Can I tell you something you probably already know?
You can’t convince a woman to like you.
You can’t talk her into feeling attracted to you.
And you certainly you can just ask her to have sex with you. Unless…well I won’t get into that.
But you can persuade her, you can have conversations with her that make her feel attracted to you, and you certainly can increase your chance of “getting laid” by doing the first two things right.
Believe it or not – I tried to convince lots of women to like me. Just not in the most obvious way.
You know what I’m talking about – I believed, maybe, if I was “nicer” than the guys she always dated, I could convince her that I was better than them.
Needless to say – I made a lot of women friends who only wanted me to – I’m sorry, who only wanted something from me.
I actually talked (there I go again…) “guilt ed” one woman, a knockout stripper by the way, to be my date for a wedding.
I figured if we got drunk together something was bound to happen. I believed in the heat of the moment, I could get her to feel attracted to me.
After all isn’t that how women get at weddings?
It worked so well I got to listen to her screw some jack-off guy a few doors down from me. And not some ordinary guy, he was the classic scumbag who felt better about himself hitting women.
I suppose my luck wouldn’t have been any different than if I just blatantly asked her to sleep with me.
But then again, I recall pleading her with one evening with my pathetic display of loneliness and how she was the “only” one for me. And how well we connected. How we belonged together. How I was always there for her and why that wasn’t or couldn’t be enough for her.
That was “my way” of trying to talk her into feeling something for me besides pity.
Totally true story and I’ve left out the details to spare you from having to listen to another sob story of some guy who couldn’t get laid to save his life suddenly transformed into a “chic magnet” who could pick up women even in the toughest places.
Like better than Will Ferrell at a funeral in the movie “Wedding Crashers.”
Aside from this whole “chic-magnet” thing, sure I’ve got something going on there and I won’t lie to you about that, but I’m definitely not the greatest pickup artist in the world.
Actually I rarely ever approach women. I don’t deliver lines. And I don’t typically go out just looking to meet chics…anymore.
But you give me five to ten minutes with any woman without a hearing problem or some serious “man” issues I can create some amazing chemistry.
Which she’ll experience as feeling a little attracted to me.
Give me a little more time and the right desire to have her, you can bet sex becomes not only a viable option but almost inevitable if I rally want it.
I’m sure, well I’m hoping, you want to know how I did it.
Okay, of course I did some major inner game work. I was pretty pathetic, had very little confidence in myself, and downright hated the image I felt stuck with. So I changed it all.
I didn’t just put myself out there like one woman suggested. (Which by the way only put me on a pedestal to be publicly rejected.)
I GOT myself out there and learned how to do at least one thing better…the right way…the one area I failed so miserably at…the one thing I knew and learned was the easiest way to create instant attraction and if I got really good at it, could turn her on…and that way the amazing “skill” of…
Talking to women!
I learned the “art” of attractive conversations. How to tease her and have fun with it. How to “persuade” her into wanting more from me than just some “friendly” talk.
I learned how to lead her in the direction I wanted us to go and not the direction I always felt stuck going to. Boring nowhere questions and answers which made me think women were so hard to connect with I could believe how any guy would even bother trying.
I learned certain differences between how NOT to ask, or demand, and still get what I wanted. And how I didn’t have to do some stupid Jedi mind trick or play a game with her every step of the way hoping she won’t catch on.
Then I suddenly realized it was woman really wanted. Which made it even more fun and I was richly rewarded or it if you know what I mean.
Now you’ll hear a million times in a million different ways how you have to have perfect body language, how you have to have un-shakeable confidence, how you have to gather yourself a strong inner game if you want some serious relationship skills and of course to enjoy a more fulfilled dating and sex life.
And it’s all true.
However that stuff takes time AND you can (probably should) always work on “bettering” yourself. Those skills are incredibly powerful.
But if you still don’t know how to talk to women without “accidentally” trying to convince her to like you, or talking her into feeling something, all that power is practically useless. And I know this from first hand experience.
Having powerful beliefs and values are great but if you force them on others, or don’t know how to convey them “attractively” they won’t help your sex life at all. (Unless you plan on using them to get rich and buy yourself a woman who actually want to be bought. Which I know you don’t want or else you’d be just as bad as the jack-ass above.)
My suggestion is that you take a hard close look at your relationships with women and if they’re not where you WANT them to be, or even if you feel women are boring and so hard to connect with because you seem to like different things…
Ask yourself honestly if you’re satisfied or not. If so, then great!
But if you’re not, or if you’re sick of feeling like you have no control when you start talking to women then…
Give Women Persuasion & Conversation Secrets a serious try.
Dedicate yourself today to NOT just putting yourself out there, but go out and try some of the techniques you’re going to learn. Pay close attention how the emotional energy shifts between you and women.
Now personally I’ve seen these techniques works amazingly well even for a beginner.
Sure you’re going to screw some things up at first but just focus on getting the minimal right and you’ll notice and experience what a difference it does makes.
The guys I’ve personally coached get back to me quickly with almost immediate success stories. Don’t expect an instant lay or suddenly by tomorrow you’ll be that “chic-magnet” but do expect to get more back then what you have to put into doing it.
Expect real-world results and you’ll like what is happening enough to step up to your personal next level expectations in your relationships with women .
Creator: Dean Cortez
Dean sought the help of one of the best “naturals” in LA, who so happened to be… of all things… a hostage negotiator!
Filled with practical tricks, ideas & techniques for charming & seductively attracting women, you’ll know what I mean within the first 10 minutes into the program.
There are simple things that you can do to separate yourself from 99% of the other guys out there, and Dean clearly spelt them out. He covers specific strategies and techniques for starting conversations with women, getting their phone numbers and email addresses, inexpensive and cheap date ideas, and how to take things to a “physical” level smoothly and easily.
Again, the techniques in the book are practical and easy to use. There is nothing you will have to memorize or study. You can start using what you learn right away.
- How to use “power phrases” that can control a woman’s emotional state and trigger her attraction switches to turn a boring, standard conversation into a compelling, fun and flirty ones
- Breakthrough techniques to “control the flow.” No nervous small talk. No awkward silences. You’ll know how to hold her attention, while building her curiosity and interest in you
- How to lead a woman down the “path to yes” instead of giving her reasons to say “no” in your interactions with her
- Ways to neutralize the other men who are after your woman, without ever having to confront them.
- How to calibrate with a woman’s emotional state, get her to open up, give herself ENTIRELY to you
- … and much more!
Remember: A woman doesn’t have to like you to *feel* attraction for you. Attraction happens on its own… regardless of other things happening at the same time.
Certain traits and communication techniques trigger “attraction”… and if you know what they are, and how to amplify them, you can then create results that will look like MAGIC to others watching.
…and if you’d like to be one of the few men on this planet that actually “gets it” when it comes to this “advanced level” of communication, check this out: Try Persuasion and Conversation Mastery Today.