When a guy is staring at you or checking you out and you don’t want to be approached, what do you do and does it work? A small peek into NLP and eye movements shows women how staring back might trigger the human mating ritual and give him the okay to stare more and then approach you. This will also show guys what to look for when and if a woman does want to be approached after the eye contact is made.
Is feeling attracted to someone the reason we don’t approach or meet someone? Is attraction controlling and exposing our fears? Is it a strength or a weakness? We put way too much pressure on ourselves to “perform” when in reality, it’s the performance that often fails because we’re trying to be something better or greater than we believe we are.
So what you’re not some stud women flock to, this gives you an advantage because you are approachable. Take a close look at your world of approaching.
If you behave as if you are sure that talking to someone will be met with a positive response, you will not be nervous or sketchy about it at all.
Single men and women might need a few rules to keep their dating life in check but the rule of who approaches who does not apply anymore.
The fear of approach is a real thing. When a guy wants to meet a girl he must approach her. Ever wonder what it feels like or why he chickens out?