Reveal How He Feels With Two Quick Text Messages


You’re tired of playing the text game. When a man doesn’t text you back you get worried. The reasons why he doesn’t get back and reveal his feelings.

I bet you’re a “master text-er.” You can whip out your phone faster than any of your guy friends and you know how to use it.

If only your “love life” worked as efficiently as your text messages you wouldn’t have to visit my home today.

You might have your phone under control but those men, you know the ones who elude you at every turn like they’re actually trying to get your blood boiling, have a serious problem texting you back.

And it annoys you so much you feel like ripping your hair out because you just don’t understand…WHY!

Give me a few minutes of your time today and I promise to get to the bottom of why a guy doesn’t text you back and…

You will also get two simple texts to send a guy which will reveal if he’s worth your time and if he’s interested in you.

First let’s get real about this problem.

Men are not the best with their phone skills when it comes to an attractive woman such as yourself. Keep that in mind and expect anything and everything.

It’s no secret lots of men are terrible “texters.” In fact I’ve sold so many “texting guides for men” without even trying that there must be something more going on here than meets the eye.

Here is where I’m going to show you a practically guaranteed method to get him to text you back quicker with two easy texts.

(try it and you’ll see – let me know how it worked for you below)

SEND THIS: I was just thinking about you. 🙂

If you get no response within five minutes…

SEND THIS: HA! And now you have the pleasure of thinking about me. 😉

DO NOT send another text until you hear back from him.

If he’s not into you you’re going to find out quickly.

How he responds says everything about how much he’s attracted to you and what type of guy you’re dealing with.

If he doesn’t respond and you’re completely positive (without a doubt) there’s not a good reason then he probably is not interested in you.

I know it sucks but hey, two texts to see if a guy is into you is not really an investment which is going to break your emotional bank, is it?

I’ll explain why it works.

Men can not resist wondering if a potential girlfriend is thinking about them.

He gets that “cocky” look in his eye when it’s happening and it drives him crazy when he has to guess. (I know driving you crazy is a quick way to get you to feel something or anything for me but that does NOT work on most men. )

He now knows you’re thinking about him and when you “suggest” he’ll be thinking about you, he will have no choice but to do just that.

When a man can not get an image of a woman out of their mind he finds himself desiring her more and more.

Here’s the cool part of about this simple text routine.

You’ll know quickly what TYPE of man you’re dealing with.

He’ll either crumble or step up to the plate of your flirty text. In other words – he will either shut up or put up. And you’re not forcing the issue at all.

Remember you’re merely making a quick statement which doesn’t even require a response.

Now that I’ve covered how to get him to “Man-Up” with you I felt it only right to give you some common and not so common reasons on why a guy does not or can not text you back.

Be sure to heed this important warnings…

  • Don’t over use it on one guy or you’ll kill its effect.
  • Change it slightly to your situation. Constantly develop it and mix in flirty humor.
  • Understand there are reasons beyond a man’s control which make it impossible to respond immediately.
  • If you insist on texting him again before he responds, wait at least 24 hours and then text this, “I think that picture I sent you yesterday is going to get me in trouble. :p “
  • If you are not having fun with it you’re doing something wrong. Write to me what happened and I’ll see what I can do for you.
  • Sending a sexy picture of you will get a response but depending on his age he will show it to his friends so expect that to happen. Younger men in particular.


It’s back! 🙂 Spark some romance into your life or use as a guide (includes tons of great texts to send to guys). The Text The Romance Back 2.0 will give you the exact texts you need to seduce (or re-seduce) the man in your life. Text formulas range from the basic “Curiosity Text” which drags attention to you like a magnet to the amazing “Text Massage” technique where you learn to use texting to give your special someone a “virtual massage” where they swear they can feel your hands on them from miles or continents away.

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167 comments… add one
  • Scarlet

    Hello! So,My crush used to have interest but because I texted and sent a lot of pics, he kind of lost interest in me. To re attract him, I stopped sending pics, texting, and having contact with him. When he text, I would either wait till the day after or just reply with one text. Yesterday he was asking me why I’ve been “inactive”, I replied by saying that I am active with people that are active with me and he said wtf, rude, and sorry and I said it’s okay. I haven’t heard from him since yesterday! So I was wondering if I should use you’re two text messages?? Any thought about my situation??

  • Alyssa

    Does this work for an ex that you’re kind of on speaking terms with trying to judge if they miss you or not? We just broke up a little over a month ago due to him getting stationed across the country and have only texted a couple times. I still love him and it’s killing me to know how he feels.

    • Hey Alyssa,

      I would not suggest you use these type of messages in your situation. First, you’ve been in a relationship which should mean to you he feels something for you. You’ve broken up because of the long distance but that doesn’t change how a guy might feel about you. This a casual type of messaging an since you’ve been in a relationship and communication is very important, I would directly ask him or again, just assume if a guy was committed to you, it means he’s feeling something.


