When it comes to break ups I might not be the best possible guy you want to come to.
You see I’ve been single most of my life. Always out there dating one woman after another.
I’m not big on committing.
In fact I’m probably one of the toughest guys you’ll ever get to firmly decide or state, “You’re the one and only for me!”
To me – a relationship feels like I’m trapped and unless a woman can grant me freedom (and I don’t mean sexual freedom) to enjoy my personal time I don’t feel comfortable enough to be able to give it my all.
I’m just not “into” doing things half-way.
It’s all or nothing with me.
So when I looked into Mirabelle Summers “2nd Chance – How To Win Back The Love Of Your Ex” I wasn’t sure on how to pass it on to you…
I thought about my last two break-ups.
How one was her choice.
She got scared and ran away.
Her self-esteem issues was not mine to solve anyways so I let her go and since she was the one who broke it off it is was easy to say goodbye.
The only thing left was the occasional left-over sexual feelings I had for her.
The next break-up was sort-of mutual. At least I thought it was…
She was distancing herself from me – probably because of a huge age gap between us – and once I realized it was best to let her go, she agreed. We talked it out and I actually believed it was going to be easy.
I’ll admit it wasn’t and eventually it hit me pretty hard.
With the first “woman” it was relatively simple.
I wasn’t really that angry with her at all.
I just didn’t care much because I had already moved on before it even happened.
But with the second girl something entirely different happened.
I began to miss the “partnership” we had. We never once fought so my anger had to go to a different place – by getting angry at myself and acting all stupid.
In all honesty I became a mess. I did the whole “drink her off,” date other women, and tried to forget about her by burying myself in my work.
Then by losing all contact with her.
Let’s jump ahead to this whole “2nd Chance” thing…
I watched Mirabelle’s video titled, “3 Ways to Tell if He Secretly Wants You Back” and put myself in my ex’s shoes.
Her questions revealed exactly which woman I wanted back without a doubt.
The information contained within the presentation also confirmed why the second breakup was so much harder and why I acted the way I did after.
Down to the every last detail of my anger, my hurt feelings, and my “manly” attempt to hide my pain.
Stay close to me because you’re about to get yourself into the mind of a guy after a breakup through “Mirabelle’s 3 Questions to ask yourself” to find out if your ex wants you back.
I’m not sure if I’m supposed to reveal them to you but it’s important for you to hear the truth.
She wants you to be honest with yourself and answer these three questions…
1. Do you feel like your ex might be angry with you?
Most people believe love is the opposite of hatred – but it’s not. It’s apathy. A complete couldn’t care less attitude about you. If we’re angry that’s a good sign we care about you. That we still have feelings about you.
Notice how in the first breakup I wasn’t angry. In fact I was a little relieved it was over.
I teach this same concept to men who are afraid of upsetting a woman.
How it’s not good to “piss her off” but it does not mean she doesn’t love you or feel attracted to you.
It just means she feels something for you otherwise she wouldn’t care less.
2. Is he double-bluffing you?
Doing stuff that could make you jealous. Putting on a show about being okay with the breakup. Moving on with his life. Keeping it together like the big strong man he’s “supposed” to be.
With the first woman – the one who had no chance of ever being in another relationship with me, I simply walked away.
I didn’t feel pressured to move on quickly.
My life pretty much picked up right where I had left it off.
But the second one – the girl who still to this day – tugs at my heart: The one and only way I could prove to myself that I was moving on was to immediately forget about her the only way I knew how.
Rather than “break-down” and reveal my inner self I could show her by acting all aloof.
By showing her “other” women were already in my life and how much of a great time I was having without her. Kind of lame but terribly true for so many men.
And just to solidify the truth of it all, when I did break down and “beg” for her to come back ( making me look like a wussy in her eyes so I wouldn’t recommend it) I acted ( so I feel ) so far below what a real man would do – I vowed to never-ever-ever let a woman see that side of me again.
When you watch the video you’ll understand all that so much clearer.
3. Does he appear to be partying a lot, dating other girls, sleeping with other women? Distracting himself.
Women often find themselves wondering this after a breakup, “How could he have moved on so quickly? It seemed like he had replaced me with no feelings at all.”
As you might have already guessed I did exactly those things with the woman I wanted back, and not the one I didn’t.
Mirabelle suggests this,
“It does not mean he is over you. It means the opposite. It means he’s hurting, he’s angry, and he’s trying to get on with his life the only way he knows how. He’s desperate for the one thing he thinks will take all the pain away. Even for just a few moments.”
Okay maybe I AM the right guy to tell you about breakups.
I’ve only had a few but they’ve obviously displayed a certain pattern of my feelings which are predictable and explainable with Mirabelle’s help.
Even in a mutual parting she has proved to me if I really wanted her back. ( Which I did. )
And then with a clever way of seeing men and how we act proved to me why I regretted giving up on the relationship.
If you’ve suffered a recent breakup I encourage you to ask yourself those 3 simple questions and give yourself some well-needed honest answers.
Whether you’re in the “just trying to get over it” mode or if you’ve been apart for some time they could clear up any confusion you might me be feeling.
When you’re ready to dive deep in a man’s heart, whether he’s like me or not, and before you get into another relationship I do suggest you give yourself the few minutes it takes to watch her presentation.
With your answers, and her intuitive advice, you’ll also know if the relationship was or is worth saving…
If you decide you DO want him back you’ll get more than you’ll ever need to make it happen.
Creator: Mirabelle Summers
Nationally Recognized “professional” relationship and dating coach. She has written over 10 popular books on love and commitment. Her almost “anonymous” style has allowed her to avoid the spotlight and become a very well-known secret to men and women everywhere.
Ending a relationship and losing someone you love from your life can be one of the most frustrating and defining moments in your lifetime, and it’s hard to know what the right thing to do is when you are trying desperately to turn things around.
The problem with getting your ex back is that often your first instincts are the ones that are likely to do the most damage.
Begging, crying, pleading, threatening, getting another partner to make them jealous, doing anything to get the attention you are craving, are all things that are going to reinforce the fact that the breakup was the right thing to do.
That’s why Mirabelle Summers‘ “2nd Chance – How To Win Back The Love Of Your Ex” is different.
Summers and her stable of writers at have come up with a 6-step program that is going to take you from getting through the immediate grief, to thinking about what happened, all before initiating contact, knowing what to talk about, and steps for putting love into practice.
If you are serious about rescuing your relationship and winning back the love of your ex, this 6-step plan is going to deliver something pretty substantial. In addition to her comprehensive 6-step system, she also answers key questions covering topics such as:
This ebook is guaranteed to assist even the most desperate relationship situation!
If you want to win back the love of your ex, there is no room for mistakes or techniques that are going to do more damage than good. You need to develop a considered and genuine approach to winning your ex back, and that’s exactly what Mirabelle Summers’ “2nd Chance – How To Win Back The Love Of Your Ex” will do.