Think about you in a way which is close to how he FEELS about you.
Because when a man can not get an image of a woman out of their mind he finds himself desiring her more and more.
Here’s the cool part of about this simple text routine.
You’ll know quickly what TYPE of man you’re dealing with. He’ll either crumble or step up to the plate of your flirty text. In other words – he will either shut up or put up.
And the really cool part is that you’re not forcing the issue at all.
It doesn’t come off as needy or desperate which makes him want to reply to you even more.
You’re making a quick statement which doesn’t even require a response which is what you want because he’ll text back IF he’s into you and based on what he texts back – will reveal how much and in which way he is interested in you.
You’ve read how to get him to “Man-Up” with you so I felt it only right to give you some common and not so common reasons on why a guy does not or can not text you back:
1. He’s busy at work.
2. His phone service sucks.
3. He has a wife or girlfriend who is close by.
4. He’s on a date.
5. He’s having sex with another woman.. or man. :O
6. You send him too many “forwards.”
7. You don’t send him any real pictures of you.
8. He’s not interested or attracted to you.
9. He thinks texting you back too quickly goes against the “dating code.”
10. He’s driving somewhere.
11. His battery is dead or his phone is lost once again.
12. He is showering or doing something in the bathroom.
13. He is masturbating.
Now that you know what to text him PLEASE before you send the routine – there are some very important warnings you must be aware of:
- Don’t over use it on one guy or you’ll kill its effect. It’s a one and done kind of thing unless you change it.
- Change it slightly to fit your personal situation. Constantly develop it and mix in some flirty humor.
- Understand there are reasons beyond a man’s control which make it impossible to respond immediately. Be patient.
- If you insist on texting him again before he responds, wait at least 24 hours and then text this, “I think that picture I sent you yesterday is going to get me in trouble. :p “. I’m telling you this one works amazingly well but it’s sexual overtone is not for everyone.
- If you are not having fun with it you’re doing something wrong. Comment below what happened and I’ll see what I can do for you.
- Sending a sexy picture of you will get a response but depending on his age he will show it to his friends so expect that to happen. Younger men in particular. Sending pictures do work but they are more effective in other ways.
You have the texting routine, some of the reasons why it works and how it does it’s magic; you also have a stamped-out list of why a guy will not or can not text you back…
HOW do you know how he feels or if he’s interested in you just by what or if he texts you back.
The obvious first:
If you don’t hear anything back AFTER the two texts, and a reasonable amount of time passes – it will generally mean he’s either not interested (in that way) OR he’s with someone else romantically. Either way it’s a clear sign to not text him again.
If he plays into your flirty text then that’s a good sign he’s attracted to you.
Interest is something else.
The difference is attraction is what we feel towards women, interest is what we feel when we want to explore those feelings more with you.
If he responds back in a less flirty kind of weird boring way – this means one of two things:
He doesn’t know how to flirt or text flirt (which is the less probably reason) OR he’s not attracted to you or interested in exploring the romantic side with you.
Sure you can try again but it’s not advisable because there are many other opportunities with other men.
Why waste your time, energy, and amazing texting skills on a guy who is either not into you or doesn’t even know how to text flirt with a woman he likes.
Us guys, okay well it’s a human thing but, when someone texts us something like what I’ve asked you to send, we can not help but to interpret what it means based on HOW we’re feeling about the person who is sending it to us. It’s human nature to be curious.
Think about it.
The message isn’t really sexual at all.
Sure it’s a little flirty but sexual, I think not.
The interpretation then becomes more of a personal thing to the person receiving it.
Imagine if someone you’ve known for years as (just a friend) sends you it. Wouldn’t you think it was a little creepy? Wouldn’t it be way out of character?
Downright weird and certainly random.
It wouldn’t feel sexual at all because it’s interpreted by you as coming from someone who is… just a friend.
But when it comes to a relationship which is not known or clearly defined, meaning he could be into you or not, attracted to you or not, (the text message) is ambiguous in nature.
It could be interpreted either way.
Which is why it works and how it WILL work for you.
The guy being sent the message interprets it based on how he feels about you or how he sees you – romantically, attracted, as a friend, a potential date, etc…
That almost wraps it up for today. Hope you enjoyed it and learned something about men or anything which will help you meet, attract, and date the right guy for you.
Whereas I do run everything around here I mainly pay attention to my main site: Why Do Guys…? Understanding Men Made Simple.
You’ll find lots of great advice, tips, and the why of practically everything when it comes to guys there.
Before you go there though – check this really cool thing about.
The text he can’t help responding to.
You hit send then you keep checking your phone and with each passing minute you feel more and more powerless.
Maybe you even feel your phone vibrate in your pocket and pull it out just to see you were imagining things.
All the while knowing it would take him literally 20 seconds to write you back. It’s crazy making.
But before you send him an angry text or give him some sort of ultimatum…
Instead, send him this: The Text Message Every Man Is Dying to Read.
It’s a text you can send a man which virtually guarantees he’ll respond right away.
It works by using something called “Attention Hooks” which gives him a feeling of overwhelming psychological tension that only getting in touch with you will release.
It’s like an itch in his brain that only hearing back from you will scratch. So HE’S the one going crazy waiting to hear back from you, and not the other way around.
The cool thing about Attention Hooks is…
They’re based on the same techniques screenwriters use to grab your attention and keep you watching their movies or to make you click “Watch Another Episode” again and again when you know you should just go to bed.