  • Ellie

    Guy I’m interested in and who’s supposedly interested in me. He sucks at texting, and is an “inactive” texter. I don’t see him go on his phone at all when we’re together which makes me happy because I hold his full attention. He’s flirty, fun and keeps telling me all “the right things”. But he’s short over text, and wouldn’t really answer my texts until a day later or two. I decided to try your trick and he just said “sure lol”.

    I really like him but now I just feel defeated.

    • Ellie,

      You can not always 100% tell how a guy feels through text messaging especially when the guy doesn’t revolve around his phone.

      I would look at his actions towards you in person as an indicator of interest. If a guy is consistently asking you out or going out with you AND is treating you differently than he would a close friend, (flirting, etc…) or doing things with you he wouldn’t do with a guy friend – then chances are – he’s interested in you.


  • Fatena

    Hello Peter. Need you advise plz. In short is my situation. I am married with 3 kids 30 years old and as i have rediculosely beautiful fce and body i never had any problems with getting what i want. I met that anesthesist during my surgery and in a blink something happend. Medical etics of course wont let him flirt me so i found him on social media. He is is much older to me 45. Married with 4 kids. We spoked every time we could. Sometimes we cannot coz of our spouses. And then we met for a short date which ended with most hot kiss i ever explained. He told me he felt the same. I dont work. He works i operation theatre and always hecthch. But i feel i m always the one to initiate conversations. He replies fast. But he rately opend conversatio himself. Once he said its coz he is worried for me and when right time. Sometines im so sure he is so freaking much into me. Sometimes i fear he is distant. Although he is the one who constantly ask about futute of this relation and if its gona continue. And even that he can drastically change his life by another marriage. I only joke back telling him to not think much and enjoy a monent. We still didnt hve sex. But his replying routine sometines confusing me. Once he begging to call me. Sometimes he ignor s messages for hours and hours. Any advise or magical txt to know how much he is into me u can suggest ‘me?)

  • Sara

    Hello! So,My crush used to have interest but because I texted and sent a lot of pics, he kind of lost interest in me I think. I mean we’ve had sex once and it was a week ago but then just the texting wasn’t as much as before. Of course he went back to work this week but still, he reads my texts just barely responds. He’s also 5 years younger than me and he got out of a really bad toxic relationship a year ago. He’s told me I was the only girl he’s had anything sexual with in months. I like him and want to have his attention, what should I do?
    Any thought about my situation??

  • Nathalie

    Just wanted to let you know I tested your theory and wrote the text you offered about letting the guy know I was thinking of him. He texted back within 5 mins and texted ‘”Can we meet up babe” ” Can we meet at the Paza”. I didn’t expect that at all hahaha. I guess I was hoping he’d text ‘ me too’ not actually lets meet lol. Maybe he’s more into me than I thought. Your method clearly works. WOW!!!

    • Peter White


      Thanks for sharing Nathalie. Happy it worked for you. All the best to you,


  • Lauren

    Hello! I’m so glad I stumbled upon your website, I’m having issues lol I met a guy online & we have been talking for a little while now…unfortunately it didn’t take long at all for me to get attached & completely fall for him. At first it felt like we talked all day every day but now very little. He lives literally on the opposite side of the world from me so time is opposite as well which is one obstacle I understand. We talked on social media mostly at first but now use WhatsApp & I’m able to see when he is online… he will be online for a while & never message me. Usually after I’ve posted a status is when he will message me saying he thought I didn’t want to talk to Him anymore or asking why I haven’t messaged. Since I see him online a lot I don’t message him because I read somewhere that if if that occurs they’re usually only replying to be polite. So when he asked why I hadn’t talked to him all day i said it was because I figured he was working or sleeping & didn’t want to bother him. So then he says he loves me & I shouldn’t think that way that I can message him anytime also I feel like I’m more interested in knowing things about him than he is about me… I’m interested in the little details just as much as the bigger ones….I’m just so dang confused & pretty much loosing my mind over here trying to figure out what to do & how he actually feels.

  • Jenny

    The guy i like and i have just recently started texting again. We had a class together and talked a little then and texted a little. Sometimes he’ll send blushing emojis when we say goodnight or he’ll send a kissy face emoji. And he asked me when we first started talking again if i have or had ever had feelings for him then i told him and now we’ve just been texting a lot. I want to use these 2 text and find out how he feels but i’ve always been super afraid of rejection. What should i do?

    • Peter White

      He’s sending you kisses and blushing AND he’s asking you if you have feelings for him. What more do you need to know?

      You don’t need the texts, he already is attracted to you in some way.

  • Skye

    I did this and it worked now what lol!!! I’m curious

    • Peter White

      Very cool Skye, Glad it worked.


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